***JANUARY 2019 UPDATE: SO close lately, but yet so far. Really enjoyed some recent contact, but still haven't connected. For those taking a peek, I appreciate the interest. In addition to a flirt, I'd love to get a message/email so we can communicate (I'm still a standard member). Take a minute...email me ;) Hmmm...late 30's and STILL not satisfied. Have always longed for a broadening of my sexual horizons, but never found the right venue. I've been on here a few years casually taking things in on a bit of a search without a purpose. Over that time, I've honed it down to know exactly what I'm looking for. In short, I want to find a couple to help me explore my MFM fantasy. Why MFM? Well, there is something about it that has always turned me on. Something about 2 men pouring all of their energy into pleasing a woman over and over and over again just seems like fun for all. I am straight, but also very open-minded and willing to try almost anything once. However...this fantasy for me is all about helping focus on the woman and making her the center of attention. I guess you can say I am a team player :) I am a very busy professional in Kirkland. Long hours for work, lots of travel, too. Finding time can be difficult, but this is more of a hobby for me than a lifestyle (at this point). I'm a patient guy, so hopefully you are, too. I am 5'9", 185 lbs (athletic build, but not the gym freak I used to be), dark hair and eyes. I have a great smile and love to laugh. Below the belt I am about 6" with girth (not a cock or anything, so if that's your thing, probably not the right match) and cut. Trimmed/shaved chest and below the belt. Attitude-wise, I am about as laid back and easy going as they come. Love to just lounge around with friends and tell stories over a beer/glass of wine. I try not to take life too seriously. Love meeting people, even though I have a bit of a shy streak (don't worry, its easy to coax me out of it :) ) Once I find the right couple, I'm up for almost anything. Prefer to meet in a neutral location first (coffee/drink/etc) and from there am willing to do whatever (play on the first date, play at a motel/hotel, play at your place, etc).

My Ideal Person I am hopeful to find a down-to-earth, fun couple that is willing to help expose me to the lifestyle. Low pressure, high reward situation. Ideally they would be HWP (don't need to be Ken and Barbie), attractive, fun, and casual. The kind of couple that can meet me for a drink, conversation, and flirting and, if the chemistry is there, head back to their place or a nearby motel for my lesson.

Another big thing for me is respecting boundaries and discretion. I recognize that if I am invited into the bedroom with another couple, I am a guest. I am not going to expect to come in and take charge and make the events all about me. As a guest (and in part due to my shy streak), I will allow the couple to take the lead and follow the flow. For professional and personal reasons, I prefer to keep it simple. You can be Jane and John...I'll be Joe. I don't need to know life stories and be your new BFF. I'm looking for casual and easy...this is about adult fun, not building myself a new social life. I am sure there must be another professional couple out there with similar wants and desires.

With that in mind, the ideal couples for me would be ones from the outlying areas of Seattle (Everett, south end, east side, Olympia, etc). Even couples in town for the weekend (or week) looking for some fun to spice up a vacation/business trip.

However...ideal is only ideal and rarely reality.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Public sex....perhaps in a dressing room at a department
store.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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