First up. Plenty of people have their preconceptions on here. We're all here primarily for our own idea of fun. I won't judge you – please don't judge me. In the end it is down to indulging each other in a manner that is respectful, playful and without pressure. It's about augmenting the every day with something that makes the heart pump a little faster. This is the difficult part – giving people a guide to who you are can be hard without seeming arrogant. Talking about yourself tends to sound that way, but I guess there isn't much other option. Please excuse the indulgence. People seem to consider me attractive and athletic (Apparently), but basically I'm just an adventurous normal guy who loves to laugh and play. I always have a twinkle in my eye and a cheeky smile and I'm the kind of guy who loves to indulge a girl. Obviously I'm after fun with a playful girl but I've also enjoyed MFF and MFM straight fun. I'm 39 but I look closer to 30 (let's substantiate that – people tend to guess 35 or less. I'm guessing because I dress younger than my age and I'm young at heart in nature and yes I have a bit of a baby face). Not to say there's no smile lines. Pleasure is vicarious for me – I get my pleasure from other peoples pleasure. Note: Life is a bit manic at the moment so planning can be difficult. As a rule if I'm on here I'm available. I know spontaneous isn't everyone cup of tea though. Please don't hesitate to contact me – Making friends for the future is always fun anyhow :)

My Ideal Person Obviously I'm after fun with a playful girl but I've also enjoyed MFF and MFM straight fun, with a similar playful attitude to myself.