i was going to delete all this, but it's now like a yearbook of a life in transition. below is how i've defined myself in the past in here. now: i'm a happily working teacher. i have a bf and gf and a nice poly relationship. i have lotsa good friends who i love and love me. i like aff because there's great ppl to chat with about sex and identity, sex and christianity and all the deep stuff in life. that's why i'm in here. and enjoy reading about my journey below! holly. ---------------------- smwr=SunMoonWindRain i've slammed the church doors behind me. at least conservative christian church doors. it's time to grow. i'm done with the hypocritical assexual church ladies and sexual repression. mine particularly. i'm stepping out and i need to LIVE. ok. so if u look above at what i'm looking for, you'll see that i don't meet people in real life from meeting them online. my real life is fun and rich and wonderful [most the time anyway] :) so my online life is about talking, sharing life, experiences, stories, wisdom, pen pal kinda stuff...but with a sexual spin in it. so if you wanna meet up with me, the answer's no. ok? nothing peral. :) and if you feel the need to bug me by asking why, find out what a peace bond is. i know too much about them to bother with hooking up in per again. also, pix. i won't post any. if you email me and indicate that you've actually read my profile and we hit it off, i'll send you a pix. but i don't swap. [at least pix of me]. i plan to be a teacher some day. :) [update...i am a teacher now. yay!] be well! oh yes, i'm no longer in greater penticton. though i grew up there, i was at university 'at an undisclosed location' in western canada [with dick cheney]. :) when i'm not in vancouver. so if you're in the OK and are bugging me about meeting me at a Tims somewhere, you clearly haven't read this. you will not be well received. :) am i high maintenance enough for you yet? :) new updates. i've got a nice open relationship with my boytoy in vancouver. i have a the same deal with my boytoy at school. at school i live in a house with 3 people i love to death, 2 girls and a gayboy. one girl is les, the other's a new bi, the boy is gay [mostly]. we have pancakes every saturday morning [sometimes sundays]. people in my online world are adorable and crucial in going through experiences about life and such. talking about there issues/experiences and processing them, and the same with mine. it's rich and lovely and i wouldn't trade it for the world. if you are gay or straight or in between, boy or girl, or couple, and you think you'd fit in with what i've got going on, i welcome you. and my headline above describes me and other stuff i do online. i'm still a christian and i spend lots of time talking about how sex fits in with the non-married christian per's life. if you are christian or have experience with christians romantically or sexually, i'm eager to hear from you and share with you. in touch, holly

My Ideal Person girls and couples to play with. new experiences. and things to open my eyes. online penpal kinda stuff only.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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