UPDATE 7/2/12: I am now also part of a couple's profile here; we are Smugfux. Been on here a couple of years now, and I've met some terrific people. Made a lot of friends, and all in all, I have very few regrets. I know who I am, what I am...and I also know what I am not. 1/29/11: I just got married to another member. My new wife is Haro_Kiti. And yes, we are both still on the site, so.... I'm safe, sane, balding, clean, employed, tall, intelligent, overweight, nice, sober, often forgetful, polite, articulate, a dreamer, fun, respectful, and sometimes even thoughtful. I am NOT: bisexual or gay, judgmental, closed-minded, your bitch, an ATM, heartless, a smoker, gullible, mean-spirited, pessimistic, rich, hung like a , moody, or a homebody. Some folks here have found that I can be a best friend. Others have observed that if disrespected, I can be a real hard case. I won't do anything rotten to you, please don't do it to me. And if you were wondering if you can find love on AFF, well, yes you can. If I have not already done so, allow me to welcome you to Silence Nation! Look for me in the NY Area room.

My Ideal Person First of all, looks are a bonus, not a basis. The sexiest part of you is what's between your ears. I am a sucker for intelligent women. If you drink, I don't mind, but please let me drive. Look me up for a good time, in or out of the bedroom.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Motorhead, Disturbed, Kiss, Spinal Tap, T. Nugent, Black
Sabbath, Zodiac Mindwarp& The Love Reactio

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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