I am now through a difficult divorce after twenty-eight years. However, I am not really looking that for someone to date regularly. If you cannot: converse intelligently with me about a subject with which I am not familiar; listen and be interested in what I do; Speak carefully to say what you mean and listen for the undertones of what I say; Take care to make yourself attractive - to all five senses; Pay attention to who you are with now - not who you were with last night, last year, or in your dreams and lastly and most importantly, laugh at the funny things and foibles in this world - don't bother Because I will be doing all of that for anyone I meet. Most people guess me at five to ten years younger than I am. That "athletic" translates to 170 lbs. S&P hair, rather tan. I have learned that good things come not to he who waits, but to he who takes his time to create those good things. Causing and creating pleasure for my partner actually is directly pleasurable to me. Any other direct pleasure is a bonus. Discretion is [U]absolutely[/U] important to me and quality time is more paramount than exploring this entire website.

My Ideal Person A good sense of humor without being bubble-headed. I generally spend time in the company of people, men and women, younger than I because most of the folks my age have begun to plow into their ruts. My life takes me into varied pursuits, from box seats at the symphony to bowhunting with cow manure on my boots. The lady I meet doesn't need to GO to all the places. But to be able to relate would help. And being able to enjoy the outdoors is pretty much necessary. Last thing, if you smoke or LIVE with a smoker, I wish you the best, but never mind.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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