I am a 50 year black woman who weight 137 lbs. 5'1 tall. My husband is a 61 year old white 185 lbs 6'0 tall. It is our 10 year anniversary and I wanted to give this a try. We plan to use condoms and my husband prefers not to kiss the other woman because he considers that cheating. He is nervous and so am I but I want this to be a positive experience. W we would rent a hotel room for discretion but we plan on sleeping by ourselves for the night. I am definitely bi-curious. I think my husband would be more of an observer but I hope that I can get him to participate.