Gosh, well...I'm an emerald in the rough. I was married for 10 years to a much older man who ended up abusing my submissive nature and naivety. I had a short relationship afterwards, but that is over now and I feel like a babe in the woods. I just really want to find a confident, secure, helpful gentleman to be there for me to talk to. I never had a daddy or a Daddy and am really missing that feeling I never had before in life--being cherished and protected. I am honest to a fault even when it isn't in my best interest and I am the first to own my flaws. I am educated and cultured and have various strange hobbies. I suppose some would call me a geek. I love astronomy, art, paleontology, cosmology. My dream is to become a librarian (whether sexy or not I'll leave you to decide!) I enjoy body art, tight lacing corsetry, and body modification. I also have a wide variety of sexual interests. I suppose one could call me "kinky" 😉 Maybe you are a bit of a nerd yourself, with an edge. You are possibly a bit introverted like me. You are generous and understanding and kind and you recognize that the past is the past and live for the future. You are enthusiastic about your hobbies and love to share them with others. Also, you have a Daddy spirit and have the bandwidth to genuinely care for a girl.