Oh I am just another one of the many women here in "The Haystack" .. I don't necessarily have expectations in relation to a place like this. I am always interested in exploring and developing connection especially the mental part. I find it personally necessary for any and all possibilities. I take my time and I am observant. If I do not respond immediately, please do not take it personally. Unfortunately, I don't have much time to read or respond to all the messages that come to the inbox.. and now it seems that the new website 'system' has made it impossible for me to read most of the messages that are locked up in my inbox... unless I pay for the gold that is 😝 but in the past.. I would literally ignore my inbox at times as well, because I find it overwhelming and those kinds of feelings are not why I pulled back the curtains here in the first place. I am interested in exploration and knowledge of myself. I am drenched in vanilla.. and I am looking to change that and cross some items off the bucket list while I am at it. I DO NOT meet up immediately so please don't ask if we just started talking/messaging. I like to explore the possible connection first and see if there is a spark and intrigue before making decisions like that. I find it necessary for anything to develop into what hopefully be unforgettable experiences.

My Ideal Person A DOMINANT GENTLEMAN. Knows what he wants.. More than familiar with women, a womans body, and what it takes and is required to push a lady over the edge (so to speak). Confident, but not cocky. At this stage of my life, I tend to be attracted to older men than myself.. no offense to younger men, but a lot of what I search for and attracts me just comes with time and experience. A man who is not selfish.. I have plenty of experience with that.. thank you but no thank you. Someone that I can build trust with, in order to feel comfortable exploring the places I have never been and pushing personal boundaries. Someone who doesn't mind holding my hand into the darkness. Patient.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I am kind of old school... so it basically just looks like
sex in public, outdoors in the wild, or the library

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage, dom/sub activities

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
I search for a connection on multiple levels

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

View more of HoneyedWords's responses