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So what is the average endowment of a man   10/28/2004

When you sign up you have to answer a number of questions, we've all done it or we wouldn't be here. You then get the opportunity to answer more questions to build up your profile. When it came to male endowment I entered "average" but is that right? 7" long 5" round, come on boys and girls. the more responces the better the result. What do you think is average?


5 Comments, 44 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_cplcam2cam 44 C
5  Articles
Great BookofSex.com   10/28/2004

This is excellent site.. ..


2 Comments, 31 Views, 26 Votes ,5.61 Score
SexVirussss 40 M
139  Articles
Same-Sex-Marriages   10/27/2004

If two males or females have love for each other and take care in good and bad times, I would still call that relationship as "Friendship" unless it involves physical intimacy. In case you want to refute what I said, you need to answer some fundamental questions... 1. what in the meaning of sex as in gender? 2. why sex or physical intimacy? 3. what is marriage and what does it mean ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Advice for the married man......   10/27/2004

I need help starting a fire in the bedroom....not only has our sex life disappeared, but I need help in trying to convince my wife to give oral a try...receiving that is! She truely believes it's an unhealthy act and disgusting...


4 Comments, 12 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
How long really is it...?   10/26/2004

My first post here....so i'm hoping it in the right place! <br> Hi everyone... <br> So when measuring a mans size does everyone think it should be measured from tip to base on the underside or the top side?


2 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Ragnorok1018 38 M
2  Articles
Need help searching   10/26/2004

Now im an 18/m in wichita and i have a really big problem....i dont know anyone and im extremly shy. i have so many girls at my job that i like and wanna talk to but im just to shy to approach them i see girls out in the malls and everywhere but anytime i come up with something to say to them they have already left its getting really lame and im kinda sick of it does anyone have any advice ...


3 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
supersly2004 50 M
9  Articles
nice to be honest   10/25/2004

why will someone ask for, fun in london, via the chat room, at least 10 guys will reply, yet none are compatible.....??? same lady, does the same again n again, think its the only way she'll feel wanted...curvy.....


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
supersly2004 50 M
9  Articles
network invites....   10/25/2004

why do some ladies, accept my network invite, then don't wanna chat.....is ti cos they got no pics..


1 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
Now what?   10/25/2004

Ok, you start out as fuck buddies and then one of you falls for the other. One of you is not as evolved as the other and is still mad at the world for the shitty hand they've been dealt. They are acting out in all sorts of detrimental ways (DUI, & unprotected sex)and one is trying to be as supportive as possible without getting suck in to the negativity. Now for the help. The ssex is ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
Drizze69 32 M
1  Article
Trying to fix what I messed up   10/25/2004

Here is the situation. I was dating this girl and we were pretty serious at the time. Then my high school sweet heart comes back and tells me she wants to try "us" again. So I break up with my girlfriend at the time and get with my high school sweet heart. It didn't work out between my high school sweet heart and I. So now me and my ex-girlfriend are kinda talking but neither one of us ...


3 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Help   10/24/2004

How do I get my sexy wife interested in having group sex?


2 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
Whats going on with our points ?   10/24/2004

Does it take a few days or a week for an answer to an article or a posted article to get approved? I could not find this anywhere, I hope I did not overlook it somewhere. What I’m wondering is why I did not get any points for answers, posted articles, or on some votes. Has anyone else had this problem? Is the point limit less than what is shown here?


1 Comments, 6 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
MFM With your wife   10/23/2004

My wife really wants to have a MFM encounter. Just wondering if anyone with this experience could give me advice on whether I should let her do it or not. Thanks.


3 Comments, 91 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
friskymami69 38 F
4  Articles
Giving Oral   10/20/2004

Guys Guys GUys... When you are giving oral dont be scared. Jsut go for it. I had this one guy who didnt knwo what he was doing. He sprea the top on my pussy lips apart to the point were i thought he was going to rip them apart. Then you guys...Dont put teast the clit...slide down the middle into the hole and tounge fuck it. dont just focus on one thing. <br> <br> ...


2 Comments, 35 Views, 35 Votes ,6.94 Score
I want a threesome but the wife doesnt.   10/18/2004

A couple of months ago my wife and I had a threesome with a friend of mine. Since thats all she talked about. So I finally gave in.. But I put a stipulation in it. The stipulation was that if i did this for her then she would have to return the favor for me....Well it hasnt happened yet... I asked her why she didnt want to have another 3some (her and another woman) what I got was tht she is ...


3 Comments, 48 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
Need HELP about STALKER!!!   10/17/2004

Well just recently I have dubbed this girl who always to find herself at the same clubs and bars and constantly calls me every weekend, my stalker! Last night we were at a club, but I was really drunk, and I ended up making out with her. Near the end of the night I ducked out of the club, but she followed me home!!! What do I do?!?


2 Comments, 5 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Youbeourfirst 57 C
3  Articles
WHAT'S THE BEST WAY TO SWIFTLY WEED OUT TIMEWASTERS ?   10/17/2004

After being swamped with responses from supposed couples, we are slowly figuring out that even those we tried to trust have on the whole been total time-wasters or liars with descriptions etc. We'd appreciate your shared experience on this matter as it is getting rather tedious. <br> xx


0 Comments, 37 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
RE: Married But Not To Each Other   10/16/2004

I could hardly read your article because I was somewhere close to 90% sure it was written by my lover of the past year and a half to catch my attention. You are us; though I am divorced and have been for 4 years. In November he will celebrate his 25th Wedding anniversary with his sweet wife, the mother of his beautiful daughters, the woman who has him. He loves her, I have no doubt about ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 18 Votes ,4.22 Score
STD protection during FF contact   10/16/2004

Being a married couple we are concerned over STD if we swing or invite a 3rd person into sexual relationship. With any sexual encounter between M and F we can use a condom but can anybody suggest or know if protection required for FF contact.


2 Comments, 94 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
anal/also gangbang help please   10/13/2004

OK, I've asked for help before and no replies, so I'm asking again. First, I'm seeing a terrific guy, but I always seem to want more sex than he does. So, I've ventured into a few situations to try to be fulfilled. I liked sex with a couple, but honestly I think it's hard for the guy to please both women. Now I'd love to be with several guys at once. Thinking of going to a swing club dance, would ...


2 Comments, 153 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
water sports   10/13/2004

how many women enjoy water sports and why do people think its so wrong is it ok with a long term partner???????


1 Comments, 91 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Listen up, gentlemens! Da goan sho 'nuff 'splain it to you!   10/12/2004

Alright, my home slices, one and all, i get more play then a stud bull on a milk run, so listen up. Da wolfie gots some wordz fer y'all. First off, treat women as people. That's right, daddy, girls like to talk as much about anything as we do. You think they go to the bathroom in teams to talk about you? Puh-leez! Second, if you want her to do anything freaky, do it yo' own ...


4 Comments, 27 Views, 38 Votes ,4.65 Score
Ready to go?   10/12/2004

Hey Everybody!! I've been on this site for a little while, but still have yet to "fully use" it's potential.. Wanting to learn, but also debating leaving the site, just for lack of action.. I would love to hear from you.. Tips; pointers; or to actually get together - which I'd prefer.. Mail me, & lets start using this site for what it's intended!! Hope to hear from you soon!!


1 Comments, 18 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
To avoid "size issues"....   10/11/2004

I found this to be very helpful in not dissapointing someone you want to meet...Be honest. If you are not petite, be upfront about it in your profile. I made it a point to put my dress size on my profile. I'm not interested in meeting someone who is expecting a perect size six Victoria Secret model, then getting a normal (but attractive size 11/12 chick. There's no point in trying to ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 37 Votes ,8.23 Score
ron64andrhonda69 59 C
1  Article
How do you know when you are ready to swing?   10/11/2004

My honey and I are new to this. We just put our ad in BookofSex.com. We are looking for another couple to have great adult time with and make a long lasting friendship. We have both agreed not to swap. We are willing to watch and be watched. We have not found a couple yet that is willing to do that. So how do you know when it is a good time to swap?


0 Comments, 11 Views, 0 Votes
married and lonley   10/11/2004

How can a married person who has never went outside there marriage find someone to be with that they can trust not to say anything and that is safe.


2 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
sweety put on some clothes   10/10/2004

guys--just because you want to see naked pics of us right away the reverse is not correct! the people i respond to as a woman are those of guys nicely dressed, with a nice smile. the guys who complain women arent paying attention should go to their profiles and show us pics of the sex organ between their ears, not the one between their legs.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Re: MFM Do women like to see the men give head?   10/10/2004

I have had several couples (man and woman) in the past ask if I would mind either giving the man head or vice versa. The women usually put this question forth. I am always hesitant, but I don't like saying no to something that turns someone else on. Is this something that is particularly arousing for many couples?


2 Comments, 42 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Edge3 61 M
2  Articles
RE: What kind of pics do men like to see posted?   10/9/2004

I agree with the gentleman below. We like to see the full figure with a pretty face if you do not mind showing us. Also, please, get some good lighting in the photo so we can see detail. It is always more aluring if you are truely turned on when you take the picture, either just after arousal or even during a sexual event. This lends some extra color to your face and other beautiful sections ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
HELP - This IS a "Sex & Swinger Personals site," right???   10/8/2004

I am baffled. I just got a very insulting e-mail from a female BookofSex.com member who just totally blasted me bc I am a married man and looking for an affair (i.e. you are a coward, not a real man, just looking to use women, etc.) I am certainly no angel, but I certainly do not feel I deserve that "hate-spewing" description. If you will humor me for a minute, I have some thoughts I need to get ...


4 Comments, 12 Views, 18 Votes ,4.63 Score