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867LOVE2206 45 M
10  Articles
Understanding Men   4/19/2005

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. <br> 2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. <br> 3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone. <br> 4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. <br> 5. Stop trying to change yourself for a ...


6 Comments, 293 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
rm_reisaree 42 F
11  Articles
Handling Gossip   4/16/2005

I have found that the best way to handle gossip, when it concerns yourself is to simply ignore it. If its true, well, so what... And if its not true, well, yes, you guessed it.. so what!... <br> It takes way too much energy to chase down each and every he said she said type of thing. Its not worth it. You know what is true and what is not. If people you know don't want to ...


2 Comments, 116 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
how do you handle hook up endings?   4/15/2005

After you meet how do you handle the ending? <br> Just shake hands and say thanks? What if you don;t want arepeat and the other person/s do?


2 Comments, 153 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
FreeAgain21 61 F
8  Articles
Look Inside, Not Out   4/14/2005

I'm one of those people who needs to lose about 25 lbs. Right now, I would say I am average to ample. I hold my weight well, and unless completely naked, it's hard to tell I am overweight. Not being conceited, I am attractive, honest, open-minded, and easy-going. For the last month I have been eating right, and exercising, and feel really good about my progress. However, I have a problem ...


1 Comments, 195 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
babygirl43100 53 F
12  Articles
I need this answered   4/14/2005

Why is it when you hook up with a guy he says he wants to see you again and then he doesent ever come around again? I have read many profiles and there are just as many who say they want LTR as there are those who want no strings.So are there any men out there who realy want LTR?


5 Comments, 223 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
A question about online etiquette   4/14/2005

I have been watching the "who's online now" page, hoping to find local ladies who are chatting, or on IMC. <br> Often, when I find them, and click on the chatting or IMC link, I get no reply, and find them gone from the chat, or get no reply to the IMC page. <br> Wondering if I am viewed as "stalking", which is not my intent. <br> Do ladies feel uncomfortable ...


1 Comments, 111 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
CrazyMan2125 44 M
2  Articles
Do you choose become a angel or a devil ?   4/14/2005

I think more interesting to see god from hell...what do you think ?....... sometimes you only need god when you unhappy....what do you thin ?


1 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
1000 Words   4/13/2005

I've been on this site a good while. I've picked up on some patterns in profiles. I'll addres two. I'm a single straight woman looking for my male counterpart. In searching male profiles it seems some straight men find it necessary to emphasize their lack of interest in other men. This leads me to believe they've had the circumstance to have to reject offers from other males. Also ...


0 Comments, 184 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
Men, how soon is too soon for sex?   4/13/2005

If you know that you don't respect women who will give you sex too soon, why do you encourage, push for it or even ask? Do you like having sex with women who you don't even respect? How soon is too soon to YOU? Is it the first date after a few drinks? Is it on the second or third date? Is it after a few weeks or a few months of dating/seeing one another? I think this is always a ...


3 Comments, 151 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
makemecumcrazy85 39 F
1  Article
Big And Beautiful   4/10/2005

This is advice to all women. Remember that you are all beautiful no matter what size you are. I've come to relize that not all of us are suppose to look like barbie dolls. Not all men are into smaller sized women. Big women have real good curves too! What it all comes down to is love yourself for who you are and dont let anyone make you feel uneasy about your appearence the most ...


1 Comments, 297 Views, 18 Votes ,6.67 Score
hot_doctor_usa 46 M
18  Articles
Are breasts an erogenous zone?   4/10/2005

Erogenous zones" are parts or areas of human body that provide sexual arousal when touched. It is commonly noted (and various magazines have had polls on this) that apart from the genitals, the erogenous zones vary tremendously between individuals - even within Americans. Some people like to have their breasts caressed, some like their neck or thighs being touched, or belly or feet etc. ...


1 Comments, 147 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_acgillib 45 M
1  Article
Lonely lover   4/9/2005

I am having trouble finding love after being in a full time relationship for a number of years withstanding numerous anxious times the relationship unfortunately dissolved since that time (6 years) I have not been able to find anyone serious since I've been with other women since one-nighters the longest has been about a month, what am I doing wrong??


1 Comments, 56 Views, 0 Votes
rm_capt_hartley 46 M
4  Articles
Going down   4/9/2005

Why is it that a large number of men don't like to go down on their girl, but expect a blowjob? For me pleasing my woman orally is as good as it gets. I prefer going down on a woman than getting a blowjob.


2 Comments, 89 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Swallow!   4/7/2005

I've read that some girls, (or males, ) on this site do not like to swallow when it comes to giving a blowjob. Well, I learned a trick back in high school that MIGHT help. When you are sucking his dick really good. (I mean so good until he tells you he is on the verge of cumming in your mouth!) There is a little ridge between his testicles, and his dick. Gently hold that part, and it ...


6 Comments, 649 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
Black_Mini_Skirt 50 F
1  Article
Female & Male Parts   4/7/2005

For the life of me I dont understand why some members are under the impression that thier "private parts" look "good" enough to show to other members such as myself. <br> You can "never" go wrong with a pair of breast cause breast will be breast saggy or perky. <br> A hard cock looks much better than a soft one in my opinion. <br> NOW here comes my arguement, not ...


5 Comments, 299 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
FreeAgain21 61 F
8  Articles
Go for the Points   4/7/2005

As a standard member it is difficult to make contact with people you would be interested in getting to know better. So, obviously, the Silver and Gold memberships are great, and not that expensive, for a site like this. However, a lot of people can't have BookofSex.com charges appearing on their credit card each month. <br> So, I say "go for the points". I realize it only gets you a one ...


4 Comments, 140 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
hot_doctor_usa 46 M
18  Articles
Nipple Stimulation   4/5/2005

What is Nipple Stimulation? Gentle rubbing or rolling of the nipple, or suckling of the nipples to encourage contractions is called nipple stimulation. <br> Why does Nipple Stimulation work? Oxytocin, a hormone that causes contractions, is released in the body when the breasts are stimulated. After the baby is born, this release is important for the involution (returning to ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 0 Votes
funtime68692 56 C
3  Articles
curious female   4/4/2005

I have never been with a woman before but have always found them sexy and thought of them in ways that i would think of a man I like .I have had friends that are bi and have flirted with me but then i freeze up and shy away so what am i so affraid of? I would to try it out.


4 Comments, 282 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
MyHeartLost4U 59 M
12  Articles
Advice to being successful that some members look for.   4/4/2005

Over my years as a member of the FriendFinder site I have seen others ask for advice or complain about being successful. Once again I am going to try and give you some of my suggestions and tips to the ones that been asking for help. These are some of the things that made me successful. I found what I wanted, why not you? All it takes is to knowing how to use the tools and how you go about ...


0 Comments, 221 Views, 13 Votes ,5.16 Score
rm_dannyg_nb 53 F
9  Articles
Body Beautiful   4/3/2005

Come on girls, we all know that the majority of women are not front page material for a men's glossy magazine. <br> While the ongoing battle to loose weight or the search for that ever so simple diet continues i have a few tricks to be and feel sexy even when you know that things aren't how you want them. <br> Mood... <br> Lighting can make all the ...


2 Comments, 182 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
rm_horny34769 42 F
1  Article
What do I do???   4/1/2005

I have been living with a guy i met from BookofSex.com and we r very much alike and we get along gr8...problem is he has had a phone buddy for 2 years and well u know how that is she just filed for divorce from her husband and i think she is expecting my bf to move there when it is done well enter me i have been living with him for 3 mths and we have both expressed the L word ONCE and then things got ...


7 Comments, 198 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Do you believe them?   3/31/2005

I'm new here on HotMatch and I wonder how serious you should take pictures and profiles of people? How serious do you take the things people tell you in they're profile and do you believe they're picture is real?


2 Comments, 89 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Sinderlicious 59 F
5  Articles
The Cock Catalog   3/31/2005

I have enough unsolicited random cock shots to open a catalog. I'm SURE there's one of every size, shape and color. Some that are rather pretty and some that damn near blinded me. One that I thought I was gonna need therapy over. STOP IT!!!!!!!!! <br> Personally, I don't want to see a picture of your munchkin unless I ask for it. I'd like to unwrap my own present thank you ...


5 Comments, 554 Views, 31 Votes ,6.98 Score
Mick8192 45 M
1  Article
Straight guy looking to lose anal virginity   3/31/2005

I'm a straight guy who has a fantasy to lose my anal virginity to a large room of guys. I would like to get my ass pumped for hours. <br> The problem is that I've been trying to get a group of guys on this site for months now. Why is nobody interested?


2 Comments, 260 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Is it strange not to like Oral Sex?   3/31/2005

It shocks most people when guys say that they are not into oral sex. I am one of those people. It does not appeal that much to me. I would rather give than recieve oral sex. I feel this way because it takes to long for me too reach a climax by oral. By the time it is reached I am tired and my partners mouth is numb. Im just looking for a little input on this subject.


2 Comments, 247 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
Having a clue!   3/29/2005

After viewing and reading articles on this site , it leaves me wondering what kind of men or man feels that by flopping the their penis in a picture is something that the woman here want to see. As a man and straight man I have no interest in seeing another mans penis. Women, is this what your looking for here? Is that what sets the men apart here? If so I must have women all wrong in my ...


1 Comments, 229 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_MiosotisX 67 F
8  Articles
We are all Adults here   3/28/2005

this is an BookofSex.com personals site. so if you are looking for sexual partners and you say you can't get enough and some replies to your ad who atleast will be willing to meet your erotic demands try to contact you, (ladies)... what more do you want. whats the problem.You know there more men here seriously looking for sex than women. <br> I see that there are a lot of ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 17 Votes ,3.83 Score
What up with this site?   3/27/2005

Hi everyone I've been a member on this site for over a year and still have not met another member in person. I have had a few people talk to me but nothing more I'm not rude in any of my messages but still nothing am I doing something wrong any advice would be welcome also if you are in KC, MO and would like to meet up send me a message I am a 27 year old man. All advice is welcome hope to ...


1 Comments, 192 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_FoxyDevil666 54 F
1  Article
To some men.. but NOT all of you   3/27/2005

To those men that feel the need to post a picture of their cock. It's all good nice to see the goods, kinda like window shopping before you pick out one you like. BUT pls pls pls.. if your going to post the old boy for all of us to view.. PLEASE give him a nice shave and a hair cut.. don't like to have to dig threw the bush to find the sticks.. <br> Love ya all Foxy


7 Comments, 259 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
rm_OKCharlie 69 M
6  Articles
Are there any genuine people   3/27/2005

When I originally joined BookofSex.com, being free and single I thought it was a great opportunity to have some no strings attached sex. I soon realised that meeting women was an impossibility. I then saw it has an opportunity to put my fantasies into practice and meet up with men. But guys will look, they will wink and they will exchange messages but can I get to meet anyone? No chance. Guys will ...


2 Comments, 169 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
How to get a friend to join us in a threesome?   3/26/2005

Hello everyone, <br> We have a friend that we would like to have a threesome with and not sure how to go about getting her to join us. We all flirt with each other and she shows us her tits all the time. We think she is up with doing it but the one thing we are having a problem with is she is married. What should we do?


1 Comments, 278 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
_KodiakBear 61 M
0  Articles
understanding men/women nature   3/26/2005

Men and women must understand their differences, and this is all about nature. What is sex in nature? It is for reproduction. What is reproduction for man and what is it for a woman? For a man it is half an hour job... the more women he meets, the higher the chance to reproduce himself. For a woman it is 9 months when their carry the baby in their womb and few years until the can ...


0 Comments, 67 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
leo220867 57 M
1  Article
What's the best way to make my penis bigger?   3/25/2005

I see so many different methods on the net but have not tried any of them because I am not sure which one's work and which one's are just a money making scam. The methods I have seen include stretching using a type of brace or by dangling weights from the end, pills that supposedly enlarge the tissue that causes swelling of the penis and then there are pumps. Has anyone tried to enlarge ...


3 Comments, 309 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_critter696 42 M
1  Article
What do women really want?   3/24/2005

What is it that women really want? Thats one thing that I have never been good with, whether I try or not. I try and listen and do what they ask and I get nothing, I just act like myself, nothing. What am I missing?


2 Comments, 167 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Can Anyone help   3/23/2005

I'm not having alot of luck on BookofSex.com. I have pictures and a good profile (I THINK).I'm not having any luck getting a chance to meet a couple. Some write back saying we can meet, and then when iI go to set it up they don't answer anymore e mails. Can anyone help me?


2 Comments, 119 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_sonny49444 80 M
13  Articles
want to know   3/23/2005

Why is it that every men dreams of seeing two girls having sex. But woman dont like two men having sex. If a man is bi sexual he is shuned by most women. and just the opposit with two women


1 Comments, 144 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Romance4utoday 68 M
1  Article
Why don't ladies respond to mens inquiries on BookofSex.com?   3/23/2005

Why dont ladies respond to mens inquires on BookofSex.com? It seems to me that my response rate here on BookofSex.com is very VERY low. Why is my response rate so low. Maybe I am not saying the right things during my inquires. Maybe I am not asking the right questions. Maybe i am not impressing them. Maybe my profile is not answering there questions. Maybe my profile is not have enough information. I dont ...


0 Comments, 163 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_Gastro_Man 54 M
1  Article
Women on here are looking for a "Phantom" man......   3/23/2005

This site cracks me up. I know that I don't have the looks to be on the cover of "GQ" magazine, but I know that I'm decent looking enough to attract a decent looking woman. All the women on this site (that are decent looking) seem to be looking for a man that doesn't exist. He usually has to have the following qualities: <br> 1. A 10 inch dick 2. Makes at least 75k a year 3. 6 ...


3 Comments, 193 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
newbedfordsexgod 52 M
3  Articles
i would like to know   3/23/2005

i have been on here for the past 2 years and not once have i talked with or meet with a local single woman is this site for real do people really meet local singles on here


0 Comments, 89 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
What's the deal with that?   3/22/2005

I was curious to see if this has happened to anyone else. I have just been a member for a week, and I got a message from someone who said she signed on through her boyfriends account and was pissed because he was cheating on her. She wanted to have some "angry, revenge sex" and wanted me to email her at a seperate email address. So, whats that all about? Is that stuff standard, or what?


1 Comments, 188 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
i would like to know how to get results   3/21/2005

yes ive been on this site for a couple months and havent even had a chat session any advice on how to get some results would be helpfull


1 Comments, 120 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
shaggyhorse 59 M
12  Articles
pussy licking good   3/21/2005

i was just wondering; how many guys really like licking pussy? i myself love it! there's nothing like the feeling of a woman cumming over and over from having her pussy ate. do you do it because she wants you to or because you want to, or both? it involves more than just licking and sucking. there are so many other things you can do while eatting a woman.it's great!


0 Comments, 155 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
advice on the cock shots guys   3/21/2005

granted i am not a hyprocrit. i love the cock shots, but!!!! please get your dicks hard before you take the picture. a limp dick is not attractive fellas. keep in mind that you want to place a pic on your profile that will be flattering to you. saggy balls does not do it either. if you know that your balls are saggy then do not take a pic of them and place it on your profile. i am somewhat ...


4 Comments, 269 Views, 15 Votes ,5.43 Score
iamcurious4blue 62 M
8  Articles
Cybersex to real sex -- some pointers   3/20/2005

I've read several posts on BookofSex.com by people who just don't "get" the cybersex thing and its allure. I've also read a number of posts by people who have found themselves disillusioned after meeting their cybersex partner in real life. <br> These two subjects are related, and since I have some experience with both, I thought I'd share my thoughts. <br> Back in the day, when ...


1 Comments, 147 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
rm_cardiff_jay 50 M
2  Articles
staying pro-active on BookofSex.com whilst in relationship   3/20/2005

When I met my lovely honey here on BookofSex.com, we both agreed that we wanted exclusivity, and would not do anything behind each others backs. <br> We agreed that BookofSex.com had served it's purpose and we would just have eyes for only each other from then on in. <br> But it didn't stop her from using BookofSex.com still, after our first meet (during which we were supposed to be serious about each ...


3 Comments, 293 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
nihongaijin 50 M
1  Article
Working from home and the increased propensity for masturbation   3/19/2005

Recently I’ve been fortunate enough to be given the opportunity to work from home. In a city such as Tokyo where the average commute to work is approximately 1 hour each way the 5 second climb down from my loft to the ground floor is a God-send. Another advantage is being able to sit around in your jocks and indulge in slovenly behaviour without the slightest inhibition. <br> ...


0 Comments, 278 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_secretlust64 60 M
1  Article
Bored Out of My Mind!   3/18/2005

I know I'm not the only one with this problem but I thought I'd see what advice I could get here. My wife and I have been married for over 20 years and overall the sex has been great, but for whatever reason, she hasn't been herself in bed lately. She literally just lays there waiting for me to turn her on as long as I stay within her ever-changing rules ('not in the mood for that'). She ...


1 Comments, 104 Views, 0 Votes
rm_silkbodee 50 M
10  Articles
How to turn a man on   3/17/2005

Ladies, it's a very simple formula to keep your man interested. You need to be as slutty as you can without the man losing respect for you. All women are sexy but if she isn't feeling it, the guy isn't either. The problem with men is that we truly believe that we are sexy as we are because look at our competition!


0 Comments, 92 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
HornyNow069 53 F
10  Articles
Trading Pictures   3/16/2005

I find it funny how many men demand a picture of you before they talk to you but don't have or seem offended if you also want a picture of them. What is the deal? This should be an equal playing field and not full of B.S.


3 Comments, 78 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
HornyNow069 53 F
10  Articles
Where are the real men?   3/16/2005

I am a BBW and have gotten a lot of attention from my profile. However, most men seem to be playing games or something. They want to chat, exchange photos and then they disappear. Where are the men that are true to their profiles?


4 Comments, 152 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
HornyNow069 53 F
10  Articles
Putting Your Pic on BookofSex.com   3/16/2005

I have noticed so many times that people post their photos on BookofSex.com with just their eyes blacked out. If you are truly trying to hide your identity don't you think people who know you can tell that is you? Also, you are usually standing in front of something from your house which just further serves to identify you. Start paying more attention if you want to hide your identity.


2 Comments, 50 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
sugarnspiceisfun 42 C
4  Articles
Looking for a female to join us, but not for 3 months   3/15/2005

We are a couple who really wants to add a third(female) to our sexual fun. For personal reason we don't want this to happen for another 3 months. Does anyone have any thoughts on if we should be seeking someone now for then or should we wait for 3 months before we look. Some people may be discouraged by having to wait however it sometimes takes time to set up a meet. Thanks SugarnSpice


0 Comments, 138 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
chillen405 41 M
21  Articles
best technique to not cum?   3/14/2005

ok guys wut are your most successful techniques to stop ur self from cummmin, and keep having sex? Please share ur secrets.


1 Comments, 489 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
chillen405 41 M
21  Articles
Having sex while ur girl is on her peroid?   3/14/2005

I would like to know if its good idea or not to have sex with ma girl while she is on her period, since i wont see here till a month later? Could anything bad happend by having sex while she is on her period?


0 Comments, 213 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
TheEaterYum 69 M
1  Article
All about points   3/14/2005

I really dont care to write an article but this is all about points because I want them...and I want them now..I understand that nobody will read this dribble but what the helll.. I get points and anything that you get for free is good...so if you want free points just copy and paste away... cause you can get free points...well for a while...lol


1 Comments, 168 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
rm_biinjax 46 M
1  Article
piercings   3/13/2005

My exgirlfriend really wanted me to get my cock pierced. She really wanted me to get a prince albert, but she said that she just wanted me to get one in general if not that. I've been thinking more about getting one lately. She said that she had a partner before that had one and that if felt great. Does anybody have an opinion of whether it would turn them on or not and I'd also like to ...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
Some Advice for LI Women   3/13/2005

Women, on this site, seem to searching for relationships with more substance, not just the one time quickie. Joining a group is a good way to meet members, and make connections. We have been members of the "Married but Looking II" Group, on this site, for a little over a month. We have found that being involved in the discussions, posted in this group, gives us an opportunity to get to know ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
looknig4uallover 47 M
10  Articles
would like to try another male   3/11/2005

what advice can you give someone who would like to try there first same sex encounter?


2 Comments, 186 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
I can't seem to make her trust me.   3/10/2005

I'm a 37 year old man, who has been in a relationship for over 2 years. The woman I'm with was in a very long term marrige that proved to be very trying on her mentally. She's a wonderful person, but she's obsessed with suspicion. I've never cheated on here, nor do I want to be away from her. We've been seperated now for about 3 weeks, with onagain offagain experiences. I litterly ...


1 Comments, 109 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
mtvguy 70 M
1  Article
Advice to Married persons on BookofSex.com   3/9/2005

Hi Guys and Gals, <br> This article is targeted at all the married individuals on BookofSex.com. Not the married people who are here to find a partner or group them and their spouse, it is for the husbands and wives who are cheating. Ouch, that’s a bad word isn’t it? Yes, I should know, I am one of them. The dictionary defines cheating as “being sexually ...


4 Comments, 333 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
This Is All About Selling Yourself-A Positive Piece   3/9/2005

I see a lot of people saying no one is hitting on them, they get looks but nothing more. <br> This is all about selling yourself, putting your best foot forward and making yourself known. <br> To do that, you put in your best photo first, show us what you look like, have you got a nice smile? Well show us! Sure, there are those those want to see your body, want cock ...


1 Comments, 87 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
My Boyfriends Sister   3/9/2005

Me and James have dated for over 5 years and i always loved to watch his sister sara. i love the way see walked, smelled, i mean she was beautiful. i just explored with another female about 2 years ago and now i wanted a taste of sara. i could never tell here though cause she was so hott (she has 3 and and hubby) we started going to the gym together and i could watch her in her tight ...


1 Comments, 606 Views, 15 Votes ,5.12 Score
papyrina 52 F
1  Article
i cannot finish:(   3/6/2005

i as a rule love sex but the last six months, whether with hubby or boy friends i can not seem to finish, i always finish alone but never with my men, its confused me and i can not work out why i have this problemdo i need to relax more, try more or go to therpy and see whats blocking this wonderful feeling , help please


4 Comments, 436 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
peternorth_71 48 M
4  Articles
what's wrong with me?   3/4/2005

I can't seem to find a woman that I like that likes me. I don't meet that many women but still I'm 29 years old and have hardly experienced the opposite sex. Am I too picky? Why are women so difficult to meet? Where are good places to meet women?


1 Comments, 112 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Lube for anal sex   3/4/2005

I want to try anal sex with my girlfriend, but I don't know which lube to use. Which one does the best and does not dry out quickly?


4 Comments, 193 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Better tasting cum   3/4/2005

My girlfriend complains sometimes that my cum tastes bad. Since this doesn't happen all the time, can it be related to my diet? If so, what can I eat that will make it taste better?


3 Comments, 229 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Shaving question   3/4/2005

I have been shaving with a razor and shaving cream for a while now, and would like to find something else that is quicker. Are there any electric razors that are made solely for shaving the genitals?


1 Comments, 209 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_saleem22003 55 C
40  Articles
Learn how to eat a Pussy   3/3/2005

How to eat Pussy Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat pussy because there are too few of you out there. And I'm not the only woman who says this. <br> Furthermore, some of you guys who are giving it the old college try are not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help you out. When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she's found ...


4 Comments, 408 Views, 25 Votes ,8.33 Score
fukengruvn 64 F
1  Article
shaving issues   3/2/2005

hi everyone. ladies: one question. i try and shave my pussy and it's so freakin' itchy and i get ingrown hairs and everything....for days after! and then the hair grows back in a few days anyways...is there a really amazing way to keep it nice and trim and tidy or even completely shaved (the front) without going through all this hassle?I'd appreciate whatever help you may be able to ...


4 Comments, 363 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
RubbinBodies 58,1945 C
3  Articles
Outdated Members   3/1/2005

I'm a little pissed!I just wasted 10 credits only to find out that the peoples profiles that I was interested in haven't visited this site in over 6 months!!!This site should reemburse you your credit(s) if a "member" has not visited for a period of time.That's my opinion and I'm sticken to it.


4 Comments, 131 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
rm_barytenore 59 M
2  Articles
Just want to watch!   2/27/2005

One of my longest-held (and yet to be realized) fantasies to watch a MF couple have sex. To be in the same room, but not in bed; no interaction on my part- I just want to watch...and to listen. <br> Any advice on approaching couples about this? I have an OK sex life otherwise, but this is something I've always wanted to indulge. <br> Thanks.


3 Comments, 143 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
what type of underwear   2/25/2005

Out of curiosity what type of underwear do all you ladies find more attractive on men? Dose it depend on body type package size color of cloth type of cloth ass shape hair no hair? What is it that I should wear?


1 Comments, 134 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
Ibecookn69 44 M
7  Articles
Women.   2/22/2005

Do women these days like a man to still take charge, in bed, in a relationship, or should a man sit back and let the women take over things for a while and relax. Men and Women let me know what you think.


4 Comments, 176 Views, 1 Votes
colohung9 51 M
13  Articles
the need to know   2/22/2005

I have friends who told me they had women who had squirting orgams when they cum. I have yet to find one. any women out there that can help me in my quest.


0 Comments, 147 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
lthrnlcey 53 C
7  Articles
worth it   2/22/2005

We have found out that going down the road of trying new things, has strengthened a all ready ample sexual relationship. It gave us both even more confidence and helped us talk to each other even more non-chalont after all the discussions we've had on the subject, and i can say it will probably only get better, Can't say we haven't had our weird and awkward moments, but being prepared for ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_acpl4cpls69 70 C
3  Articles
Fakes   2/22/2005

Hi everyone, Well we have meet a few nice couples on here. One in particular that we think is a very good match for us. But also have meet many guys pretending to be a couple. We have our own ways of detecting them but could always use more advise as some of them are really very smart. Thanks for your time. <br> Steve & Linda


2 Comments, 104 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Boob Jobs   2/21/2005

Many men will hate me for saying this, but ladies, don't get boob jobs. What you have is wonderful and the right guy will appreciate the assets you were born with. Fakes also feel wrong and aren't fun to play with and caress.


6 Comments, 154 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
Sex, of course   2/21/2005

I'm a college guy looking to hookup with someone from BookofSex.com. I want to be discreet, so I did not put a pic up. But it seems like no one notices you if you don't have a pic. Is there a way to get attention without a pic?


0 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Winks, but no emails....   2/21/2005

When and if I wink at a man, you can be sure there will be an email to follow. Is there a reason why men wink on this site, and not follow-up with an email?


8 Comments, 359 Views, 14 Votes ,3.62 Score
Chief1014 36 M
6  Articles
Why is it so pleasing   2/21/2005

I would like to know how is it that lesbians find so much excitement in pleasing each other. They enjoy sex even more than a man and woman sometimes. Humm.


1 Comments, 86 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Networks   2/20/2005

I personally don't care for them but that doesn't matter. However when I see someone who has several dozen or even hundreds of friends in their network it makes me wonder what their purpose is. I see nothing wrong if you actually talk &/or meet those in your network but can you honestly tell me that those who have 100 or more people have written each & everyone of those people...as well as ...


1 Comments, 47 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
spoldrtn812 59 F
17  Articles
People, Please read the profiles!   2/20/2005

I have been a member on BookofSex.com off and on for 5 years. The beauty of this site is the ability for discerning individuals to be gut wrenching honest about what they are looking for. I am constantly emailed by people who do not remotely match my profile! When I don't respond I'll get some snide ass remark. A remark which is usually unwarranted, unwelcomed and unsolicited! I utilize the auto ...


3 Comments, 160 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
Am I addicted to sex?   2/20/2005

I have a very high sexual appetite, I can never get enough. I like to please my partner first then myself. I desire to try a threesome and such. I think of sex constantly. What's wrong?


2 Comments, 56 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
what do you think ?   2/19/2005

I am wondering how many men enjoy having sex with there woman after she has had sex with another man this is a big turn on for myself and the wife, we enjoy it and wonder how many other men or woman enjoy the same thing , for some reason when i make love to her after she has had sex with another man her pussy feels so much diffrent not in the slippery dept either in the way the insides feel ...


2 Comments, 274 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
how do we do it   2/18/2005

all we want to do is meet a woman and have sex. but we just cant, nobody is prepaird to. we have been members for a while now and dont seem to be getting anywhere with it. what do you suggest we do? please help us we are getting so frustrated with it we didnt expect to get it overnight but this is silly now. HELP!!!!!!


0 Comments, 119 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
oralpleasure29 41 M
1  Article
Preferences...Preferences   2/17/2005

Being a man on this site, the deck is already stacked against you. Most couples are looking for women or other couples and half the women's profiles are bogus and if you open their profile, you start getting spam to you personal email. My problem is the people that don't properly say what they're looking for. The whole point of the search option on this site is to filter profiles by what ...


1 Comments, 115 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
alwayshothorny 47 F
3  Articles
cumming in my ass.......?   2/16/2005

Is it safe to allow a man to cum inside of my ass? Does anyone know for sure?


7 Comments, 858 Views, 20 Votes ,3.00 Score
rm_asian96744 69 M
14  Articles
better tasting cum...   2/16/2005

I read somewhere that if you eat cetain foods, it'll make your cum taste better! Anyone out there know about this? Interested in knowing what type of food or drinks can change the taste of my cum...


4 Comments, 299 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
cabbieman012004 59 M
1  Article
no toys   2/16/2005

I keep asking my wife to go and buy some toys for our adventures in bed, but she says that she dont need them. Now that is fine but i like to use a dildo on a lady while i am giving her oral. Is it possible that maybe she doesnt want toys because she is afraid that she will enjoy them more than me or could it be that i just have what it takes to satisfy her??????????????


3 Comments, 95 Views, 0 Votes
Guys looking for bi-girls for threesomes   2/16/2005

I am sure that the majority of couples on this site are looking for a girl for a threesome. I understand the urge and have experienced the search and have learned some things. First, let your girl do the shopping. This is one of the most important things b/c even if she is chill with you doing it, it will come back to haunt you afterward. Second, make sure the rules are set before you ...


4 Comments, 6763 Views, 541 Votes ,5.52 Score
Be careful what you wish for...   2/15/2005

because you just might get it? You know the old saying. I had in my mind the ideal kind of guy I wanted and as a friend with benefits. I met him through BookofSex.com. He had it ALL going on: 26 years old, six pack abs, great body, cute as Brad Pitt or better, great personality, funny, successful and most of all VERY good in bed but I'll get to that in a minute. On our first date, we had dinner ...


3 Comments, 355 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
Zakira21 35 F
3  Articles
Help   2/14/2005

How do you know when you having a ogasiem, i love sex but never know when i'm going to have one, is their a feeling or somthing that you notice as i'm not sure, the guy i'm with is great makes me feel special, and i always make him cum at least a dozen times when we're having sex, but the question is how do you know when your having a ogasium??? or ready to cum??? HELP


1 Comments, 153 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
How do I tell her no?   2/14/2005

Does any other male have a girlfirend or sex partner that always wants some dick? how do you tell them that you need to slow down and take it easy on sex? Without hurting her feelings or having her think that your getting it somewhere else? My girl just wants sex all the time and its hard to turn her down without some side effects from her. <br> Please Help!!


2 Comments, 81 Views, 0 Votes
Honesty, the BEST policy?   2/13/2005

In all aspects of our relationships, permanent or temporary, what is wrong with being honest? We have to use "handles" because society requires us to hide our identities. In writing our profiles, do we generally describe who we really are? I doubt it, there's always some inflated ego involved, it's human nature! Would you REALLY respond, IF everyone gave a "true" description of themselves? ...


2 Comments, 62 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
Is it possible to change your habits   2/13/2005

I've have only ever had sex with my current partner. I'm 33, single and know it's acceptable to just go have sex if I want. Just haven't been able to go out and do it yet. I get tons of offers but I think I'm worried about not getting into it like I want to or disappointing someone else. <br> Any ideas to help me get over the last hump so I can make this sexual appetite on ...


4 Comments, 156 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
the MMF taboo   2/12/2005

I have a "women" freind that is married and she explained that she wants a three way with two men. Her husband is shy about it and said no. The wife has expressed to me that she needs more in her love life and gets hot just thinking about two men with her. I am all for it and think of nothing better for any women. How can the third party get on board? Is he just worried about the "gay" ...


4 Comments, 363 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Enlargement Surgery Anyone?   2/11/2005

Enlargement surgery anyone? Don't be rediculous. Phalloplasty can lead to scarring, erection discomforts and impotence. Love your weenie the way it is!


1 Comments, 94 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Tell the truth   2/11/2005

Okay, so you 6'6" tall, athletic build, tanned body, 10" dick, loads of money, lifes young dream! Get a life. Tell the truthg! If you're married...tell the truth, if you dont like something..tell the truth. You paint a picture, people accept you as face value, everything goes great, you're going to meet..........Oops. You are really 5'5" a little on the cuddly side, your six pack has ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
What gives?   2/9/2005

Mostly I would like to know why it is that men can say that they want nothing but "Sex" from a woman and when a woman is only in it for purely sexual gratification does the man then turn around and try to turn "sex" into something more....I am completely baffled.


3 Comments, 202 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
Gangbang???   2/9/2005

I have recently been invited to a gang bang. I have never been involved in one. I have been with couples 2 times, and really enjoyed it. What can I expect, and what are the things to do, and not to do? Any advice? I have never meet any of these people.


0 Comments, 308 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
redswallow777 99 M
5  Articles
Are the live webcams here for real ?   2/9/2005

Excuse me for asking a naive question, perhaps, but are the "live" webcams we can watch on adult friend finders for real? I am talking about the free member webcams not the pay-for-view ones. Some feeds have instant changes of positon that seem impossible if it were in fact "live." I guess what I am asking is can one feed a pre-recorded video into these webcams....is this what we are ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
pookiepoker 54 M
1  Article
Cum to quick   2/8/2005

When my wife and I have sex I cum to quick. I usually last about 5 minutes. If i have some drinks I might last about 15 minutes. I had an affair 3 years ago and I could last an hour (no joke). Any ideas on lasting longer? My wife doesn't like it if I pull out or don't just keep banging away. I've tried the slowing down method, but she grabs my ass and speeds me up. She always cums, ...


6 Comments, 482 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
webcam sex   2/7/2005

How many couples out there have a pay-per-view website or are thinking about doing it? Can you actually make decent money doing it? A friend of mine said she and her guy do it. She gets on all fours and types messages to the viewers, encouraging them to masturbate; he gets behind and pumps her full of lead, but has to be careful not to cum too fast. I think it would be fun! What do you ...


0 Comments, 173 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
fun4allofusand 53 C
2  Articles
Need advice on swinging   2/7/2005

My husband and I are madly in Love and very happy with our sex life. He makes me cum everytime multiple times. However he wants to take me to the edge and give me the ultimate orgasmic experience. I love him for wanting to do this and I am very excited that he embraces my many kinky ways and sometimes even knows me better then I know myself. He is giving me the opportunity of a mfm ...


9 Comments, 395 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
stokieswinger 59 M
3  Articles
Watersports   2/7/2005

IHow do you approach the subject of a fetish to someone new?? I would love for my partner to piss on me, but not sure how she will react. I love the warm sensation of being pissed on. A fetish that was given to me by an earlier G/F who was a bit on the domineering side. My new girl is great, but I'd feel a bit embarrased to ask her to do it as she seems so nice. Normal sex is fantastic, I ...


1 Comments, 144 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
pouty4u2 71,1962 C
4  Articles
Web cam   2/7/2005

I want to buy a web cam. Can anybody give me the details on the best produce to buy


1 Comments, 206 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
Sethmare2001 41 M
1  Article
Needing Advice   2/5/2005

A girl I regularly hook up with and I headed to a local Adult Toy Store and picked up a few sex toys, she mentioned that she wanted to try anal sex so we grabbed a small anal plug. After arriving home we noticed that the package was a type that could be opened without breaking a seal. I'm just wondering if I should discard that item and try a different one that comes in a sealed package, ...


5 Comments, 379 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
rm_OneNoteSong 62 M
7  Articles
Simple thing to do for better sex   2/5/2005

Simple, inexpensive thing to do for better sex-take a multivitamin particularly one with good "B" vitamin complex, but any multi will do. Just in case some people haven't thought of it yet. Do it at least 2 hours before sex.


1 Comments, 202 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Seriously .. need advice,feedback,truthful replies plz ..   2/5/2005

Been seperated almost 4yrs. in Aug. from a very kinky partner whos fantasies eventually needed more reality, 17yrs of marriage , a VERY SEXY n Attactive wife set in all ways except this. Is there really a place for me in here u think .. Miss the emotional, mental n physical feelings but not the cheap, empty , lonely , cold ones .


3 Comments, 234 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
WW_n_Blonde 49 C
1  Article
'Light Bondage'?   2/4/2005

Time and time again we see this in a profile. I take it no one realises that when one person restrains another there is nothing 'light' about it? Bondage, in any form, is a matter of trust, right? I am just wondering if anyone can explain this 'light' idea to us.....since it seems so prevelant. Admittedly, there are many things in the spectrum that have shades of grey, a 'light' ...


5 Comments, 201 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
rm_gallantkl 55 M
9  Articles
Taken For A Ride   2/4/2005

There is a girl whom I met online. She seems to like sex very much. We chatted almost every week for about a month. I suggested that we meet and she agreed. We agrred on the date and the venue. I suggested that we go to the hotel nearby after we meet and she agreed and told me to book the room. <br> A week before she said that she's going out station. Thereafter, I could ...


7 Comments, 422 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
For fun or for other?   2/4/2005

Let me start by saying: I really dont know what the hell I'm doing here. That being said, I guess the next step is: does anyone feel the same way? Now I am not usually the type of person who does something that I don't think is effective, or even efficient. My intentions for being here on this service are purely selfish. I don't have much contact with the outside world becauce im so ...


1 Comments, 64 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
rm_EbAndIv69 59 C
7  Articles
Shaved or Not...   2/3/2005

Why is it that most men love shave pussy and the site of it? Is it the bare look, or the smoothness? I see this from my hubby, everytime i shave smooth, his face spells horny. So any good answers to if it is only my hubby or a general male thing.


11 Comments, 493 Views, 18 Votes ,5.17 Score
Nudes or Lingerie?   2/3/2005

I like taking photos in lingerie, scantily clad or otherwise. What's the consensus on preference? Is it all the way live on the nudity thing, or does a little lingerie add a little more flavor?


13 Comments, 298 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
The best way to contact others!   2/3/2005

How is the best way to contact women? Do the women on this site actually respond to a wink? Or should I write a detailed message. Is it all a waste of my time and thiers? Should I show my privates in my pic or is that too forward? I personally have a little more class than that. But as for women, thier private area is much more sexy and I don't find that low class. Do I have double ...


2 Comments, 244 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
KinkyCandyLicker 45 M
4  Articles
Older woman   2/2/2005

Let's say you met an older woman that was your mom's age. You were interested in her and she in you. Both of you sent quality time together and really enjoyed it. Both of you kissed and touched but, had not had sex yet. It keeps coming up by both of you in a good way. What would you do?


3 Comments, 405 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
rm_RUable101 44 M
1  Article
I need some advice   2/1/2005

I have been wanting to try a threesome or even swapping for a while now but Im not sure how to ask my significant other if she is interested. We have a great sex life already but I think it might add some new spice that we both never knew existed. Any advise on this issue will be greatly appreciated.


3 Comments, 212 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
Soar Throat is it from what I'm thinking????   2/1/2005

The Fist time I got down on my wife, i felt something on my THROAT, but since is was the first time and I had no experience, I felt, that I was just getting a cold and I let it go. <br> Last night I got down on her again, and guess what, I felt the same feeling on my throat AGAIN, what is going on here?? <br> Can you get it from eating pussy? <br> <br> ...


10 Comments, 494 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Toy store   1/31/2005

My wife and I want to go toy shopping, but are having trouble finding a store. The e-stores on the net can be boring and it's much more fun to browse in the 3rd dimension. <br> Anybody know of some good stores (not too seedy) in the Northern Virginia / DC area? <br> Thanks!!


1 Comments, 99 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
If you're a MALE that's NEW to this site - READ THIS.   1/31/2005

I'm going out on a limb here, but I WISH that someone educated me on this BEFORE I started exploring this site. So, I'm going to give examples of my own blunders in the hopes another gent doesn't do the same. <br> 1) If you use the ICC and instant chat with a lady and she asks for a picture, CLARIFY the type of picture you're going to exchange BEFORE you exchange. I didn't ...


7 Comments, 580 Views, 38 Votes ,8.38 Score
Sirter - In - Law I need your advise   1/31/2005

My Sister in law is 23 yrs old, single and she has had a hit on me since I met my wife about 10 yrs ago. <br> She is hot, and atractive. I know she wants to have sex with me, but I know she is my sister in law and i respect my wife. <br> She is HOT and SEXY and at times I want to think that she is not my Sister -in-law, Should I do her? or should I continue to ignore ...


9 Comments, 564 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Is she interested in me?   1/31/2005

I've been involved in this local group (Not related to BookofSex.com) for a couple of years now. This woman who attends often has sort of become a friend at these functions, although we never have seen each other outside of this venue. Last Friday night we were there, and we had chatted as normal. During a break, a couple of other guys and myself were stepping outside for a cigarette. As I walked ...


1 Comments, 94 Views, 0 Votes
Are you shy? Read this.   1/30/2005

Hi. I just replied to a member who said that they were shy. I wanted to post something about this topic, because I think there are a few men and women out here who are shy and can benefit from what I have to say. <br> First, I share your pain. I was terribly shy as a , and right up until college. Even today, I can be a bit shy or quiet. <br> But I'm working on ...


3 Comments, 337 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
rm_Kitkat_30253 57 F
2  Articles
My best friend keeps asking for advice but never takes it   1/28/2005

My best friend is very unhappy in her marriage and constantly calls me to ask for advice. I often find myself simply listening to her and offering an ear into which she can vent her frustrations. But recently, I realized that she has asked for my opinion and/or advice on what she should do but does not takes it! <br> For example, she called a few days ago to tell me that she ...


9 Comments, 166 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_OneNoteSong 62 M
7  Articles
What do you women consider a married man?   1/28/2005

The reason I ask is that I've seen several women here say how bent out of shape they were to meet this great guy only to find he's married. I'm not sure why a guy would be stupid enough to make like he's single and then tell the woman he's married after meeting her and I don't know how these women find out if they are not told. <br> My deal is with seperation. I am seperated ...


6 Comments, 219 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Anal Sex....   1/27/2005

So my guy is a complete ass man and he absolutly LOVES anal. When we first started dating I had only tried anal once, maybe twice. I told him that and he said he would be gentle, lots of lube and gentle entry.... WOW I love anal now! The best is when your guy enters from behind and pleasures you with your favorite toy vaginally. If you are open for new things ladies, I highly recommend it!


5 Comments, 585 Views, 21 Votes ,6.47 Score
Attention   1/27/2005

Hello everyone, I was wondering what I could do to get my profile more attention. I've got photos up and have done everythin BookofSex.com suggests but still very little interest. Any help would be appreciated.


4 Comments, 199 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
alwayshothorny 47 F
3  Articles
men and being too personal- what the heck?   1/26/2005

I don't understand men and I don't think I ever will. One question I have is: How is it that kissing is too personal when they've met a woman from a site like BookofSex.com, but fucking someone (especially without protection) and cumming inside of someone is not? Is there anyone that can clarify this for me at all?


5 Comments, 404 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
why do the men cum so damn fast?   1/25/2005

Why do the men cum so dang fast any way?I mean it's not even 5 mins in to the wet, hot pussy and bam there you go and now off to sleep. Why is this? We want more we need more.Heal we want to cum too, I know I do.You know we just don't always want our pussyes ate, I want to cum all over your dick so why not let me?I want to feel the dick deep in side of me with my eyes rolling back. I want ...


18 Comments, 685 Views, 15 Votes ,5.12 Score
rm_OneNoteSong 62 M
7  Articles
Why do women shy from personals?   1/25/2005

Since I was perhaps 16 years old, I have always noticed that anywhere there were personals, men have outnumbered women disproportionately. I have always wondered why. Any ideas? Really, women as a whole outnumber men so at least it should be 50-50. But it looks like it ranges from about 2 men to 1 woman to as high as 10 men to one woman most every place I see. Obviously, women have ...


3 Comments, 149 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Adult Nursing   1/24/2005

I am wondering if any one here could tell me about adult nursing. I went out with a man who said he was in to this. He says it's when you lie across a woman and suckle on her breast for an extended period of time. Does anyone have any other info on this ? This was the first time I had heard of it.


1 Comments, 419 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
what should i do   1/24/2005

where do i start , well i'm a married woman and my marriage has been on rocky ground for awhile and so has my sex life , for a month now my husband has not gave me any sex and i can't understand why when before our sex life was awesome and we all know men just love sex and can't do with out it . but everyday i'm so horny and thats all i think about anymore and when i go to bed he just turns ...


13 Comments, 428 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
Looking for a photo friend   1/24/2005

I would like to meet up with a person to take some suggestive errotic photos of me. I have none and am hoping I can get a person (male/female)to lend me a hand. I like to take pictures but I am prone to not liking photos of me. If you have talent with a camera, please drop me a line. Thanks!


2 Comments, 237 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
cbt_couple 60 C
1  Article
No Profile Photo(s) = No Interest   1/23/2005

This should possibly go into "Rants & Raves", however it would also appear to be good, and much needed general advice: <br> I never cease to be amazed at the number of photo-less profiles. Probably 2/3 of what the "Cupid" feature returns, along with at least that many who view our profile or send mail have not even a single photo in their profile. <br> The "Filter" ...


2 Comments, 251 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
JTsMar 67,1952 C
3  Articles
Knowing the difference!   1/23/2005

My husband loves to share me with other men. His biggest turn on is watching me and hearing me as I cum with other men. And when I'm making love with my husband we can both feel the love we share for each other. But when I'm with other men he knows exactly where my heart is and it's NOT with the other men. There is a BIG difference between making love and having sex. More people need to ...


2 Comments, 610 Views, 22 Votes ,6.97 Score
looknig4uallover 47 M
10  Articles
need advice   1/22/2005

i am married and sex is a good dream in my house.my sex drive is very high. should i look for someone new or what?


7 Comments, 455 Views, 14 Votes ,1.38 Score
scorpion696978 45 M
9  Articles
how can i shoot a load?   1/22/2005

i know some women might be offended by this but i am just asking a question. how the hell do some men shoot there load? i know about the pc muscle and how to contract it but do i do this before i feel the need to cum or a few seconds before, or do i hold it in then contract the muscle? just looking for a hint here anyone?


1 Comments, 549 Views, 16 Votes ,1.95 Score
Are you shy (Part II)   1/22/2005

Please read Part I first... this part won't make a lot of sense without it <br> <br> <br> Okay... asking someone out. Yikes. If you are like me, this is the hard part. Yes, it may seem easier online, because you don't have the butterflies in your stomach (or not as many). But, you still have the jitters on the first meeting/ date. I think the reason ...


1 Comments, 229 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
Be Honest   1/20/2005

I know us guys dont like to be honest w/ women when it comes to sex. We like to seduce, romance and sweet talk them to have sex. Most women want to here but sometimes they dont. I have learned just to be honest. Lots of times I just come out to women in a smooth intelligent way and let them know, "Baby I just want wonna fuck, ok" yeah


9 Comments, 2525 Views, 271 Votes ,1.84 Score
I LOVE OLDER LADY'S   1/19/2005

I am a 44 year old male that thinks older lady's are very sexy. I find myself looking at them more so then lady's my own age and would love to find a older lady or couple with a lady that wants sex. I think soft and gentle is one thing that makes it so sexy and warm. Would love to hear any ideas or comments that anyone has to offer....


0 Comments, 205 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
the best way...the Army Way...The Amway...   1/19/2005

Is there a fool-proof way to get some of these damn women to notice you? I'm thinking that for some of these women, they would be more impressed with a picture of your wallet or portfolio, rather than your cock. The cock pictures are, if I do say so myself, a bit in your face. It's always amazing to me how much better looking you become when you have money, i.e-Larry King, Donald Trump. So ...


7 Comments, 367 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
katgurl....here is how it turns out...   1/18/2005

this is how i approach my wife... <br> monday...make coffee, breakfast. comment on her looks, dress, etc. make small talk. go to work. come home, clean the house, do the dishes, fix supper. (i always ask if there is something she would like to eat). she comes home, i ask about her day, give her a peck on the cheek. after supper i try to sit near, touch her forearm, rub her ...


2 Comments, 145 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Joining a group....   1/18/2005

There is no better way to meet the neighbors than group sex. (Of course Southern women can't really do group sex. Too many thank you notes!). But there are some ground rules about groups that I think I should share with you. 1)Avoid groups that show up with a lot of bruises and missing teeth. This may not be a true group; it may be a gang masquerading as a group. Learn the difference. ...


0 Comments, 115 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
The flat wife was my good guy friend's experience..   1/18/2005

My best male friend thanked me so much for writing this article about his fucking flat chested so called 'wife'.She was, and i emphasize WAS, cold as shit and never cared for his needs. It doesn't stop there.Her pussy was soooo hairy he would get lost in her untrimmed bush, when he Tried to tongue her, he was polite and told her she was great when he really wanted to ask her to shave that ...


10 Comments, 570 Views, 18 Votes ,1.08 Score
rm_asian96744 69 M
14  Articles
cumming in my wife's mouth   1/18/2005

My wife loves to suck on my cock but, she don't like it when I cum in her mouth! What can I do to make her like swallowing my cum?


9 Comments, 562 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
What am I doing wrong here?   1/18/2005

Hey, help me out. I seem to be running into a series of perpetual FUBARs when it comes to dating. Seems like every time I meet a woman online (here or another site), things start going well: we talk for a bit, e-mail, and then one of two things happen - either a) she stops talking to me, or b) we arrange to meet, and I get stood up. <br> This is happening waaaay too often. I'm ...


8 Comments, 239 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Wife needs a fireman...any firemen out there?   1/17/2005

Hi everyone, Need some help. My girlfriend has a fantasy of having swinging evening with a fireman and his wife/girlfriend. We live in the Sacramento area and would love to find a couple that would love an erotic evening with another hot couple. Please write. Boom


1 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_purrfectkiss 56 F
10  Articles
smokers   1/17/2005

If you are a smoker, please tell us non smokers that you smoke, it's usually a turn off to us non smokers. when we meet you for the first time, we want to know what we are getting into to! and who wants to kiss someone that smells like an ashtray, yeak! no thanks, I don't care if you look like Brad Pitt! Besides, you know by now that it's bad for your health, so quit!!!!


3 Comments, 125 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
smurf66 52 M
1  Article
oral sex   1/17/2005

i have recently started dating a girl i've known for a long time. she loves receiving oral sex, could any women out there give me some advice on giving her oral sex she'll never forget


4 Comments, 274 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
let's be a bit more creative...   1/17/2005

Why, in all of the erotic stories, does the man have "a nine or ten inch throbbing cock"? It's usually the "biggest one Julie had ever seen in her life". And, of course, "she didn't know if she would be able to take it all." Come on guys...lets be a little more creative and less repetitive and generic. Use some different criteria. Have the guy have "an average size and semi-flaccid ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
how to foreplay?   1/17/2005

my wife of 30 years has for the last few years been shutting down on me. for sometime she has not let me touch her breasts, claiming they hurt. yet when she goes to the doctor for annual exams she never mentions anything. i went with her a couple of times and tried to bring it up and she denied having any pain. yet when we got home, "cant touch" and won't explain. that's the first problem. ...


8 Comments, 236 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Why do I need a picture....   1/17/2005

Why do you need to see me? That I don't understand. Most of our relationship is going to be held in the dark of a cheap motel room anyway. And besides, looks aren't everything. Be a little more understanding and forgiving. So I've been in a few axe fights...I thought scars were suppose to be sexy.


4 Comments, 194 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
HunkInHeat2005 61 M
20  Articles
Fustrations of Dealing With This Site   1/17/2005

Can anybody tell me if it is possible to cut and paste into the article writing field, from other programs like MS Word? I've tried it, but it dosen't seem to work. Twice now, I've spent several hours writing really hot fantasies, only to see them disappear when I tried to post. Also, they tend to be very detailed and long. Is there a limit to what is shown when posted, I recall seeing ...


2 Comments, 93 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_italstal830 52 M
2  Articles
good gals bad boys   1/17/2005

Whats up with always seeing very atractive nice girls with known losers. I meen thats all I see is guys who treat the girls like crap and they take it. I am an atractive (I've been told) male who treats women right, not verbably critisizing them or hitting them, I treat them like queens from taking them to movies and dinner to opening the car door for them to you name it the list goes on. ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
sktigerlily 43 F
2  Articles
I'm looking for other 'hot wives'.... know anyone?   1/17/2005

I would really like to find some women who are in a similiar situation as I am. Which would be that I am married, but my husband and I both enjoy me sleeping with other guys. But, he doesn't play. Some people call it cuckolding, some would call me a hot wife, whatever it is, it's not swinging. I've been feeling a litle lonely when looking at joining groups or reading posts. And I can't ...


6 Comments, 1097 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
advice for the lovelorn...   1/17/2005

What exactly is a lovelorn? Is it the opposite of a hatelorn? (I think that I was married to one of those hatelorns one time). And if you are lorn, is there a cure? I mean is there lorn lotion, or lorn elixir? Just wondering about these things that really matter.


1 Comments, 48 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_HOTT1968 53 M
1  Article
Women's veiws in crossdressing   1/17/2005

I would like to have members supply me with their opinions on crossdressing. More specific, what do women think about men wearing lingerie? I am a hetro male that just happens to have a penchant for lingerie. What are your womens' views on this? And also, are there any women that would enjoy helping their man fulfill his feminine desires?


6 Comments, 823 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
how do we judge.....   1/16/2005

How do we judge each other? Our society had become so superficial. What else could explain the obscentity of "The Swan"? But on a deeper level, how do we judge each other. Do we use our eyes or our ears...or our souls? I really think we need to revamp just how we judge each other, and ourselves for that matter. It has to be deeper and more substantial. It has to be more intense and ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
gman992 39 M
2  Articles
What should I do?   1/16/2005

Women, <br> should I just be myself or should I be someone totally different???


5 Comments, 110 Views, 9 Votes
just say no.....   1/16/2005

Just say no, my people, to having sex with Republicans. They are notoriously selfish people, who are about only one thing...sticking it to the little man. If you are a little man, a blue collar man, how can you fuck someone who is steadily, everyday trying to fuck you. So the next time you get that quiver in your loins, ask your soon to be fuck partner who they voted for. It could save your ...


5 Comments, 101 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
LIE as much as you can   1/16/2005

OK, you like several women at one time but you are attached.SHE is always asking you about your time and how you spend it and who you spend it with. As a female, i say lie your ass off baby. She will feel no harm, you can feel such fun as you never dreamed. Just cover your ass and do not let on that she is in any way not good enough(like your others). Please hear me-you need a good ...


2 Comments, 172 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
never ever be yourself...   1/16/2005

Never, ever, ever, ever be yourself. In most cases, and I'm including myself here, we are assholes and bitches. We can't help it, it's just the way we are. So, no you don't want that side of you to come out right at the beginning of a relationship. Save it for the serious times. Initially become just the opposite of yourself: kind, considerate, funny, and interested in others. Get your ...


1 Comments, 40 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
knew_byrd 37 F
5  Articles
Bi-Courious or Bi-Sexual???   1/15/2005

What is the line that seperates you from bi-courious to bisexual? I am 18 and for the past four weeks or so I have been having these fellings that are demanding me to try something new (the new being girl on girl). So i came to BookofSex.com and i gave way to what my horomones were asking for thinking that after i did some experimenting then it would just go away and for about a week it did leave but ...


3 Comments, 250 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
"I need advise for my profile"   1/15/2005

I need a profile review please. Any and all comments are welcome. I'm a big boy so be brutally honest. All responses will be appreciated. I also would like to know if being a Standard member is a complete waste of time? And are Silver and Gold members doing any better than I am? Is BookofSex.com a waste of time? Any opinions welcome.


1 Comments, 70 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
cheating   1/15/2005

Wife and i have talked about haveing someone come over while i was working one day she called and told me she was super horny and asked if she could have someone come over i told her it was not a real good ideal she had someone come over any way i had ask her in the past to make a movie if she ever did it no movie i cant be made at her because i had ask her to do it awhile back but she told ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 0 Votes
cheating????   1/15/2005

Wife and i have talked about haveing someone come over while i was working one day she called and told me she was super horny and asked if she could have someone come over i told her it was not a real good ideal she had someone come over any way i had ask her in the past to make a movie if she ever did it no movie i cant be made at her because i had ask her to do it awhile back but she told ...


3 Comments, 361 Views, 9 Votes
How do I get a picture?   1/15/2005

I know I'll get more responses if I have a picture posted with my profile, and if I respond to someone they'll want a picutre, but how do I go abut getting one? I'm single, so I don't have a partner to take one, and my friends don't know about my interest in this site, so I can't ask one of them. What can I do?


9 Comments, 239 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
rm_purrfectkiss 56 F
10  Articles
they are not into you   1/14/2005

If someone you are dating doesn't seem to be interested in you anymore, you should talk to them to find out if they are still interested in pursuing the relationship, and don't be afraid of the truth, you know the saying, "the truth shall set you free"...why be with someone that doesn't feel the same about you...find someone that will appreciate you.


0 Comments, 50 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
rm_purrfectkiss 56 F
10  Articles
cheating   1/14/2005

It seems as though cheating on our spouse is so easy today, mostly because of the internet. If you feel that you have the need and desire to cheat on your spouse, it's best to end the marriage. You don't know what is behind that door, if you meet another person and become romantically involved, it can develop into something very serious...it may feel good to fulfull that adventure or ...


6 Comments, 251 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
don't ever stare....   1/14/2005

The next time you are getting a blow job from one of those self-righteous Republican harpies, and her fucking wig comes off in your hand while you fucking her chubby cheeks, please...please...please don't stare. Just let her finish, let her swallow and then get the HELL out of there.


1 Comments, 111 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
how or when do you say you had enough?   1/13/2005

I've had a trouble marriage for the past 10 years . Partial due to me being a workaholic and not fully understand what a woman wants bfore here I was single and been with a lot of women but never nothing this serious. Anyway now I hear shes starting to see someone else and that crush me . what should I do?


2 Comments, 42 Views, 0 Votes
My wife doesn't like to perform Oral Sex   1/13/2005

My wife and I have been married for 10 years. I'm 5 yrs older than her, our sex life is ok, but not to a point where I would like it to be. <br> I love Oral Sex, and she does her best to satisfy my needs, but I would almost have to beg her every time we have sex in order to get a blow job. <br> Can you help.


6 Comments, 148 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
getting laid   1/13/2005

My husband and I have a great relationship. We even watch porn together. I found that I was getting very excited watching the women go at it. Having sex with a woman became my fantasy. I thought if I came to one of these places I would definately find someone. 1. ONLY GUYS REPLY 2. ONLY GUYS REPLY. Am I doing something wrong in here? Check me out and give me some advise please.


1 Comments, 135 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Where am I going wrong?   1/13/2005

I haven't been a member of this site very long (maybe about 6 weeks), but in that time of all the people I've sent emails to, only one has replied. I seem to be having a lot of trouble meeting people for anything on this site (be it sex or just getting to know someone) and to be honest it's a little frustrating because I have absolutely no idea what I'm doing wrong. I mean, I don't think ...


2 Comments, 217 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
My wife has zero interest in sex.   1/12/2005

Please help me! I am interested to know what can be done to "jump-start" my wife's libido. We are in our late 30's and will sometimes go for months, many months without so much as even a little bit of intimacy. It is taking its toll on me! If I try to initiate sex, she often gets mad at the mention of sex. When we are together, it's as though she just wants me to hurry up and get it ...


7 Comments, 212 Views, 7 Votes ,0.49 Score
Don't know the answer....   1/12/2005

In reading some of the profiles on this supposedly sexual website, I get a lot of women who just want a good man, and even a few that mention wanting a good Christian man! I'm missing something here. Something in this whole concept is just flying right past my brain. But who am I to judge. We are all lonely and all need someone to warm those long lonely nights.


1 Comments, 77 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
don't fuck Republicans....   1/11/2005

Do not fuck/date Republicans. End of discussion. They are evil, greedy people and the women are especially priggish and cruel. But if you ever get a chance to ass-fuck an uptight Republican woman...DO IT! DO IT! Teach her who is boss.


7 Comments, 278 Views, 12 Votes ,0.86 Score
johns1230 56 M
1  Article
Contacts   1/11/2005

I have made several connections her on BookofSex.com. I've made some great friends and I've had a great experience, so far. I have found that several who have contacted me have told me they want ed to chat and etc. and when I try to chat with them, they either ignore you or sign off. I am of course referring to the other instant messenging services out there. I have not had any luck communicating ...


0 Comments, 175 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
Looking for advice from married women who have successfully found sex outside marriage   1/10/2005

I am pursuing the idea of having sex with another man. My husband is the only man I have ever slept with and I'm hoping that will change soon. I'm not sure yet if I want a one-time experience or a fuck buddy. I do know that the city I live in is small and it feels even smaller when I start contemplating having sex with another man and no one knowing about it. <br> I would like ...


4 Comments, 283 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
Why is it that older women?   1/10/2005

Ok, Why is it that older women don't pay an ounce of attention to me until they see me with another older women? For instance, I took a friend of mine to the symphony the other night. A mutual friend(female) saw us there and told me later that if she had known that I was interested she would have been. The truth is I would much prefer and older women to a younger one. It is not a mommy ...


1 Comments, 106 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
MFM Action   1/10/2005

OK so insted of 2 couples what's wrong with single guys coming into the relationship, there certainly isn't any shortage! My girlfriend is 29, slim, sexy, with 32A bust and long hair, with full lips and doesn't seem to mind at all pleasing two men. We've done this a few times and she's always looking at me while sucking or fucking another man to see if I mind, well to tell you the truth I ...


1 Comments, 410 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
Been here a month and nothing, what do I do ?   1/10/2005

Hi everyone, I have been here a month now on BookofSex.com. Living as a seperated single father I am finding it tough to meet women so I came to BookofSex.com to find women to meet. My intentions are to meet women go out and see where things go from there, no expectations. Not saying that I am not into one night stands as well, I have no problem with them, but I'd rather see someone more than once. I ...


3 Comments, 194 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
all_alone3 38 M
29  Articles
how big is big   1/9/2005

ladies this is for you can you help me answer this question how big is a big cock <br> <br> <br> <br> i am 5incheslong 3inches wide and 2 inches thick is that big


7 Comments, 397 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
Passion Can Be Its Own End...   1/9/2005

I have been somewhat dimayed at times to find so many individuals on BookofSex.com seeking that which can be accomplished on any number of non-adult personals web sites. Understanding the reasons I personally commited to its use, I also intrinsicly understood that this (of course)would not be the case for all. So grave a dispairity however I never anticipated. When one enters the internal search be ...


0 Comments, 62 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
How can a beautiful woman be taken serious?   1/8/2005

Hello all... as you can see from my photos I am very attractive. My concern is this... I am seeking someone who can compliment, a man who is as attractive and sexy as I. Instead I am getting emails from all sorts and I mean sorts that make you say blah! I did however meet a fine latin man... thought we would have a spicy latina relationship, but he left with the sauce. Hmmmm are there ...


7 Comments, 225 Views, 11 Votes ,1.11 Score
rm_Simby416 39 F
2  Articles
Giving Head   1/8/2005

I want to know what a man really likes when he recieved oral sex..I want responses from men only


29 Comments, 1133 Views, 43 Votes ,6.94 Score
all_alone3 38 M
29  Articles
help me please   1/7/2005

i need help from who ever i can get it from im 18 and i need to know how do i know what a girl wants or not and how long do i have to stay a virgin help me please


5 Comments, 107 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
Hornydevil933000 53 M
1  Article
Overcoming sexual hinderances   1/7/2005

My wife is so uptight in bed that she just lays there and doesn't do anything but jack me off and let me fuck her. i perform oral on her all the time and make her cum but she will not return the favour or try new things. how can i approach her so as not to put her on the defensive and get her to try new things. I don;t think I am being unreal wanting oral sex, to try anal as well as ...


4 Comments, 213 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
YOUNGER MEN/OLDER WOMAN   1/7/2005

I LOVE OLDER WOMEN! IF THEY'RE MARRIED IT'S EVEN BETTER. MY FIRST EXPERIENCE WAS WITH MY FATHER'S COUSIN FROM GERMANY. SHE WAS 41 AND I WAS 18. WHY IS IT SO HARD TO HIND WOMWEN IN THEIR 60'S AND 70'S TODAY? ANY IDEAS WHERE TO FIND WILLING OLDER (MARRIED PREFERED) WOMEN IN THE WESTCHESTER, METRO NY AREA?


0 Comments, 239 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
head games   1/7/2005

Well, I had my first bi experence the other nite. I really thought that it was going to be more enjoyable than it was. While I must consider that my first time might not be that great, due to inexperence itself, I was not prepared for the mental part of it all. It really does tend to play with your head, (no pun intended), and make you question a lot about your self. mentaly, & moraly. Yes ...


3 Comments, 274 Views, 15 Votes ,4.66 Score
Dickeymo69 48 M
4  Articles
Some photo advice for the guys and gals!!   1/7/2005

Sorry but some of the people here on BookofSex.com need to re-think their profile pictures. <br> Ladies let me tell you, there is nothing finer than a sweet pussy and a great looking picture of a good looking one is always nice but some of you just don't fit into that category. Ladies sorry to say but some of you just don't need to be showing that off. <br> And guys, let ...


0 Comments, 117 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
rm_Onthelose3 70 M
3  Articles
Big penis in pics   1/6/2005

OK guys so you have a big penis , IS ThAT all you have to offer? Do you really think that`s what is going to atract women ? Based on comments from women they don`t give you guys a second look . Do you tell all your potential dates that you have a big penis and they just fall over themseves to get in your pants? Maybe thats so, there seems to be a lot of women who specifically ask for a big ...


1 Comments, 83 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Texas2sum2004 54 C
1  Article
Seeking to satisfy intense desires   1/6/2005

I am sure that I am not the first to ask but this is a first for me. I have never been with another woman. Nor, have I been with any other man except my husband of 17 years. We are now seeking another woman to join us for discreet adult pleasures. I am not quite sure what to expect or how I will feel when it actually happens. When I fantasize about it, it's extremely hot and satisfying. I ...


1 Comments, 175 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
KasnAni 49 C
12  Articles
Political animals/symbols?   1/6/2005

Okay, I realize that this might not be the proper venue for such a discussion, but I'm just curious what fellow freaks like me have to say on the issue. I do not feel that the Republicans won this year's election; I believe that the Democrats lost it, and that all comes down to two words: Karl Rove. The Republican strategist perfectly marketed the Bush/Cheney campaign, from its pro-Bush ...


2 Comments, 44 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_italstal830 52 M
2  Articles
do breast enlargement pills work?   1/6/2005

My girlfriend would really like to inprove her breast size from an A cup to a B cup. She has a great body and I think she looks great and I like her A cup (why would you need more than a mouth full?) but she says she will feel better about herself if she gets larger breasts. The thing is she wants to buy herself inplants and I would rather not see her go threw the pain and fakeness of ...


4 Comments, 140 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
The Survival Against Yourself   1/6/2005

The survival against yourself The theory of a person’s life, is what has been installed in them during its early stages of there life, from how they react, behave and communicate etc. during there life. So therefore the surroundings and teachers are the deciding factor in how a person’s life will develop. This is not a new discovery, but a vital ingredient in my theory. ...


0 Comments, 121 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
KasnAni 49 C
12  Articles
Points for the poor   1/6/2005

I've already talked about what a help it can be toward one's BookofSex.com experience to use the chat rooms here. Now, I'd like to take a little time to talk about another way people can help themselves achieve better results from BookofSex.com: the points system. <br> We all know there are limits with the free standard membership. We are only allowed a certain number of profile views and ...


2 Comments, 90 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
KasnAni 49 C
12  Articles
Hey, voters! What's the score?   1/6/2005

This article has been cut & pasted from a question I asked, but I'm wondering which part of the magazine, questions or articles, is viewed more. That's why I am putting it here, too. Without any further ado ... <br> I have a question for everyone who votes on the articles and advice questions: what's the deal with the scoring? First off, how does BookofSex.com come up with its numbers, ...


2 Comments, 62 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
opinions PLEASEEEE   1/6/2005

Why is it that when the question about marriage some folks say separated but still r married, separted but still doing the wife, and heres my favorite single but still doing the soon 2 b x-wife her sister and their neighbor....what cant u say u r separted and r and divorced and r and single but really r?? I have been on this fun site 4 almost a year and i have made more friends(chatting)and ...


2 Comments, 73 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Dont get mad and upset   1/6/2005

Hey guys and girls, <br> Over the past few weeks I have talked with several different members who were really getting flustered because it seems no one will back up what they talk about in their communications. Please dont get upset. We are for real and will back up anything we say. but alot of others do not mean to "lie" about things they say or things they would like to do.At ...


0 Comments, 151 Views, 15 Votes ,4.51 Score
barebacking vs ejaculation   1/4/2005

I noticed in one recent question regarding barebacking, that the majority of responders posted negative comments. Yet many of them confess to oral preferences. Do you feel that oral sex with out condoms is ok? or is it a good idea to use condoms when going down on someone?


1 Comments, 179 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Getting wife to like lingerie/toys   1/4/2005

Just a quick question what is the best way to get the wife interested in toys and lingerie? Some say surpise her with a toy. Some have said take her to the store. I have asked her but she does not seem super excited. Maybe I am just being to reserved and she is saying yes but I am expecting her to hit me over the head and say lets go right now. What have some of you people done when ...


1 Comments, 71 Views, 0 Votes
how to fit inside asshole?   1/4/2005

im a bit embarassed to be posting this... but im seeing this girl... who wants to have anal sex with me.... but my cock wont fit inside her asshole.. we've tried lubricating it, sliding in fingers to expand hole, etc but didnt work.... its not even close to fit.. any advice?


4 Comments, 227 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_meforanythin 38 M
3  Articles
Im really sonfused and lost sexually   1/4/2005

Hey everybody im 18 bi-curious horny wild and a virgin. I have a question for all u ppl. Everytime when I become horny and hard I become really slutty and want to do it with everyonegirls BBW women and want to get fucked by guys like lots of guys with nice cock or TS/TV/TG and fantises about it and even fantises about my mom (she is married dad lives with us, she 43 5'5 thick body 40c tits ...


2 Comments, 140 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_asian96744 69 M
14  Articles
7 inches or bigger for my wife   1/3/2005

I'm looking for someone who can help me find anyone who has a cock that's 7 inches or bigger for my wife! The other day while I was fucking her she, said that my cock felt like it was smaller than the last time we fucked...So, I asked her if she wanted a bigger cock next time and she asked where would I find one! Told her that if she needed a big cock, I try and find her one for her. Is ...


0 Comments, 162 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Christine2005 48 F
1  Article
The truth about women   1/3/2005

We are a rare breed that fights amongst ourselves yet will protect each other also. Women can be a million times more manipulative than a man ever dreamed of being. Men are generally with a woman for about one of six different reasons. 1. Love 2. Sex 3. Money 4. Companionship 5. Someone to care for them 6. A combination of all of the above. <br> Now with almost no ...


0 Comments, 120 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
sweetgrlnextdoor 52 F
1  Article
Shave or Wax?   1/2/2005

I am thinking about going hair-free for the first time. Ladies, which do you recommend, shaving or waxing? Waxing sounds pretty painful, but shaving sounds like it would be very itchy and hard to keep up...


7 Comments, 556 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
AD8713 49 M
10  Articles
Proof of Purchase(The gift that keeps on giving)   1/1/2005

Gift certificates are usually given when: a) you're pressed for time or b) you have little to no creativity in the gift-giving department. Well, here is a way to present a gift certificate to your loved one while rendering the aforementioned reasons inapplicable. In just about any stationary or gift wrapping store, you can get gift certificates customized according to your own description. ...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 0 Votes
rm_sonny49444 80 M
13  Articles
bi sex   1/1/2005

i am a bi sexual sub i like cpls. the biggest problem is married guys just want to have sex in private they don't seem to want there wifes to know. i like being used in front of the wives to.


2 Comments, 338 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Approches   1/1/2005

This is kind of silly but I was wondering what is the best way to approach women in social scenes... breaking the ice and such at bars/clubs any advice from Women or men would be appreciated Thanks


1 Comments, 72 Views, 0 Votes
Cock Ring ? Need help   12/31/2004

What type of cock ring would some one suggest. I have heard about them, never worn one and want to save time but getting a good one the first time


1 Comments, 114 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
stalled sex in relationship   12/30/2004

OKay, this is merely my opinion on the matter.We have met a lot of couples who say there sex life has slowed down or it sucks. I am a 30 year old man , married almost 10 years now. Our sex life slowed for bit like others. Ours got back on track when we let go of inhibitions and stopped being shy and emabarrased about what we wanted sexually.We started sharing our fantasies with one another, ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
Married, but looking?   12/29/2004

Hi there, <br> Is it wrong for married people who are not satisfied sexually by their partner to go looking elsewhere to find that fulfillment. <br> I'm curious cause I've been married 18yrs and have never had a good sex life. I have never cheated on my wife or thought of it until I discovered this site. <br> <br> I await what others say with interest. ...


4 Comments, 102 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
WHAT THE F*CK   12/29/2004

I need some help in figuring out what I should do about my current situation. I am married and was looking for some extra, on the side, fun. I found it with an amazing man. We have come to care very deeply for one another which is something neither of us had wanted or expected due to my circumstance. Lately he has become rather jealous of my husband as occassionally he asks if I have given ...


7 Comments, 136 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Testical Cancer   12/29/2004

I have had one testical removed due to cancer. Everthing works fine though and I am still fertile. Is this likely to concern a female sexual partner?


0 Comments, 59 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
rm_FreeToFly3 64 F
6  Articles
Men who think they can do it as well as a woman...   12/28/2004

I have posted an ad seeking a female playmate and yet I keep getting responses from men who say they can do it as well as a woman, Sorry guys only a woman can lick a pussy like a woman likes to have it licked. Who would know better than a woman.......


3 Comments, 35 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
How to shave   12/27/2004

My wife wants me to shave my balls smouth. How do I go about it. I have them trimed with some elictric clipers but that leavs stubble and wife doesnt like that. My ball sack has a lot rinckles and I am scard to use a razer on them. Or can I. Anybody have any sugestions.


5 Comments, 209 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
Rules for Meeting/Dating Online   12/27/2004

From meeting people this way, I have gotten to understand a few things. While they are common sense to most, you would be surprized.... and I thought I would share them with you, as follows: <br> 1. Not everyone will be attracted to everyone else... learn to take rejection and to give it without being rude. <br> 2. There is always someone else that the person you are ...


4 Comments, 144 Views, 45 Votes ,7.83 Score
What makes a lady more adventurous?   12/27/2004

I'd like to direct this mostly to ladies who had reservations about swinging in the past, but are now open to it. I'm curious about what happened in your attitude and thinking that made it OK for you to do it. My fiancee has some moral issues about it, and I'm not pressuring her. But she does respond very excitedly when going down on me and I talk about someone fucking her doggy at the same ...


2 Comments, 49 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
How to pick the one?   12/27/2004

Dear All, <br> I am an ancient Asian going to be antique (haven't been dating for so long I almost forgot how to handle one). I am skepticle about this sort of thing since I haven't met anyone from this exciting site before. <br> I am ancient because I think having sex should start from getting to know each other for a while until you both think that the chemistry does ...


4 Comments, 66 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
Some advice please   12/27/2004

Well, I just registered and I paid my dues for a three-month silver membership. I am attempting to get some company for a day or two before I head back home. Unfortunately the forums here are so asininely organized and moderated that I cannot find decent information on this subject, without wallowing for hours in the slow as molasses forums, so I must waste your time here by asking for ...


1 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
veiwing profiles   12/26/2004

im a standard member, but sometimes when i get an email or a wink or even when im searching sometimes, it lets me view the profile, but most of the time it doesnt, does neone know why this is? is it an error or something? because id like to know how im veiwing them occasionaly if im a standard member


1 Comments, 42 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_taltexn1 61 M
1  Article
Penis Pumps and how it affects attitude   12/26/2004

Due to my ignoring my diabetes for years, i finally had to have a penile pump installed in order to get an erection. As a woman, how would you feel about a man that has to use something like that in order to get hard? I mean all of the spontaneous sex is now gone. Once you get started going, both have to stop in order to get it pumped up to play.


2 Comments, 84 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Size   12/26/2004

What is the general standard for measuring penis length? I assume it is erect from the tip to base along the top (dorsal) edge. Right?


1 Comments, 77 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
SplitTailLuvr 72 M
10  Articles
Oral Sex   12/25/2004

With all the women I've had sex with over the years, I've only met one who didn't like oral sex. When I attempted to go down on her, she pushed me away and when I asked her to go down on my she said no way. Sex with her was just the plain old missionary style. She wouldn't even let me play with her pussy or clit, just climb on board, dump a load and get on off. Over the course of 7 years we ...


2 Comments, 34 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
Be careful little dick where you go...   12/24/2004

Actually, I just wanted to write this as a warning to others to be careful who you chose as a 'third' party. I am thinking of two different encounters that turned out badly for both couples involved. In both instances, it was a fantasy of the man to have a threesome with his girlfriend and another woman. In both instances the woman chose the 'other woman' and they chose a close friend that ...


5 Comments, 465 Views, 54 Votes ,5.80 Score
rm_badboy9338 44 M
2  Articles
Can I have some advice on how to get the best out of this site as I am new to this?   12/23/2004

I have writer this article to see what people think of my profile, as I have had no luck at meeting or chatting to any one on this site. I joined BookofSex.com around 4 months ago as a way to meat new people for some sexy fun, as I am quite shy when it comes to chatting up girls. But I seam to be blanked by every one I get in contact with. I have tried sending nice simple emails asking if they would ...


5 Comments, 204 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
Should I say goodbye?   12/23/2004

I've had an on-line relationship with a lady who lives 4 hours away. It has been on-going for over two years. We are able to meet several times during the year but mostly it's communicating by telephone. Four weeks ago, she met a local man and is seing him two or three times each week. They go out to dinner and he takes her to movies and stageplays. Should I try to compete for her attention ...


8 Comments, 279 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
Obese Lady   12/23/2004

My problem is that I married a girl that I loved and although she was curvy when we married (I like a few curves) she has now become obese. We separated around 2 months ago after 16 years of marriage. The trouble is that I don't find rolls of fat particulatly attractive, especially when I take the trouble to keep in shape. We still had great sex but I could only bring myself to do it every ...


15 Comments, 357 Views, 18 Votes ,1.90 Score
How to Become a Great Pussy Licker - Resources   12/22/2004

Here is a short list of valuable training guides to giving a woman great pleasure by performing oral sex on her: 1. DVD by Nina Hartley - Cunninglugus 2. Book by Kim Cattrall(Sex in the City) Satisfaction. Check out the "Basic Position" and related sections. 3. Book by ?author - She Comes First Hot Lover's Tip - Don't be afraid to ask. Have her show and tell. <br> ...


2 Comments, 124 Views, 8 Votes ,0.47 Score
dygara 56 M
12  Articles
Gen Advice   12/22/2004

Remember that BookofSex.com's Terms of Use must be observed here. If you see anything inappropriate for BookofSex.com, please contact our abuse teamRemember that BookofSex.com's Terms of Use must be observed here. If you see anything inappropriate for BookofSex.com, please contact our abuse teamRemember that BookofSex.com's Terms of Use must be observed here. If you see ...


2 Comments, 85 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
JoeDirtyOne 56 M
7  Articles
First Date and the Fun Part   12/22/2004

Hi boy's and girls , <br> i would like to know from you some do's an dont's .... on the first encounter. <br> for example i found out that oral sex is fine even for the first time , but when it comes to different sexual position it's mostly for the first time only the missionary . <br> You might be asking why , simple reason is in my opinion that you have ...


3 Comments, 106 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
rm_pinklady1969 54 F
4  Articles
What is your advice, Women??   12/22/2004

I am a bit frustrated. I wonder why women tend to have sex first night with other woman then never get in touch again when they lie say they loved it and wwants to stay in touch with me. One even asked if we could get in touch and regularly play and turn off profiles. I agreed, but discovered she betrayed afterwards by not getting in touch with me all of sudden. <br> Then ...


2 Comments, 121 Views, 13 Votes ,3.48 Score
Fucking for free   12/22/2004

I think that a guy should be able to fuck anyone for free as fuck buddies. Its ok if the girl agrees to it.


8 Comments, 214 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
avoiding repeats   12/22/2004

I would like to ask that we all becareful and notice whom we are contacting through winks and messages. I received one around three months ago and meet the gentleman, we have had a on again off again thing going. Yesterday while checking my messages, after I have avoided him for a month, low and behold. The saddest part was being an engineer you would think that he could come up with ...


1 Comments, 254 Views, 21 Votes ,2.75 Score
rm_SCUBA602 51 M
5  Articles
to shave or not to shave, an informal poll   12/21/2004

Ladies, do you like your men's pubic hair shaved/trimmed or do you like it natural? My experience is yall like it shaved. Also, any advice on the best techniques for shaving down there for guys? it's a pain in the ass.. haha


8 Comments, 233 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_HIMNHER77 40 C
3  Articles
Sore neck?   12/19/2004

I used to suffer from a sore neck when I would go down on my wife. I had heard many remedies for this but none worked. I finally found something that works, and solicits interaction from her. When I start to feel my neck start to stiffen, I turn so that I'm laying on my side and my wife rolls with me. Now I can rest my head on her inner thigh and just go to town. Now, from this ...


4 Comments, 53 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
Hey ladies! Non smoker or prefer not to say? Does this matter?   12/17/2004

I have recently updated my profile and would like to know if a non-smoking guy would turn off women who smoke? Or should I leave it as "prefer not to say"? Non-smokers are usually the ones that would be turned off by smokers, but it makes no difference to me. I don't want to have someone reject my profile b/c they thought I smoked, but I also don't want to get rejected b/c they thought I ...


3 Comments, 49 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
rm_OKCharlie 69 M
6  Articles
What do you ladies think of male2male sex   12/17/2004

For many many years I have fantasises about sexual fun with another guy. I did a little oral when I was in my teens but now I am on my own and free to be more adventurous. I get nervous about how I will feel about myself but do get very excited at the thought. <br> What should I do ? <br> I adore the female sex but I would like to know what ladies think of a guy who ...


2 Comments, 190 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
Call the plumber!   12/17/2004

I recently had my first man/man experience and it was amazing.I came once, and that was it.Usually I can climax at least two or three times.I was really nervous, but I did manage to come once, so what the hell?The guy I was with came like a volcano three times and probably could have gone another round.He was offended that despite his efforts, I was unable to get off.It felt great, but it ...


3 Comments, 115 Views, 17 Votes ,3.13 Score
photo's and size   12/17/2004

I have a couple of questions 1) what sort of photo's are the ladies looking for ? 2) I've always wanted to know how you are supposed to measure the size of one's penus? is it from the top (looking down) or as i have recently been informed from the base?


5 Comments, 74 Views, 11 Votes ,0.92 Score
rm_asian96744 69 M
14  Articles
threesomes   12/17/2004

How can I introduce my wife in having a threesome? She's not sure if she wants to do it or not! I had a threesome(mfm) and the girl enjoyed every minute of it! And I'm sure that my wife will like it too! If, she gives it a try...So, how do I get her to have a threesome? Can anyone tell me what to do?


3 Comments, 158 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
to last all you want ,,its gotta be about your partner!   12/17/2004

ive realized the secret for lasting until I want (at least for me)pretty much every time i am able to control my orgasm and have on many occassions been up all night, having some serious sex to the point where one time in particular i can swear i was having a dream/hallucination (and i was on top not just laying there) ive found that when all my attention is focused on pleasing her and ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
ladyandyankee 57 C
3  Articles
Single men hitting on married women   12/16/2004

I really feel this one is a no brainer but I guess I am wrong. When a profile says couple thats what it means, "Her and him" playing together. Looking for other couples to share and enjooy. It's great that the guys watch us broadcast but it gets really old when they ask you to call them and even have their phone number there because they want to talk????? There are plenty of single women ...


3 Comments, 66 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
SensualFriend4us 68 C
38  Articles
Involvements with men?   12/16/2004

My wife and I are both bi curious, and it states so in our profile. This does not meant that we have to have that kind of interaction, but we are not adverse to letting nature take its course. <br> We get a lot of emails from men who want to meet us, but it is obvious that there real interest is in my wife. Our experience in real life play if you will, is so far VERY LIMITED. ...


3 Comments, 48 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
Who should pay?   12/16/2004

We are into MFM play and are unable to meet at our home(not sure if we would anyway). When we do meet a man that we are interested in, we will get a hotel room. Our question is who do you think should spring for the cost of the room? The man, us, or half the cost between us?


19 Comments, 316 Views, 24 Votes ,3.36 Score
The way my wife showed me her other side   12/12/2004

My wife and I have been marired for 9 years now.But when we where dating for about 2 mouths she showed me her other side. We lived about 75 miles apart and would meet at a motel to have sex 3-4 times a week. Then one day my wife said she has a something specal for me and told me where to meet her. I got to the motel to find her there and the day started off normaly. Then about 2 hours later ...


2 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_riskyrick5 69 M
14  Articles
How and where to meet Couples   12/11/2004

Can anyone tell me the best place to meet couples interested in having threesomes? I have tried to get peoples attention on BookofSex.com but the WINK seems to go unnoticed. Any advice


1 Comments, 26 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
d0minat3me 38 F
3  Articles
Doesnt show up...   12/11/2004

I've known this guy for 3 years, and we've been offically dating for just over a month. He said at first he'd never just not show up when we had plans and didnt for awhile but lately hes going to jeremys house rather than coming to see me and he wont call, and generally doesnt go home til the next day. I do know for a fact hes at jeremys and not with another girl, but why doesnt he call ...


5 Comments, 33 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
Younger men for Older Women   12/11/2004

I've always thought women ten or more years older than me were very sexy. But it's hard to get a woman's attention when you are younger that them. Does anyone have any advise on how to best approach this?


7 Comments, 122 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
naughty_827 42 M
2  Articles
HOnesty Is Best Policy   12/10/2004

Whatever your aim is here on BookofSex.com honesty is always the best policy. YOu are better off just saying your fetish, marital status, or whatever up front rather than lying about it. The main point of this site is to have fun, sex and to build relationships... and like any relationship you only get one chance to make a 1st impression.


2 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
let me get some too!   12/10/2004

oh my as i woke up this morning it felt like just another wonderful day, waking up from a harsh sleep. I was exhausted from the previous night, and i was in no mood to even get out of bed. When i heard the phone ring, i answered it and it was a chick asking me to go to a swinger party Should i go?


1 Comments, 24 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
chillen405 41 M
21  Articles
How to talk to older woman?   12/10/2004

I am attracted to older woman, im only 22, I have no clue how to approach them because i dont know if they would be interested in me since im young, what is a good way to talk to older woman if you are young?


5 Comments, 42 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
rm_swallowme32 42 M
1  Article
So... heres a question.   12/10/2004

So... I got this ex, right? Well, we broke up (yeh, it was probably my fault. Its always the guys fault, right?) and we've continued talking as friends. I've recently gone through some rough spots emotionally with a mutual friend and so, and she's been there for me throughout it all. My question is, I don't know if I'm misinterperting signals, but is her devotion when I'm in trouble a sign ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Help...I'm stuck online   12/10/2004

HI: I've been on here for a few months and have have corresponded with some very nice people. For whatever reason, I can't seem to bring myself offline to meet them. What am I so scared of? If I thought they were pyscho, would I be corresponding with them? Looking for some good advice on how to get myself comfortable enough to get out there and start living..rather than computing. ...


6 Comments, 64 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
wetcatmuncher 43 F
2  Articles
Sexual encounters- how does a member set one up?   12/9/2004

What is th best approach for meeting other women for sexual encounters? I've tried winking, explicit offers via BookofSex.com email, basically everything I can think of. I've been in contact with members, but it is VERY HARD to actually go about setting up a meeting or encounter. <br> Any advice from those who have been successful in actually having a positive sexual experience? How does ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
Size between the races   12/9/2004

I didn't use to belive the old playboy article about the sizes of mens cocks being related to their race. I am not real convinced even yet. So I would like some feed back from as many people who dare. Good, bad or what ever. <br> This is what happened to me once upon a time... I met a very nice, respectable asian man. He was a wonderful man. We got along very well inspite of ...


6 Comments, 99 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
are they real   12/9/2004

I keep reading on here about people visiting places where there are so called glory holes do these actually exsist ?If so anyone know where in the south of England ?


0 Comments, 43 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
What do women want?   12/9/2004

I try to be honest when writing my profile and get no where. I ask women what they want and get no response. I hear of people lieing in their profiles and get shot down. I see in this site that you need to live in only certain parts of the country to find a woman. Am I wrong? Is there a point to this site for those who don't live in or near a big city? Help Wanted?


1 Comments, 16 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
AmesAviator 40 M
1  Article
A question about contacting people.   12/9/2004

I have been looking around the site for a little while now, and have yet to find a way for one Standard member to contact another Standard member. I know I'm new here, as in I've only been here a day, but just by looking at the system I can't seem to find any way to do it. Is there? I have sent "winks" to a couple of standard members, but since I can't email them and they can't email ...


5 Comments, 46 Views, 13 Votes ,4.32 Score
if you can't accomodate, where would you go?   12/8/2004

i am unable to accomodate but would like to know which is better to use, hotels? motorchefs? what? also what are the drawbacks please help...


7 Comments, 55 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
Iwantmy1stlick 55 F
1  Article
G-rated pictures v. X-rated   12/7/2004

I know this is an adult site, but I did an experiment on this site in the last months. I am disappointed to report the results. When I placed an XXX picture showing my ass I was receiving many emails, amongst invitations. I then placed a picture that blacked out my face and took the xxx ones away. I went from receicing at least 200 emails a day to about five. What was so ironic was the ...


12 Comments, 143 Views, 29 Votes ,7.25 Score
anal help   12/7/2004

hey people help me out. I have had anal in the pass and I LOVE IT...but latly when he trys it hurts so bad that i cry...and i want it so badddllyy!!!!! Can someone give me some advice to help us out. I have tryed the relaxing, deep breath, even a few drinks...nothing seems to help. The one nice thing about it is he doesn't push me any further then i can stand it...its me that wants this to ...


10 Comments, 31 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
sweet30033 52 F
1  Article
Please Help Me!!!!   12/6/2004

How do you keep sex just sex? Is it really possible? How do you keep feelings seperate from pure unadulterated sex?


11 Comments, 88 Views, 14 Votes ,4.10 Score
thief75 49 M
2  Articles
Starting Fresh   12/5/2004

I am recently seperated from my wife(through no fault of my own). I am interested in starting fresh and going out and finding the man I was before I started compromising him. I haven't been out on the town by myself in 7 years. I don't want to get into anything serious too fast as I don't believe that would be healthy. It is exciting in someways, when I was dating before I didn't have the ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
need some pointers here   12/5/2004

just looking to see if anyone can give me some help with a question i have. i am a younger man looking to have some fun with an older woman/ women. any tips on how to bring this up to one, or better yet anyone here interested?


0 Comments, 26 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Looking for alittle help about this site   12/5/2004

I just joined a couple of days ago, and I have some questions regarding a couple of things. First of all, I started as a standard member, and after I realized I wasn't getting anywere, I upgraded to silver. I have to admit, I am confused about responses and views of my profile. I filled out my whole profile, and posted 5 pictures. Now I know I am not the best looking guy in the world, and I ...


7 Comments, 14 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
graphicdezines5 45 M
1  Article
what do i need to do   12/4/2004

what do i need to do to meet people on here am i not attractive enough is what im saying in my profile to far out there? i just want to make new friends try new things and have fun and if i find that special someone great if not ok.. why is it so hard is it just me????


0 Comments, 50 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_ruffNwild69 45 F
1  Article
How do you know for sure?   12/4/2004

How do you know for sure if someone REALLY likes you? People are hard to read...I can't tell so I end up pushing them away. And can you REALLY have a relationship when you sleep with somone the first time you meet them?


7 Comments, 159 Views, 19 Votes ,5.10 Score
Is fisting that scary to men?   12/4/2004

I love to be fisted by men and women and have gotten mixed responses. the women seem to be more receptive to giving it a try than men do. Are yall afraid it hurts? or just that it would never be tight again? believe me, it gets tight again....


7 Comments, 237 Views, 18 Votes ,6.26 Score
Japanese cupping systems   12/4/2004

I use a cupping system on my clit and nipple and would love to find a cylinder large enough to cover my 48dd tits. Has anyone seen anything like that?


2 Comments, 56 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
one4sex692 73 M
3  Articles
Need Advice from the Ladies   12/4/2004

It seems I need to rewrite my profile. No matter what I say in an email, I do not get any replies from the woman here. I wrote my profile as honest as I could and don't want to be or sound phony. I need to get it right because there are to many great women here who have the same wants and needs as I do. Am I that disgusting? Have the women who have told me I am attractive lying to me? I ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 11 Votes ,5.41 Score
MfM   12/4/2004

How come it is so hard to find two guys that will do the threesome ? Doesnt mean they guys have to touch each other ... some girls just like haveing the guys do her... But ask a guy about a threesome with another guy and he freaks out....


12 Comments, 158 Views, 21 Votes ,6.22 Score
rm_asian96744 69 M
14  Articles
sister-in-law   12/3/2004

I want to fuck my sister-in-law but, I don't know how to tell her...She's been bending over in front of me and showing me her tits and she's been touching me more than usual. Do you thik that she wants to have sex with me? What should I do...


9 Comments, 195 Views, 17 Votes ,2.84 Score
give me a hand   12/1/2004

Can anyone help, I have been a member of monthes now, sent loads of winks and had no replies atall. A few women have looked but non have replied, I am only a standard member as I cant use my credit card for personal reasons, Maybe it is that my profile is not very good, I would be very gratefull if any women out there that read this could have a look at my profile and send me any ...


3 Comments, 22 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
what to do ?   12/1/2004

hi everyone I have a problem a few months ago my ex came back in my life , we dated briefly when we were teenagers . U see he is one of my husband oldest friends . My husband was sick a long time and he has been there for me . He and finally had the chance to talk about why everything ended up the way it did . and we told eachother that we bothed have feelings for eachother . and it was ...


2 Comments, 14 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Why is it that.....   12/1/2004

My bf and I don't have sex that often which is what brought me to this site. But when we do he expects me to go down on him until the point where he's fixing to come. This takes from anywhere to 45 minutes and sometimes longer. If I stop before he gets to that point he goes limp during sex. Then to top it all off he lasts like 3 whole minutes during sex. That isn't nearly enough time ...


10 Comments, 35 Views, 17 Votes ,5.53 Score
Video   12/1/2004

I work in video production and have an interest in doing an expose on the swinging lifestyle. I am not looking to videotape couples having sex unless it adds credibility to the project. It would be more to introduce people to the lifestyle through interviews with swingers and to debunk myths about it. If there is anyone interested in the project I would love the contact. I work primarily ...


1 Comments, 40 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
WILL A PUSSY STRETCH AS FAR AS IT HAS TO?   11/30/2004

I know we have babies but during sex will it stretch as far as need be? It does hurt but after a while it feels so good to be stuffed. I like to be fist fuck by my hubby every now and then when I am feeling extra naughtey? I know when I get home he will find it easy to fist me. Do other women like to be fist fucked?


4 Comments, 107 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
Is it normal   11/30/2004

Is it normal to be fisted? I know of one other woman that likes it and I like it only some times. But after a stuffing like I just got it fels good if you go easy and take your time. I have had me husbands fist all the way past his wrist steady plowing me hungry pussy. Is that in the freak show or not?


3 Comments, 44 Views, 14 Votes ,2.34 Score
So how should spin my profile?   11/30/2004

Yes, I am a married guy and I was not sure what the best approach was for my profile. I first tried the "be my mistress" thing. That seemed not to work too well. Now I have a more generic one. Not sure how well that is working yet. You see, one of my fantasies is to take an increadible woman out on the town. You know, play the roles, dress up, fantastic dining experience and then who ...


1 Comments, 19 Views, 6 Votes ,5.93 Score
do you fuck your friends spouses?   11/30/2004

is it better to leave them alone or to rock their worlds?


10 Comments, 62 Views, 10 Votes ,5.97 Score
nine4u2c 57 M
2  Articles
How does one get rid of pubic hair?   11/29/2004

I am not talking about normal pubic hair. I am talking of hair growing on the shaft of the penis. When I get ready for sex, I have to shave my cock, to get rid of any hair on the shaft. That is fine, but when it grows back, YIKES! Itchy as hell! How can I get rid of this unwanted hair once and for all?


4 Comments, 121 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
WetWmyn 48 F
5  Articles
Who's nuts.. them or me??   11/29/2004

So my e#1 we'll call him) was very happy, looking to build a future and then he hit the breaks abruptly saying he was on a mission to "discover" himself. I left him alone and gave him all the space in the world. We didnt talk for a while, then suddenly he sends me a text message saying he was just thinking about me and wanted to say hi and catch up. Ok fine, a couple of weeks go by ...


1 Comments, 88 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
Viewing Pics On BookofSex.com   11/28/2004

I've been a member off/on over the years and this is the first time experiencing this on BookofSex.com. Alot of the pictures you view on profiles are distorted and blurry. If you "right click" on the photo and choose "REFRESH", the pic becomes clearer! Happy hunting


1 Comments, 28 Views, 10 Votes ,5.97 Score
Good oral   11/28/2004

I've never performed oral sex before, and I'm a bit nervous about my ability to please a woman. I know I should ask her what she likes, but I want to go in with as much information as I can. Ladies, what is it that you like a man to do down there?


5 Comments, 49 Views, 13 Votes ,5.49 Score
somerset1386 60 M
4  Articles
Pissing, Spanking and Childhood Games   11/27/2004

When I was small I used to have games in which we pretended that my friends, especially my friend Mary, would piss themselves and have to be spanked. Forfeits for any sort of game usually involved pissing on the side of the house - if we were outside - or a spanking and humiliation if we were inside. I loved to be the spanker, who would be a teacher or a parent. I can't help it, I'm just ...


1 Comments, 64 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
Cam2Cam cybersex tips   11/27/2004

After only two experiences, we are by no means experts, but let us share with you some things we've learned: <br> 1. The more light in the room, the better the picture. And put lights all around, so when you change positions, you don't have to worry about shadows. 2. Arrange the room so that you and your partner can see what the other couple are doing. Stay close to the ...


1 Comments, 31 Views, 28 Votes ,8.17 Score
honesty   11/26/2004

AFTER A 30+ YEAR MARRIAGE FINDING A LOVING MAN AND HAVING A VERY OPEN AND HONEST SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP IS WONDERFUL. SO OFTEN BECAUSE OF OUR PROGRAMMING AS YOUNG ADULTS WE TEND TO BE EMBARASED TO TELL OUR PARTNERS OUR TRUE DESIRES. WE ONLY CHEAT OURSELVES OUT OF FULLFILLING WHAT ARE THE MOST WONDERFUL NATURAL EXPERIENCES WE COULD POSSIBLY HAVE. AS A WOMAN IT IS SO WONDERFUL TO BE ABLE TO ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 15 Votes ,6.50 Score
Between sessions   11/26/2004

I always aim to go at sex a second time. However, the time it takes to get myself going usaully takes longer than my partner stays interested or it is so long we fall asleep, tec, etc... I am looking for ways to shorten the gap, so to speak. Any suggestions?


2 Comments, 26 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
My wifes bi-curious, but its harder than I thought to make it happen!   11/25/2004

Me and my wife created this ad to find a female to help us explore a new fascide of our relationship. When she agreed to the idea I was happy. Ive fantasized about my wife being de3voured by another female for a long time. Now its gonna happen1! Or so I thought! The first problem I encountered was this sites inability to allow us to create a "Couple" profile. No sweat I thought. Well just ...


3 Comments, 50 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
Totalpackage96 58 M
2  Articles
To make a Difference   11/25/2004

I am But simply and only the reality of the reason of the term it will make "The Difference" , and the fear of your couriosity of what I am is the curve that reflects the power of personification of what you wont be , ,But not because that you cant change , But in the weakness of your mind and the quest of change filled with the missing satisfaction of your results, , and the endless ...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
No pic No Dick!   11/24/2004

If you ver get a message from a person, No-matter how exciting it may be, ask for a pic before you do anything else. Know what your going to be looking at instead of gambling.....


2 Comments, 8 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
rm_asian96744 69 M
14  Articles
threesomes   11/24/2004

How can I get my wife to try a threesome? I asked her if she was willing but, she said she wasn't sure. I know she'll love it and want to do it again! And I love to see her get fucked by another guy wi hile I'm watching.


4 Comments, 60 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
Some profiles are not serious   11/24/2004

I think that some people are not serious on this site. They write profile about what they want then when someone who matches that profile email them you get no response. Are they serious about being here or do they just want to see how many emails they can get.


6 Comments, 120 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_ready4sex525 52 M
1  Article
movies   11/24/2004

i am a 33 year old guy and i would like to join the porn industry in australia can anyone point me in the right direction?


2 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
dreammeetthe1 78 F
7  Articles
For females new to BookofSex.com   11/23/2004

Things you need to know when you are new to any personals site: 1. Many of the initial responses are often men who "hit on" everyone. They are often located far from where you live. Be wary of some fast initial contacts, especially if their age is vey different from yours, they live far away. Many of those men are not wanting a relationship, but a quick satisfaction. 2. Know ...


3 Comments, 45 Views, 26 Votes ,7.23 Score
New to this   11/22/2004

Ok why is it the first thing guys want to see is you naked? Hey where's the mystery in that? I don't say hey let's see your naked pictures which usually I'm sure they wouldn't happen to have. So is there an easier way to say NO I DON"T HAVE NUDE PICS?


3 Comments, 11 Views, 15 Votes ,5.12 Score
Safety & Survival Signals for Women   11/20/2004

The Gift of Fear <br> and Other Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence <br> By Gavin de Becker <br> <br> <br> The following is taken from pages 210-212. <br> There are many reliable pre-incident indicators associated with spousal violence and murder. They won't all be present in every case, but if a situation has several of these ...


1 Comments, 8 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
panties or not   11/20/2004

In a private suite at a football game with stadium seating should I wear panties or not. Other couples will be there and it is work related which means all the men that will be in the suite has had me more than once. If any guest are invited I am sure they have been informed but with no panties they will get several good looks at what they will be getting in the future if they do business ...


3 Comments, 71 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score