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badger900 52 M
2  Articles
couples looking for guys   10/23/2017

It's probably been asked a thousand times on here but what are the most important things that couples look for when looking for a guy to join them? <br><br> It's obviously a really big thing to invite another guy into such an intimate part of your life, but do you prefer an attached guy or a single one? one off meet, or get to know him for regular (ish) fun etc?


2 Comments, 26 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
Anal Play   10/21/2017

Has anybody have had experience on anal play on a woman, and if so did she enjoy it.


1 Comments, 5 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Butt Play   10/20/2017

Okay, so despite the number one male sex toy being one you shove up the same hole feces shoots out there has always been an association with gay sex and prostate play. Don't get me wrong I'm open minded and have let a chick stick a finger up there. Did I like it, as emasculating as that was yes it was pleasurable. Would i do it again, probably not as I associate ass with gay sex and pussy ...


1 Comments, 10 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
slim2149 28 M
1  Article
Squurting   10/11/2017

I havent been with a woman who squirts in a few years. I am super turned on by squirting, is it ok to ask if a woman squirts before setting up a date?


4 Comments, 22 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
512horns 26 M
1  Article
Nude pics   10/10/2017

Perhaps posting naked photos is the most efficient way to use this but I think it may take away the excitement of secrets. But you also don't want to miss out by posting boring photos only.


1 Comments, 16 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
notbender2 52 M
4  Articles
If it feels good...Do it!   9/27/2017

😈 1st MMMM fun!! 😉 <br><br> We've been playing (Jason...) through the years, from the park, garage, your office and including the new cars at the dealership! Many time I include you in with MMM fun with the 19yo buddy (Hungyoung...) Also a buddy who lives near by your work (riderstro...) Then a buddy (horny587...) and his wife who I've been playing with for several ...


3 Comments, 35 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
cuddles9plz72 52 M
1  Article
sexless marriage   9/25/2017

anyone help me , wife no longer has sex, been a few years now. <br><br> i cant go on . do i cheat or try to see why?


6 Comments, 62 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
natedogdapimp69 41 M
1  Article
hi   9/23/2017

so when you find the right woman never let her go


1 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Ceiling fan...   9/14/2017

Slipped and got my dick wrapped up in the ceiling fan... what to do?!


1 Comments, 16 Views, 10 Votes ,0.40 Score
Squirrel   9/13/2017

Is it just me or do people on this site have that squirrel factor? meaning you find someone or some profile you like, you connect but the moment something shifts... squirrel and your off to something else - only to let the beginning of that first relationship never get a chance to flourish? <br><br> Is it just me?


8 Comments, 28 Views, 14 Votes ,2.50 Score
Femboi4fun69 26 T
4  Articles
Becoming a passable CD   9/9/2017

I'd like to shave whole body smooth.(no no razor? Nair hair removal?wax?) get together a outfit that isn't to slutty with heels and practice walking sexy, stripping getting comfort in New clothing.. have makeup lesson so I can do myself..find good wig and accessory's like glasses , collar, brackets, many more.Complet Sissy makeover and find out how beautiful I really am. Would love ...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
A little help   9/5/2017

This is me trying to see what i can do to improve my chances on this site. <br><br> I know i don't have a picture and shall be looking into it, otherwise. <br><br> Any tips are welcome


2 Comments, 23 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
Points and IM   9/3/2017

How do you keep from spending all your points on the IM that doesn't work half the time. Or spending points multiple times during the conversation with the same person because the IM crashes.


2 Comments, 21 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
Lukin4allofU 59 M
13  Articles
Talking to Another Person   8/30/2017

People make this site so lousy... Its not hard to say hello, I'm not interested or thanks for the offer but... Instead they ignore you or worse - talk shit about you! I find allot of people on here rude and clowns...


3 Comments, 15 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
Points   8/25/2017

Be sure to use your points wisely


2 Comments, 18 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
Points   8/25/2017

So this is how to get points


1 Comments, 11 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Enginary 33 M
39  Articles
advice   8/23/2017

need an advice please


4 Comments, 17 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
Bigmorgan4 42 M
5  Articles
Picky?   8/8/2017

What does one do if they are very selective with who they date or sleep with???Lol imao


3 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
unicorn   8/3/2017

What is the deal with ghosting people.. conversation starts and immediately your ghosted..


2 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
NotSheldon1962 56 M
4  Articles
Exploring the CD/TV/TS/TG World   7/30/2017

While I'm not exactly a novice, I'm not as experienced as I'd like to be.

I'm definitely an aficionado for a curvy figure with a little extra, as I'm sure my non-op objects of desire understand.

Is my approach wrong? I'm not exactly saying, "Hey, I want to suck your dick or feel you buried in my ass!" But just not getting much of a response.

I'd love to explore ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
sharknet5 52 M
6  Articles
How and where to meet   7/29/2017

What do people think - best to chat online and then get a hotel or drinks coffee first and then see where it goes. Which do you think more exciting?


1 Comments, 39 Views, 6 Votes
richandriss 33 C
2  Articles
Bi Curious Female needs friendly advice   7/26/2017

Looking for helpful tips and advice on how to get started on my journey comfortably


2 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
How To Perform Venus Butterfly Technique   7/26/2017

Yes, it's real. Very, very real.

Drive her wild and make her orgasm over and over again with this infamous technique.

Here's exactly how to do the Venus Butterfly:

1. Kiss your lover passionately as you caress her entire body to get her juices flowing.

2. Give her oral sex (which is called "Honoring" in Tantra) slowly tease her between her thighs as you ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
getting into swinging   7/21/2017

Whats the best way for a single male to get into swinging or group sex? i know most parties are for couples.


1 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Bigmorgan4 42 M
5  Articles
Chat   7/19/2017

how many people on here participate in sex chat and cam or pic trading?


2 Comments, 7 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Bigmorgan4 42 M
5  Articles
is ok?   7/18/2017

I jerk off about 5 times a week. What number is fine and how much is ok?


1 Comments, 10 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
How many ?   7/18/2017

Ive been on here a few years and managed to meet 1 lady in that time. How many have you met ?


1 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
mattjoe22 44 M
21  Articles
Getting a Gold Membership on BookofSex.com   7/18/2017

I don't use plastic. Especially online. BookofSex.com is a good site and has incentives for activity. I like to broadcast and build up my BookofSex.com activity, therefore getting Gold memberships rewarded for 2 week periods.

You have to be on the site ALOT and you must show alot of activity.

Are there other ways to get gold membership status on BookofSex.com?


1 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
mattjoe22 44 M
21  Articles
I want a sexual liaison close to me.   7/18/2017

How do I attract a partner who lives within a 50 mile radius?

I live in a town of 50, 000, Next town over is 100, 000 people. I have to stay close to home for my day job. I want to find a mutual, safe, yet sexy partner without flying cross country.

What are some tips to let potential partners know I want to shop local???


1 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Is there ?   7/13/2017

Is there one session with someone you met via BookofSex.com that is truly memorable, what made it so memorable and did it remain as a 1 off or lead to something more ?


1 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes
Difference between FWB and Fuck buddy   7/8/2017

Hello all,

For the longest time, and yes I am in the process of updating my profile to properly show what I want, but as I started to say, for the longest time, I thought I always wanted a friend with benefits (FW. What exaclty is a FWB? What does it entail?

A FWB to me is someone who know very well, that you spend time and energy getting to know both inside and outside of ...


3 Comments, 29 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
dilli9134 25 M
3  Articles
Advice   6/28/2017

What advice would y'all say to.someone


2 Comments, 23 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
biqbunah 25 M
1  Article
Being a virgin is hard   6/23/2017

I've been looking to lose my virginity for a while now, does anyone have any advice on how to find a girl who'd want to take it?


4 Comments, 40 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
naming the fake profiles   6/17/2017

fake: Seekingmaster666



scammer: Pussywet1008 will try to take your money lol here are their bank details lol C J Tombs 20-49-11 83544060


2 Comments, 28 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
Eaturpuccy 39 M
4  Articles
Giving oral   6/14/2017

Ok women when getting oral do you just like to let the guy flick his tongue on your clit and suck on it? Or do you let him get all inside your pussy with his tongue?


6 Comments, 41 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
Why relationships are smart   6/13/2017

Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now mjones7890000 0 Points Help / Contact Broadcast For Tips New

IM My Stuff Search Live Action Community What's Hot Adult Movies See All Activity Notifications Get 10x more action! Please upload a profile photo, fill in your profile, personal information and physical information. BookofSex.com Points Program Earn points by simply using our site ...


2 Comments, 15 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
Indian milk shake   6/11/2017

Crunchy nut was make up for hot


1 Comments, 9 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
easyjoe92 26 M
2  Articles
new to this whole thing   6/7/2017

so I'm new to the whole online web life and was looking for any advice or tips on how to be successful. Ive never made a video of me doing anything and don't even know were to begin when it comes to broadcasting.


1 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
easyjoe92 26 M
2  Articles
new to this whole thing   6/7/2017

so I'm new to the whole online web life and was looking for any advice or tips on how to be successful. Ive never made a video of me doing anything and don't even know were to begin when it comes to broadcasting.


2 Comments, 9 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
lmpuic2 25 F
0  Articles
Virginity   6/5/2017

My friend and I were talking the other day about her virginity. As we talked I discovered that she wanted to Auction her virginity. Honestly I did not know how to react to that. Although I am not fully against her decision I believe that people will give her a hard time about it. I tried to reason with her and make her see the good and the bad sides to this decision but she made up her mind. ...


4 Comments, 92 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
Why "Adult Friendship" is not the same as "FWB"   6/4/2017

Most of us who have been using this site for a while are well acquainted with some of the petty cliches that the short time users (and some of the longest time ones) will use in their communication with us. It is almost disheartening and sad to realize that there are not as many differences between one or another person in a very large cross section of humanity. How many messages have you ...


3 Comments, 52 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
JimmyB7474 59 M
9  Articles
Shaking Hands Is A Bad Idea!   5/31/2017

Shaking hands is a bad idea!

The Facts:

From The Kinsey Report - “Sexual Behavior In The Human Male”

98% of males (including married men) admitted to masturbating.

Average: 3 times per week. (and… 85% admitted premarital sex; 50% admitted adultery)

Current population - 132, 090, 689 Men in the United States

ASSUMPTIONS:

1. It ...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Membership   5/30/2017

Is it really worth purchasing membership her or is it poss to get around this site without. ie can your earn enough points to do as you would like on the site.


1 Comments, 12 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
RandyC1958 59 M
2  Articles
Bi Curious   5/27/2017

I've been thinking about giving head to another guy now for a good while . Seems like it's very hard to find a guy that would take my first blow job . I'm not far from Lumberton and Fayetteville , in NC . Being this is my first tie to give a bj to another guy I would refer a smaller sized cock . Any takers ?


3 Comments, 53 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
adanac13 51 M
15  Articles
WOMAN & bJ'S   5/21/2017

Why is it so hard to get a woman to give a guy a nice relaxing blow job? they don't mind recieving ...


4 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Ani80in 37 M
5  Articles
taking it nice and slow   5/20/2017

Most often the common mistake that men do is to rush into things. When it comes to dealing with women, men have to understand that women like to take it slow and nice. its like a foreplay.. slow and seductive start which gives them the feeling of being special.


1 Comments, 14 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
utfrangrl 46 F
8  Articles
Judge People Yourself.   5/19/2017

Don't Meet With These People. Awhile back while having dinner with another couple we talked about who we were meeting and what we were doing. I happened to mention a couple who wanted to meet me to them. Soon as they heard who it was they told me to be aware of them and what kind of couple they were. Later on about three ...


8 Comments, 111 Views, 15 Votes ,4.05 Score
wangzai93 26 M
5  Articles
I am a virgin...   5/16/2017

Is it normal to be a virgin at the age of 24?


6 Comments, 31 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
adanac13 51 M
15  Articles
squirting   5/13/2017

how do you make a woman squirt ?


2 Comments, 14 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
stevesamuel570 37 M
1  Article
Phase of LIfe - Liking mature -Comment your stories   5/13/2017

ON experience, i would say that the most of the people goes through infatuation phase in life and then phase where they started liking the mature ladies. And Yes I am in that phase currently. The attraction towards the matured one has some different feeling, You are surrounded by so many in day 2 day life. So your neighbour, friends mom and some laundry lady, your maid and what not.

...


1 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Elbowmack604 39 M
2  Articles
You cant really message anybody on this site until you subscribe in!!!   4/22/2017

i thought that this website would be the one that wouldnt scam me and its kinda true but at the same time you cant use the site to the fullest until you sign up. i cant even read or reply my messages without having them ask me to subscribe. does anyone one know any real FREE sites??? i really want to know!....


2 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
utfrangrl 46 F
8  Articles
The BookofSex.com Points System?   4/20/2017

Hi all, I am Fran and new to the site. I have a lot of friends here and they have been giving me point tips and fan points to. However with the hundreds of points friends have given me none of them have been given to me by BookofSex.com. The points I do have I earned by joining groups and posting and starting a blog and replying to messages. I saw if I had 4, 000 points I could get a gold membership, and ...


9 Comments, 70 Views, 14 Votes ,4.42 Score
Vanilla94 29 M
6  Articles
don't be dumb   4/19/2017

if someone seems sketchy don't go and see them..


4 Comments, 19 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
utfrangrl 46 F
8  Articles
Having sucess on this BookofSex.com site.   4/18/2017

I'm fairly new to this site, and so far having success in receiving flirts, friends and people wanting to meet up. Just wondering how many other site members are having success on this site to.


4 Comments, 45 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
stephanie_jaymes 52 T
1  Article
A note to all men . . .   3/29/2017

(Originally posted in my blog, but it's something I wanted to share)

"I want to make you feel special."

A friend of mine on here said this to me some time back. I know him, and know he is sincere. But it got me thinking about others that have said that and meant it in a totally different way.

I'd like to share some insight with you that I've gained since I started ...


6 Comments, 108 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
Rodnice007 35 M
3  Articles
Clean shaven   3/28/2017

Men if you want your nuts suck a lot of women don't mind but you gotta clip the hairs better yet remove them all just like we don't want a mouthful of hair vice versa.


2 Comments, 17 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
Rodnice007 35 M
3  Articles
Patience   3/28/2017

A little about my experience with this site is watching how thirsty people are in the inbox.lol like I know it's a adult site but some things that are said shouldn't be in the opening message. It seems like people forget that people are people you can't just jump to the conclusion without a introduction or a body to the story.lol if you take my advice and ease what's on your mind into the ...


1 Comments, 10 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
sundys2 46 C
8  Articles
Men easier to find than women... why?   3/24/2017

We are always looking for a 3rd and it is apparently easier to find men willing to go along with this than women. At the bar/club, personal friends, online, it is always easy to get a man to accompany us but almost never get a woman to join. What is it we could do differently? We definately don't want to stop mfm but would like a beter turnout for fmf. Thanks for the advice.


2 Comments, 22 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
bolingbrook2015 51 M
3  Articles
Make up advice for older CD TS TV TG   3/22/2017

Damn it is hard to learn how to put on make up ! Ive watched the youtube video's but those are for very young people . Id like to find tips and products that don't make me look like I escaped the circus , anyone know of advice sites for make up ? Id be grateful for some advice


1 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
JustTravis907 49 M
7  Articles
Confused by what coworker said to me   3/20/2017

I've been on loan for the past year to a of my firm. This work is a special project where I work with one other person, the female in the title, about 25% of the time and then a couple other people.

Over the past year we have bonded greatly. We talk everyday for hours (even when not working with me she comes over or IMs me) and go to lunch 1 on 1 almost daily. Are conversations range ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Opening question   3/19/2017

Ladies, what generally are the most likely opening questions on IM that would make you reply?


1 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
dan_in_mich1970 48 M
2  Articles
For me to get a woman   3/12/2017

i FEEL best way to get a woman to like you is to get your hands on there shoulders and rub there neck. I found success with getting a woman to like you is a full neck rub and shoulders and when you see the woman is responding or light moan you stay on that spot rub with your thumbs and apply light pressure to that area . with other hand you rub down there spine and work both ares.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
Djekhex 26 M
1  Article
Frustrated and don't know what to do.   3/12/2017

I'm a very shy person and don't have much confidence when it comes to my appearance. This is why i'm a virgin. I want to have sex but I don't know if having sex to have sex is a good idea. Any advice?


1 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
babyproof 46 M
7  Articles
friend list issues   3/6/2017

... not sure if the site is a bit wonky, but has anyone else ever experienced this? .... there are times where i've added someone as a friend, and i can see the little icon next to their name in my "inbox" that indicates they are on my friend list, but when i click on "Friends" under the "My Stuff" tab, they don't appear there. am i the only one experiencing this?


2 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
littlevixen6929 43 F
0  Articles
It isn't the site it is you.   3/5/2017

I hear it all the time..."this site sucks" or "this site doesn't work". And my personal favorite "this is a sex site". Yes it is. People come here looking for sex. That doesn't mean you just sign up and all the vaginas fall in your lap. Or dicks. People don't stop being people. I am a bit of a slut. Most of us here probably relate. That doesn't mean we don't have standards or ideals. It ...


4 Comments, 55 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
Prevent Injuries   2/25/2017

Always use knee pads or a pillow.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
fun girls   2/25/2017

why should girls have all the fun


1 Comments, 8 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Caladynus2 49 M
1  Article
Don't Let Yourself Get Scammed By a Pretty Lady   2/21/2017

In my forty-five years of life, I have seen a lot of things. One of them is the good old scam. It is safe to say that this site, like many other of its kind is a place ripe for people trying to pull a big con on you.

They start out with contacting you. They have a photo and often present as just another person looking for love. They want to talk with you but they don't want to do it ...


4 Comments, 54 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
Indomitable80 38 M
23  Articles
Ladies and Gents   2/15/2017

If u met a lady on here and u both had strong mutual feelings for each other which eventually develops into love but u realize that the other is addicted to this site, how will u handle that?


1 Comments, 32 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
stcloudguy2016 31 M
3  Articles
Taste of Cum   2/8/2017

Question for the ladies:

I've heard a million times that diet affect's the taste of a man's cum. Fried food/unhealthy food makes it taste worse while healthier stuff, especially pineapple, makes it tastes better.

My question: what if a man eats both frequently? I certainly enjoy my fast food but I eat quite a bit of pineapple too. Does one factor more than the other? Thanks.


0 Comments, 26 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
hotchris76 44 M
1  Article
Be honest   2/6/2017

To all the girls I have dated, And the one I have now. I realized that all I have to do is be honest. The girl I am with now, we have been together for 6 years and knows everything about me. From the beginning I have been honest with her.


2 Comments, 71 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
durfuncpl 62 C
1  Article
suggestions   1/20/2017

In the heat of passion my wife has said that she would be game to play with another cpl, M or F. I'm thrilled but this idea only tends to come up now and then. I'd like to take it further but during the "light of day" she is not so adventurous. She is pretty reserved in general but does love sex and her toys. I'd like to introduce her to this site and post some pics but not sure how to ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
unlovable415 55 F
2  Articles
MESSAGING DOs and DONTs part TWO "TOO MUCH"   1/12/2017

I guess I will begin by expressing how important the first message is when making initial contact with an BookofSex.com member. Whether meeting someone online or meeting in person at a coffee shop, first impressions are vital. I think we all know what happens when either one of us blows that first meeting.....most likely there will not be a second.

In part one of messaging dos and don'ts I ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 16 Votes ,5.63 Score
Bastin2015 43 M
6  Articles
Don't forget to say it...   1/12/2017

So very true...

Don't forget to let them know you love them. Not just by saying words, but with your actions and deeds as often as you can.

Manifest that love into moments and memories. Because love is to be lived as much as it is to be felt and if you live a life full of love, they'll never doubt how you truly feel.

And they'll always know that they were loved. ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
unlovable415 55 F
2  Articles
MESSAGING DOs and DONTs   1/10/2017

Daily I receive a lot of messages from members and I cannot respond to all of them. I get messages that just make me smile; some make me think; some bring tears to my eyes; some make me laugh; some make me want more; and more often than not...some have been the beginning of great friendships. and there are the messages that make me cringe; some that make me frustrated; some that are vague; and ...


6 Comments, 108 Views, 24 Votes ,5.74 Score
acamdog96 20 M
1  Article
mmmmm   1/10/2017

ask me


1 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes
mjr308 41 M
1  Article
BookofSex.com Chat system   1/8/2017

Here's some advice. Don't expect it to work. Or to ever regain lost points for messages that aren't delivered.


2 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Connection   12/29/2016

In any relationship there needs to at least an establish relationship between the two parties. Even on the wild flings on BookofSex.com there need to some sort of bond between the individuals. I am not just talking sexually. Mentally they need to know what they are getting into. Two people may have different motive on how things play out on this site. For example one could be looking for friends with ...


2 Comments, 18 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Oral Pleasure   12/28/2016

To me oral satifaction is the be kind of pleasure. Many times I have climaxed while giving women head. I do not know why but it is something about a gyrating pussy on my lips. My favorite is getting my face sat on.


2 Comments, 24 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Wild_N_Horny_74 50 M
6  Articles
Getting fuequent views by same members   12/23/2016

My profile has been viewed by no more that 3 different members once each per week. I'll send messages to them asking if they're interested and not get a reply. Anybody have this happen to them and if so is there any reason for this? (one is in network, another has standard contact and the other I'm a fan of)


6 Comments, 47 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
Males Caming   12/23/2016

When I cam i feel more males watch than females. I do not care about anyone sexual orientation but it get uncomfortable whip it out in front of an audience of mostly guys. Do anyone else feel that way?


3 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
What to Do   12/15/2016

We are adults here and perhaps we share more than we should. I know I have. But for debate is how much is too much.

Case in point- a woman who I chatted with on this site asked for an intimate picture. Ok no problem so I sent her one...of the unit. She liked it...and it was in a relaxed state. I would assume that she would provide an intimate picture of herself. No dice

She ...


3 Comments, 71 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
steve69ralph 68 M
5  Articles
women love oral sex   12/12/2016

Many women in New Mexico are Bi or Bi-curious. Oral sex is pleasing to them. Having a guy dress up in women's clothes and performing oral sex on them is very desirable for them. How do women in other states feel about kinky guys and oral sex?


2 Comments, 37 Views, 6 Votes
XXXYYC469FUN 61 C
2  Articles
Saying No Thanks   11/24/2016

Just because we say "no thanks" knowing that the physical connection is not there for us does not mean to be taken in a hurtful or spiteful way. When you know the vibe is not there - then move on. Saying no just means good luck in your pursuit of the XXX adventure. Have fun but please, please do not be offended.


3 Comments, 57 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
stonecoldsw89 51 M
5  Articles
That first experience...   11/21/2016

As someone who has enjoyed the sexy chats and some cam sessions, finding it hard to get to the next level...the real meet. Lots of things to consider in order to make it the right experience. Any thoughts or tips on taking that next step?


1 Comments, 39 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
JR20163 40 M
5  Articles
getting the best chance of a response   11/20/2016

being there are thousand more guys on here what's the best way to stand out to the females on here? Is it the nice guy?, the upfront? or is it all just based on a picture?


5 Comments, 62 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
omaha4fwb2016 44 M
3  Articles
Which Condoms do you prefer   11/9/2016

Hey everyone which condoms are preferred brand etc.


3 Comments, 21 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
hairypussyluvr66 57 M
1  Article
Finding A Hairy Pussy.   11/7/2016

Hi, I have noticed over the years a great place to meet females that possess a hairy pussy: is at protest rallies. If a female possesses hairy armpits, the chances are relatively high she also possesses a hairy pussy. Happy pussy munching.


0 Comments, 30 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
straponcpl314 44 C
6  Articles
Do you like to watch   11/5/2016

Are you the type of person that shares or like to watch. I use to be selfish and did not like to share. but there is something about your partner getting it on with someone else. It makes you want them more and adds spice to the relationship.


6 Comments, 58 Views, 20 Votes ,5.93 Score
Discretion   11/1/2016

How do you assure discretion from others?


10 Comments, 52 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
What do women like?   11/1/2016

What is it you women actually like and hope to get out of here? Do you older women really want a younger man? How many of you need to be discreet because you are married and just want something on the side no strings but just "fun". How many of you women are really about just having fun? There is alot of women on here that will chat for like 5 mins and then disappear.


4 Comments, 57 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
synthie69 49 F
3  Articles
Am a woman   10/19/2016

I am MTF Woman. i am now doing a full transition. In the past I new I had a feminine side. I thought I had a gift. I felt like I had the ability to understand what a woman was thinking. It worked for me as I have been with more woman than a really want to admit. Not because I am ashamed of any relation or encounter i have had, it is certainly not. I truly appreciate every relationship I have had. ...


3 Comments, 53 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
a simple no thanks   10/18/2016

Is in not common manners to say no thank you or yes thanks, or maybe I'm just old fashioned.


3 Comments, 40 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
mike19619999 63 M
7  Articles
Mutual Masturbation - mutual fun   10/18/2016

I think mutual masturbation is fantastic for a variety of reasons. Let's see if I can get them all down :

1. Openness - to allow your partner to watch you masturbate, and for your partner to do the same, shows how open and honest you are with each other. It's like you're saying "this is me, this my body, I'm happy with it and I want you to be happy with it too". Let's face it, you can't ...


3 Comments, 36 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
rm_BIGYODAG2 65 M
24  Articles
Vote   10/17/2016

Monica Lowinski is voting for Trump. She said the last Clinton in office left a bad taste in her mouth.


2 Comments, 13 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
SMILING FACES SOMETIMES LIE   10/15/2016

Hi my fellow BookofSex.com brother and sisters,

I want to offer some friendly advice, not only to men but to women too. Please beware of the little foxes and wolves on this site who are on here targeting us innocent people on here just trying to have fun and meet great people.

We have to remember that some people are on here with BAD and DESTRUCTIVE motives. Be sure to keep ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
SMILING FACES SOMETIMES LIE   10/15/2016

Hi my fellow BookofSex.com brother and sisters,

I want to offer some friendly advice, not only to men but to women too. Please beware of the little foxes and wolves on this site who are on here targeting us innocent people on here just trying to have fun and meet great people.

We have to remember that some people are on here with BAD and DESTRUCTIVE motives. Be sure to keep ...


4 Comments, 48 Views, 15 Votes ,6.19 Score
BBWL0verx 31 M
1  Article
Just an FYI   10/12/2016

Don't be a dick... that is all good day


1 Comments, 11 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
Wild_N_Horny_74 50 M
6  Articles
Getting cut off on IM   10/6/2016

Here are some issues I have with the instant messenger. If I see a local member on there I start the chat. After starting the chat 2 minutes go by before it tells me this member is not available. When they do respond, we only get at most 4 messages exchanged before the recipient doesn't reply to my latest message. After refreshing the IM, I'll see that the member I was chatting with has left. ...


1 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
sassy1595 59 C
1  Article
RSVP etiquette   9/26/2016

Is there some kind of etiquette as to letting a host couple know you are not going to make it? We have made plans with couples one to two weeks in advance and never heard from them again. We don't know when to say...well they are not coming...need to make new plans. What if we make new plans and the other people contact at the last minute?


2 Comments, 28 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Bigdaddy5545 38 M
4  Articles
living history   9/25/2016

As a young in the early 1920s, Olivia was blissfully unaware of racism. She and her family lived in a vibrant black community of entrepreneurs outside of Tulsa, Okla., where the only white people she knew were gregarious salesmen soliciting her father, who owned a department store. The men came bearing presents and often lingered to listen to her sister play the piano. "I thought that was the ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
Bigdaddy5545 38 M
4  Articles
age   9/25/2016

why judge someone by there age? what does it really solve, when its all a number and you make you yourself as a person


3 Comments, 21 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
Sex Toy Mishaps... how often do they happen??   9/24/2016

Earlier today, it crossed my mind that sex toy mishaps have to occur from time to time. Yes, it has also happened to me a few years ago. So after searching online, using google it seems it is not uncommon for sex toy injuries to happen.



The Sexology institute, yes my dear, there is such an institute, quoted an academic article with these facts:

Sex ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
gboy2929 35 M
2  Articles
sex with the same   9/24/2016

Who has good advice on m and m sex? Best techniques? Oral, safe without protection?


1 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Letsplaay1982 42 M
2  Articles
Does cock size matter?   9/22/2016

Just curious? I have heard both ways.


3 Comments, 51 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
Letsplaay1982 42 M
2  Articles
Does cock size matter?   9/22/2016

Just curious? I have heard both ways.


4 Comments, 17 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
penetrar37 46 M
10  Articles
finding articles   9/13/2016

so previously posted an article in here , but have no way to find the articles I have posted " adding " and article is simple, finding a previous one , not so much , any help inbox me


2 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
penetrar37 46 M
10  Articles
finding articles   9/13/2016

so previously posted an article in here , but have no way to find the articles I have posted " adding " and article is simple, finding a previous one , not so much , any help inbox me


2 Comments, 8 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Increased price of BookofSex.com   9/6/2016

When did they increase the price to become a gold member and also decrease the amount of IM they allow standard members?


4 Comments, 36 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
Pay or Not to pay   8/27/2016

Is being a paying member worth it? Need to know before I pay? Advice please


6 Comments, 41 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
GoodnSak 49 M
5  Articles
Oral   8/27/2016

Do women really stop going down on men after they get married? That would totally suck, lol


10 Comments, 60 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
Emoji's anyone?   8/22/2016

Just a suggestion for the website creators....

It is no secret that the ratio of men vs women here is in unbalanced towards men being the vast majority - so far so good...

unfortunately I heard from many women that they are just fed up with countless (immature) approaches from men...no surprise there either

now - if you browse through female profiles and someone catches ...


4 Comments, 33 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
sujal2016 30 M
1  Article
Secrets to a Woman...!!   8/20/2016

There are many things that men don’t know about women’s wants in the bedroom. It’s not because men don’t care, it’s just because the subject either hasn’t come up or she’s too shy to offer you this information. While every woman is different, there are some things all women can generally agree on when it comes to sex, and many things women secretly want in bed. We strongly encourage ...


2 Comments, 29 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
thickprick13 40 M
5  Articles
Respect   8/16/2016

I have a small house and I am letting a cousin stay with me should I have to hear them open and close front door in and out while I am trying to sleep


4 Comments, 26 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
Costicino 59 M
1  Article
Gentleman for straight couples....   8/13/2016

Hi everyone... where are the genuine couples...? Who can help me please?


2 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_GUYfrHotLady 35 M
7  Articles
8 Sex Tips For Men Who Actually Want To Please A Woman   8/11/2016

Educate Yourself

Great lovers are made, not born! This is a point that I bring up time and time again. So many people expect sex to be effortless, but it rarely works that way in the real world. Just like any other skill, being good in bed takes time, practice, and education. There are so many topics to learn about, including sexual health, STI and pregnancy prevention, sexual technique, ...


3 Comments, 57 Views, 17 Votes ,5.95 Score
jock161616 54 M
1  Article
pubic ahir   8/11/2016

do women prefer a man shaved or trimmed below these days or is natural the way to go


1 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
funkjunkee 52 M
6  Articles
7 Things I’ve Learned As A Black Woman Who Dates White Men   8/1/2016

My dating resume is pretty typical; it consists of a few long term relationships and a couple meaningless flings. If one were to go through each relationship in my past however, it would become obvious that all of my past love interests except for one have been white. (If you asked my family members, they would say that the one doesn’t even really count because he looked white and had a British ...


2 Comments, 42 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
FlintLockwood_13 44 M
2  Articles
Erotic play dates   7/29/2016

When a relationship is first heating up, things can go from hot to heavy within seconds. But with time comes familiarity, which leads to routine, which can end in boredom. You don’t want sex to become just another chore! There’s no time like the present to pump the passion back into your relationship. These five erotic play dates will get you so worked up, you’ll want to rush home to rip ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
TSCourtneyC 40 T
3  Articles
Transsexual Development   7/28/2016

It seems that the majority of members with the "T" marking in their profile are "CD's". I enjoy both T's & CD's. I would like to open up some conversation on HRT. I think it would be nice for us T-girls to discuss and document our development through HRT. Either FTM or MTF would be appreciated. I was on HRT a few years ago and stopped. I was only four months in. I did start to see some ...


6 Comments, 196 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
raulb838383 37 M
8  Articles
safe sex safe world   7/24/2016

if u have sex it have to safe it have to be in a good way and have to be a more safe


1 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
upnrthfun 60 M
1  Article
No free IM's   7/19/2016

So, standard members used to get 5 free IM's a day. It says u r supposed to get 3 now but I cant get any, when I try the 3 turns to 0 right away... thats on my phone. On my laptop it shows 0 available but I can IM and it charges me 1 point to do so. different device, different abilities. cant get free IM's either way.. what r other standard members seeing?


3 Comments, 36 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
DinAZ1 41 M
2  Articles
gold worth it - is this what it used to be?   7/17/2016

IDK if I am getting bored of it, or if it just degrading. I have had gold before and thought about upgrading but just can't really think of a good reason to.

It seems more of the reasons are geared around impulse decisions for horny guys that are desperate to send a message or see a pic right then so pull their credit card out.

I think it is worth it to have gold if there are ...


1 Comments, 25 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
idang84 33 M
1  Article
lol   7/17/2016

crazy biatchs love um


2 Comments, 8 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
bluangel733 49 F
1  Article
Getting over a lost loved one   7/15/2016

Still have not done this grieving thing very well my husband passed away in January of this year so its been 6 months almost to the day since his death and I am not getting over him or us very well, is this normal????


4 Comments, 58 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
Michelle_Malcomb 66 T
6  Articles
Why isn't anyone interested? Lesson Learned   7/5/2016

It's been almost a year. Eleven months exactly, and I thought I'd share some of what I've learned. It helps to think of BookofSex.com as a marketplace and you are a company trying to get business. The measure of success is the amount of attention you get. Let's assume the target of your hottest desire is very popular. She or he is getting several hundred messages per week, and cannot possibly ...


4 Comments, 78 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
igota2inchcock 35 M
7  Articles
tiny cocks   7/3/2016

do u think women like tiny cocks


3 Comments, 31 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
sudhir_5768 41 C
3  Articles
Better involve during love   7/3/2016

Sex feels better when you are in the nude. 1-Find easy access to her breasts. The bra is not your friend. The purpose of its existence is to bind and restrict her breasts. Since you can't rip it off completely, take your hand and slide the straps off her shoulders. Then fold the cups down so her breasts are free under her shirt. "Now that the bra is out of the way, you'll be able to rub her ...


1 Comments, 28 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
TammyThumper 48 C
1  Article
if you say your going to be there, then be there   6/17/2016

we as a couple hate it when we set up and you don't come. its hard enough to just set up but when we get excited and you do not show up its such a let down. So all we ask is please be real and come. Cause if you do then we will make sure you Cum.


4 Comments, 24 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
MahoganySiren 30 F
1  Article
Backdoor Peeping Tom Cam Spy   6/15/2016

Did you know that there are hackers waiting to hijack your webcam, computers, personal devices etc, ...and secretly watch you partake in private activity offline? These criminals are also capable of stealing passwords from infected computers, reading email convos, and worst case scenario access your bank account info. So now that we got the Peeping Toms out the way I' would like to give a few ...


4 Comments, 67 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
letstryitguy 51 M
1  Article
where to start   5/30/2016

i just don't know were to start. i guess I'm confused about how i feel on something that i do and don't want , in a scene. i find passable shemales that have nice tits , looks good clean fair to good shape with a cock that's my size or prefer smaller. very hot. and would be open to things that . when i would put a male in her place find not stimulating really at all . other than letting a guy ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
fit2fuckcpl13 47 C
1  Article
Quiet or not?   5/15/2016

Are you a screamer or a dreamer??


5 Comments, 44 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
ChrissyLuvsDick 49 F
7  Articles
Late Night Meetings   5/13/2016

Due to my situation, the only time I can get out is late at night. Which means I have to meet people at those hours. Being married and playing locally I can't meet at bars, which is pretty much the only thing open at that hour. So I went out and scouted some local areas near my place and the local Motel6 that I use for play. I checked the area out both daytime and night, I found the perfect spot ...


5 Comments, 113 Views, 17 Votes ,4.68 Score
Gemini651 73 M
1  Article
Single Males   5/11/2016

A little feed back here, I have been on this site for several years as a single male and as a couple. Why is it that single men have such a bad . I know there are couples who look for a single male, so by no means am I including everyone in what I am saying. I will give you that males are less picky than women, but that's nature, not saying men don't have standards, many do. But I see so ...


4 Comments, 31 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
How to introduce yourself   4/30/2016

So here is a question for most of the ladies.... what is your "I will give him a shot" line a guy can give to get you to respond?

I have tried many ways of expressing interest to a lady:

The flat out "how are you want to fuck", the cheesy lines, the sincere interest line, the describing how beautiful her eyes are, the....

And I have found that no one way seems to get ...


4 Comments, 50 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
sudhir_5768 41 C
3  Articles
Like yourself naked   4/22/2016

Women who enjoy good sex lives feel good about their bodies.They see themselves as strong and sexy.Typically, when a woman looks at herself, her eyes go straight to her problem areas.She carry her feeling into the bedroom, and when her partner remove her dress, she's busy thinking, 'God, I'm so fat!. The next time you're at the store or in the gym, take a look around you at all the attractive ...


7 Comments, 177 Views, 79 Votes ,3.71 Score
sudhir_5768 41 C
3  Articles
Like yourself naked   4/22/2016

Women who enjoy good sex lives feel good about their bodies.They see themselves as strong and sexy.Typically, when a woman looks at herself, her eyes go straight to her problem areas.She carry her feeling into the bedroom, and when her partner remove her dress, she's busy thinking, 'God, I'm so fat!. The next time you're at the store or in the gym, take a look around you at all the attractive ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
what's on your mind   4/4/2016

Anyone got something on there mind and need to say it


2 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
jayleyparker2 37 C
10  Articles
is size matters?   4/3/2016

Is size matters?


5 Comments, 66 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
FreeBird69er 56 M
10  Articles
Am I Expecting TOO Much   3/26/2016

Am I expecting too much to want a monogamist lady in the streets and freak in the sheets.

I do have some kinky likes and a very healthy labito, but finding it hard, very hard to meet a lady that is somewhat of a fit. Seems she is more elusive than the mystical unicorn. Ive talked to a few, however 500km away really doesn't work. Hell I would move if something turned out to be ...


2 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Making friends   3/23/2016

What have your experiences been making friends here on BookofSex.com. Please share the good, bad and the ugly.


9 Comments, 66 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
WNCCuckoldcpl 50 C
4  Articles
Getting on the IM   3/9/2016

Here over the last week or so I've been logging into the IM here on BookofSex.com, shopping around for the hotwife... It was like opening some kind of Pandora's box or something. Within a few minutes, we're utterly swamped with messages. I've never seen anything like it. After trying to keep up with it for a few minutes I usually give up and log back out. Wow guys, a few things we'd like the ...


5 Comments, 126 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
BillyThuhkeed 47 M
1  Article
People are so stupid... especially men.   3/8/2016

It never ceases to amaze me how many men leave comments on pics of profiles where they're obviously fake. It's almost scary how gullible and desperate people are.


4 Comments, 50 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
ScorpioLord86 36 M
1  Article
Eat her right treat her right!!!!   2/25/2016

Once she's naked (And if she's cool with oral, some chicks aren't), slip down between her thighs. Pull her legs up so that her feet are planted outside of your shoulders. Run your hands on the outside of her legs while you kiss the inside of her thighs, edging closer and closer to her burgina. Once you get there, tenderly kiss and lick at the lips before going at the clit head on. Don't be afraid ...


4 Comments, 60 Views, 17 Votes ,3.13 Score
older women   2/23/2016

Has anyone experienced sex with an older woman between ages 70-90?


0 Comments, 46 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Desuora2014 51 M
1  Article
Circumcision   2/21/2016

The circumcision rate in the US is falling, and now is about 50%. The more provincial suburban areas still cling to the practice, they don't know any better and the old wives tales that continue this mutilation are still parroted by the ignorant.

In the more urban areas, people have become more enlightened, like the rest of the world. The medical profession still tries to circumcise ...


3 Comments, 42 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
bipolybabe69 57 F
4  Articles
Is shaving better or just trimmed?   2/1/2016

I'll admit I prefer not to see a huge bunch of pubes around a man's beautiful cock.

For most of us, pubic hair --when shaved-- comes in stubbly. It pretty much requires shaving right before getting action down there.

Having been poked by shaved pubes one too many times, I've come to the decision that it is better to nicely trim the area, rather than shaving.

I bought ...


10 Comments, 86 Views, 12 Votes ,4.74 Score
bipolybabe69 57 F
4  Articles
Proceed with Caution: FWB   2/1/2016

There's an interesting symposium on the topic of FWB (Friends with Benefits) going on here: Participants List For The Sixteenth Virtual Symposium Friends With Benefits

Briefly, my advice for women based on my own experience:

If you truly want to keep it casual don't see him or have sex with him more than once a month.

Read here to find out why: FWB A Cautionary Tale for the Sixteenth Virtual Symposium

Warmly, wickedly,

BiPolyBabe69 aka Angie


7 Comments, 113 Views, 15 Votes ,5.12 Score
wickedcat2006 49 F
145  Articles
the vagina!!!   1/31/2016

The best engine in the world is the Vagina. It can be started with one finger, It is self lubricating, It takes any size piston, And it changes it's own oil every four weeks. It is only a pity that the management system is so fucking temperamental.....


8 Comments, 46 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
Tsangay1 20 M
1  Article
First time on here   1/24/2016

How is a guy supposed to build up a profile here and any tips?


1 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
Gishmoe1985 38 M
1  Article
Can anyone give me advise to chatting with people?   1/21/2016

It always seems like 90% of the people in my area never respond...any tips on getting a response or is it a lost cause?


3 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
enderz_game 39 M
0  Articles
the fake profile   1/14/2016

anyone else notice that any profile that includes "I'm not changing my life, but ___" is really just a bullshit spam profile that someone either through BookofSex.com or a partner corporation cooked up as a generic replicable slew of BS to make a few hot pictures more realistic and believable?

anyone new to this, just let that red flag of shit pop up like an erection on viagra in front of a line ...


3 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Inkmetal 45 M
2  Articles
Hairless Male Junk - The best method   1/10/2016

Hey Guys and girls, What's the best way to achieve a full smooth hairless dick, groin and balls ? I be shaved and been shaved before but it's not always the easiest way of getting every area smooth . Are hair removing creams safe ? I heard that some are not ... Especially on the balls !!

Thanks !!


6 Comments, 90 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
The Couple's Guide to Strap-On Dildos   1/6/2016

Mention strap-ons, and most people flash on girl-girl porn. The actress wearing the harness revels in having a pretend penis and using it for intercourse. Many lesbians enjoy strap-on play, but if you’re inclined to play that way, strap-on sex can be fun for anyone. Strap-ons can add novelty, excitement, playfulness—and deeper intimacy—to any interested couple’s relationship.

...


3 Comments, 81 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
rm_EJmarkin 40 M
2  Articles
Cosmopolitan's contribution to sucking   1/1/2016

A fond look back on years of outrageous, impractical, and just plain bad sex advice from Cosmo. Throughout my long tenure writing Ridiculous Tips For A Miserable Sex Life, I've taken aim at various targets, but one publication stands out as a bastion of weird and wacky sex advice — always chipper, always in a numbered list, and always ill-advised. Cosmo remains the ne plus ultra of usually ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Webcam Model   12/20/2015

I am hardly a "model" so even typing that in the article title feels quite odd. I am 54 years old, by no means thin, and honestly, every year takes it's toll on the female body. However, I have been camming here, off and on, for more than a year now and am thinking of taking the plunge to see if webcamming is a good route. Has anyone here actually paid (besides the monthly BookofSex.com fee) to watch ...


6 Comments, 163 Views, 10 Votes ,5.77 Score
Daddydingdong5 38 M
1  Article
Wife   12/18/2015

My friends wife wants to have sex and I've wanted to have sex with her for a long time. Me and him haven't spoke in months so I'm not exactly sure how good fo friends we are.


4 Comments, 126 Views, 8 Votes ,0.23 Score
OKgrown 20 M
2  Articles
what am i doing wrong?   12/16/2015

Im a 19 year old guy that is trying to find a fwb. however, i feel that a lot of women think that young guys might flake. what is everyone's general opinion? Please feel free to respond.


4 Comments, 50 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
Giving a blowjob....   12/4/2015

When getting ready to give a BJ, does hair or the lack thereof stop you from indulging... I know we all have preferences but what do you do?


7 Comments, 75 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
3Odirtymartini 63 M
8  Articles
Why More Straight Guys Should Be Playing With Their Butts   12/3/2015

Anal for straight men has always been a taboo. In part because of a false idea of emasculation and partly because of the "ew" factor. Those insecurities, mostly rooted in internalized homophobia, have kept straight guys from getting in on butt play. Women have—ahem—plugged in to this idea a long time ago, many of them saying they achieve orgasm during anal sex. This phenomenon reached ...


8 Comments, 125 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
rm_MDcatmaster 29 M
5  Articles
love or Lust   11/23/2015

Love is when you can't go without a person in your life when you think of them you smile when your near them there's no where else you'd rather be and you do anything to keep them safe. Lust is what you feel when you see someone and you can only think about that ass or those titties the thing is alot of people can't tell the difference between the two and that's when people get hurt kuz u tell ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
guidedwire1 55 M
1  Article
Reality   11/21/2015

I read on here all the time ppl asking for others to share face pics yet they dont have one them self - Why demand something you are not willing to do? Probably the same reason you are not is the reason others are not! Also realistic if you are overweight and getting on in years then is it not fair to expect the same? I see girls my age asking for people ha;;f that age physically fit as in ...


2 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
FarmGirl6969 61 F
1  Article
Winking   11/6/2015

ok folks, what am I missing here? See references to giving and seeing winks but being new to site am not getting how it's done or what the benefit is if you receive them? Are you notified if someone winks at you?


5 Comments, 53 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
stephaniemark 69 T
2  Articles
Why not say hello!!   11/5/2015

I have always felt that if someone is looking at you, then say hello to that person. Why not make a friend? A friend can be someone to chat with or perhaps my even turn out to be a lover at sometime. Text and talk is cheap. Chat and make some friends!!!


2 Comments, 34 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
thickgrl89 34 F
1  Article
How To Communicate   10/29/2015

I am more shy and its hard for me to communicate what I like sexually with someone in the moment. How can I get over this fear and be open about talking about what I want?


4 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
wickedcat2006 49 F
145  Articles
giving the whole 9 yards!   10/28/2015

This expression is thought to be about machine gun belt lengths or some other silly nonsense....the truth be told. The average male penis is known to be 6 inches, The average woman requires 54 SLOW strokes to be satisfied. 54 strokes at 6 inches each is 27 ft....27 ft is equal to 9 yards. SO guys if your not giving the WHOLE NINE YARDS.....she aint satisfied...


7 Comments, 42 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
tokeyjebus 33 M
5  Articles
my account gold status is being denied for adding disclaimer   10/20/2015

WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile, pictures, or web cams in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar ...


1 Comments, 40 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
tokeyjebus 33 M
5  Articles
how can i add and talk to a friend   10/19/2015

who has gold status while i do not?


4 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
anyNSAfun 42 M
23  Articles
why was she so turned on?   10/16/2015

was fucking my wife while watching a dvd, the scene changes to one with 2 filthy talking sluts fucking a huge black cock, I start fucking her harder and she responds in kind.



When she gets horny she will say just about anything so I ask her if thats what she'd like. the coversation (while fucking) went like this.



:do you like that baby, watching his black cock ...


2 Comments, 108 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
deephitter1978 41 M
11  Articles
females that are into eating male ass   10/8/2015

seen an increase in this last few years ... just curious to why this is a desired act.. I let some do it but some seem reallly into it and like it alot


5 Comments, 57 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
foreskinfancier 48 M
1  Article
Complain about BookofSex.com's pilot EXTORTION PROJECT "SOC-6262"   10/6/2015

Here's the response I got back after I complained about being slapped with the new "feature" that makes it impossible for Standard Members to read or respond to site-based Messages/Email without becoming a subscribing member:

BookofSex.com 2:59 AM (5 hours ago) to me

Dear Member,

Thank you for contacting us concerning Project SOC-6262 "Restrict Standard Members to ...


5 Comments, 88 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
str8jock42 51 M
3  Articles
Hairy chests are so sexy!   10/4/2015

I have to say that I like a bit of stubble on a man’s face. And I love hair on other parts of a man’s body as well, but I think I’m in the minority. I think I’m right to stick with my preference. I first came across the importance of chest hair when I met a guy that shaved his chest and armpits. He’ was a very sexy guy! I was turned off when I went to lick his nipples and armpits, I ...


3 Comments, 49 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
funnyguy699 60 M
2  Articles
Bad Boy   9/27/2015

Does the "Bad Boy tactic" really work on women? I would like to hear from both men and women.


2 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Blaq_King 45 M
16  Articles
Whats The Best Way To Ask for sex   9/21/2015

I know lots of people are searching for their imaginary "soul mate " on this site..but I am curious and have a question...mainly for the women here...

1. What is the best way for a male to ask for sex...and just sex???? 2. If a man were to say, " All I want is some head"...are you offended?


4 Comments, 80 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
KFC36853 67 M
23  Articles
Coarse, Smooth, or Shaven?   9/19/2015

Because cunnilingus i smy preferred sexual play, I am always amazed at the hair or absence of in a female's pubic area.

Do you have a preference?

For a long time, I admit I was really prejudice against brown/black beautiful women out of fear of their pubic hair. My experiences were previously very unpleasing to me as the females of color I played had coarse hair and very thick. ...


5 Comments, 35 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
XXXplaypal 63 M
12  Articles
New girl   9/19/2015

Having a New lady in my life, she is very straight laced and seems to be very conservative sexually. How do I get her interested in the lifestyle without scaring her away??


1 Comments, 31 Views, 0 Votes
wesucku2 62 C
10  Articles
i think she fucked him do you?   9/18/2015

my girl was fucking around with a guy 8 years ago she said it was innocent .now i find out shes texting him again sending him pictures she says they never did nothing if thats true why would he be texting her and her sending pics i think they fucked anybody think different?


6 Comments, 82 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
SoCarolinaMan 62 M
2  Articles
Condoms   9/12/2015

Can you believe with STDs at an all time high that there are so many people on BookofSex.com not practicing safe sex?


4 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
lil_whimsical 50 F
2  Articles
Is Hard-Core Porn the Current Sex Ed?   9/12/2015

I saw an interesting, short clip of an old Ted Talks video featuring Cindy Gallop. She's in her 50s and now regularly dates men in their 20's.

Looking back on her sexual history, she says that in her youth, men typically had the goal of bringing a woman to orgasm first, before there was intercourse/penetration and that they viewed sex where the woman didn't come as a failure.

...


4 Comments, 133 Views, 30 Votes ,5.10 Score
darknesswins 47 F
7  Articles
How to earn points to a GOLD Membership   9/5/2015

Here is a guide on how to earn 4000 points on BookofSex.com to get a free 1 month GOLD membership in 11 easy steps.

Step 1 – Upload 5 pictures (each one will earn you 100 points, max earned is 500) Step 2 – Upload 5-10 videos (each one will earn you between 100-200 points, max earned 1, 000) Step 3 – Answer all “Additional Questions” (this will earn you an easy 300 ...


8 Comments, 73 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score
" What All Men Need To Know "   8/12/2015

All Men Need To Know " The Correct " Way Of Measuring His Penis ( When the penis is flaccid or erect )

Penis Length: Is measured on the top side of the penis from the base ( pubic area ) of the shaft to the tip of the head. This gives you the length!

Penis Circumference: Is measured by starting and stopping in the center ( ...


11 Comments, 120 Views, 17 Votes ,5.53 Score
marathiii 35 M
1  Article
I love older women what shd i do??   8/9/2015

Pls help


2 Comments, 46 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
anyNSAfun 42 M
23  Articles
how do i bring this up to my wife?   8/1/2015

Hi,



I am after hearing any couples experience or suggestions in how to bring something up to my wife.



The issue is, many years ago, before we we're married, we we're at her house and her mum and dad we're out, and we were getting a bit frisky, we'd already fucked once and were getting horny again when she suddenly noticed that her lipstick had obviously rubbed ...


4 Comments, 158 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
Older woman   7/6/2015

What place to go about picking up an older woman?


6 Comments, 132 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
adam_rising 42 M
1  Article
Sexual expression   6/30/2015

Sexual expression is the finest of all the arts. If it eels good then its a masterpiece. Otherwise you should let your partner know if it is in any way uncomfortable. Like the grating of whiskers on private parts.

Trust me. I am so glad that you want to slide your tongue between my ass cheeks and plant your face in my balls BUT.. you have to stop. Those porcupine quills need to be shaved ...


5 Comments, 57 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
cherrycokepdx77 45 M
1  Article
HOW TO GIVE GREAT CUNNILINGUS (MEN TO WOMEN)   6/12/2015

HOW TO GIVE GREAT CUNNILINGUS (MEN TO WOMEN) Always give eye contact your partner while performing cunnilingus

1. Slow, Easy, Then Move South Start to arouse/excite her slowly by kissing her and stroking the back of her neck. Touch her breasts lightly and begin kissing her face, neck and earlobes. Let your hand trail down and stroke her breasts, from the nipples down to the crease where ...


2 Comments, 50 Views, 15 Votes ,5.12 Score
GlenMacallan 59 M
1  Article
Tips for New Guys   5/23/2015

So, someone told you about BookofSex.com, or you saw an ad somewhere. There's a free website where you can hook up for NSA sex!? Well sign me up! And you do. Then . . .

What happens next is up to you. First things first. If you're a straight guy looking to meet women, for all intents and purposes, you HAVE to be a paying member on BookofSex.com. Is it unfair? Not if want to be successful. To be able to send ...


6 Comments, 157 Views, 25 Votes ,6.67 Score
rm_Ltsply3way 36 C
1  Article
Women who have experienced Double Vaginal, question...   5/8/2015

I've wanted to try double vaginal for a long time, but have some concerns about what I'll feel like afterward. I like the look of my pussy and I'd like to keep it that way; but I have this desire to try DVP, would you recommend I search for a third wheel with a smaller member? Or doesn't it affect you if you try it just once?


4 Comments, 165 Views, 14 Votes ,2.34 Score
anyNSAfun 42 M
23  Articles
getting wife to take other cock (esp. BBC)   5/8/2015

last night we fucked and talked about it again, she dressed up and put on her fav dvd, she loves watching interracial porn and gets very wet and can talk absolute filth as she gets that turned on. only last week she was riding me whilst we watched her fav. and as always i ask if she likes what's on screen and wants the black cocks on show. as when in the mood she always replies yes and talks ...


4 Comments, 189 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
IntergalacticSpy 52 M
1  Article
Mixed signals.   5/8/2015

I was browsing on another Dating site and spotted one hell of a boobies/cleavage shot, no Bra, sheer material etc as the main picture on the profile on a site which forbids nudity. Moreover the poster stated wanting a "serious, Christian, monogamous long-term relationship. WHEN i pointed this out her reply was basically that some men look at pictures for the "wrong " reasons, some for the ...


4 Comments, 50 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
just4camfun 56 C
1  Article
how to trust   5/7/2015

For my wives 50th I would like to get her a black cock... but he MUST be DDF and not be able to get her knocked up... how can a couple trust a guy that says he's all of the above?? medical records?? HELP.. Thanks


4 Comments, 52 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Womenlovers2015 40 G
2  Articles
Free Gold Membership!!!   5/6/2015

Few tips to get one month Gold Membership reply me....


3 Comments, 108 Views, 15 Votes
Imnotthatwitty 42 M
1  Article
1 important thing to have on you at all times   4/29/2015

Glow sticks. Always carry them. Great for light when needed in emergency and more importantly when you wander in a drug stupor and find some EDM playing and your ready glow sticks in hand muthafucka!!!!!


1 Comments, 8 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
MrSexyMofo_4u 44 M
4  Articles
Not gay or bi..pretty much pussy eating pro....   4/14/2015

however why is it if iam spun or drunk I prefer a man to blow me...or vice a versa...does that mean Iam bi curious....and why is it so fucking hard to view ladies on web cams....mostly dudes...not my deal..for TV..Real Deal works for both of course.....Who am I kidding.....a hole and a heartbeat....and boys and gurls...you qualify for the freaky nite at my pad...iam in Dayton someone friggan get ...


6 Comments, 126 Views, 44 Votes ,4.20 Score
MrSexyMofo_4u 44 M
4  Articles
Not gay or bi..pretty much pussy eating pro....   4/14/2015

however why is it if iam spun or drunk I prefer a man to blow me...or vice a versa...does that mean Iam bi curious....and why is it so fucking hard to view ladies on web cams....mostly dudes...not my deal..for TV..Real Deal works for both of course.....Who am I kidding.....a hole and a heartbeat....and boys and gurls...you qualify for the freaky nite at my pad...iam in Dayton someone friggan get ...


4 Comments, 156 Views, 39 Votes ,4.95 Score
poles538 80 M
3  Articles
Something to ponder.   3/22/2015

Subject: FW: Ponderings for a Friday

Something to ponder!!!!

Subject: carrot egg and coffee......wonderful story/analogy sent to me A Carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee

This is too good of a life lesson not to pass on! - A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee... You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again

A young woman went to her mother and ...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Vulcan Love Making Technique   3/17/2015

Many readers of this magazine are old time 'Trekkies', the faithful followers of Star Trek. I am sure that many of you will also recall Mr. Spock giving the famous signal whereby the hand is raised and the fingers are spread with the ring and pinkie on one side and the index and middle finger on the other side with the thumb held parallel to the index finger. Mr. Spock usually mentioned that ...


2 Comments, 33 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Experimenti3 57 C
1  Article
Is there a way out from cuckolding?   3/16/2015

Me and my wife started as soft swingers. But lately there is not much "out of limits" for us. I would like to know if there is a way I can stop this???


12 Comments, 321 Views, 16 Votes ,3.57 Score
rm_Orgasmiclava 60 M
10  Articles
How to make better friends and be more influential   3/12/2015

First of all u must wonder outside your comfort zone. To overcome shyness practice telling a joke to have self-confidence. You must learn to walk up to someone new and introduce yourself.To win friends Do not criticize or complain, Give honest sincere appreciaion, Arouse in the other person an eager want, Become genuinely interested in other people, Smile, Remember that a persons name is to that ...


2 Comments, 19 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
thisguydave28 37 M
2  Articles
being horny   2/28/2015

what do you do when you are sooo horny and cant do anything about it.


2 Comments, 32 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
thisguydave28 37 M
2  Articles
BBW's   2/28/2015

what6 does a big woman find a turn on?


3 Comments, 33 Views, 0 Votes
rm_MSBHYVN 61 F
13  Articles
do u marry for love or money ?   2/24/2015

some people were taught u marry for money and then when ur done u marry for love. I think if u believe it's all about the money, ur wrong, it's about having someone in ur life that makes u happy. people don't have to have money to malke them happy. money makes proplems just as much as being broke. if you have trust in ur life that's what make u shine. Someone who cuts u down, don't be around, ...


4 Comments, 60 Views, 21 Votes ,4.73 Score
wickedcat2006 49 F
145  Articles
use your head   2/15/2015

A blonde woman, a priest, a pilot, and a high schooler are all on a crashing plane. There are only enough parachutes to save three of them, and the pilot is the first to jump out. He grabs a parachute and says, "I'm a pilot! People need me to fly planes!" and then jumps out. The blonde is next to jump out. She grabs a parachute and says, "My hair won't look pretty if I'm dead!" and then jumps ...


7 Comments, 155 Views, 29 Votes ,4.34 Score
new to this... any tips?   2/9/2015

I just joined this site a few days ago and so far haven't had too much luck finding anybody or even getting responses. Its frustrating but should i just have patience or is this because I'm not gold?


4 Comments, 59 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
mudpuppy0704932 85 M
1  Article
Not Funny   1/29/2015

Well people might think that at 76 years old and no ED problems what could be wrong. Well like some men I have always had a left curve to my penis. Over the past year it has really become more pronounced to the point that it can be a bit painful. Any one else heard of this problem and can it the be corrected. Looks like a trip to the doctor soon. Might have to change my screen name to ...


2 Comments, 44 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
T9912 69 M
6  Articles
I am Done   1/22/2015

This is the hardest thing I have done in awhile. First I could never get my wife to partake in this certainly not since the change. This makes me single. Most folks on this site want couples. Then there are the people who don't do Black guys...and I am cool with that because there is @ least that many who want Black guys.

Then there is the female looking for Mr Right. Not to mention the ...


2 Comments, 135 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
foxeyatfifty 67 F
26  Articles
Confused!! Body language 70% of our communication..   1/21/2015

I do think body language is a big part of communication..However I am reading someones body language as "do not care to hear you " and a very defensive pose..yes a passive aggressive posture...yes arms crossed against chest..and eyes rolling..I have pointed that out to him a number of times..but he does state he is crazy about me and he enjoys our time together, plus got a very nice necklace for ...


3 Comments, 212 Views, 31 Votes ,4.77 Score
olive oil or coconut oil as lubes   1/17/2015

I have a couple "toys" which prohibit the use of massage oil or hand creams with them. I wonder though, can I use olive or coconut oil with them ?

To answer that we would need to know if these two oils are petroleum based and in the same class as massage oils and hand creams.

My guess is olive and coconut oil are not petroleum based and the use of the word oil in their name is ...


3 Comments, 52 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
koolandhot90 34 M
2  Articles
How to gain points by refering friends   1/2/2015

hi all . hope you are fine. im new in this site and when ever i open some one's profile it ask for gold membership. even i tried to refer and signup about 10 accounts using link which they give me but still i cant get any point? any suggestion please. thanks in advance


2 Comments, 34 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
koolandhot90 34 M
2  Articles
How to Refer a Friend   1/2/2015

hi all. im new in this site and i need to know how to refer to friend and get points . because every time i try to send message or watch photos it ask for gold member . i even created accounts and posted my refer link which it gave me in point section but still i cant get points. i created about 10-15 accounts . but no points :'( some one help me . thanks in advance


2 Comments, 35 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
n2cpls2005 64 M
4  Articles
Extended State Orgasm   12/29/2014

Did you know that you can have orgasms that last over an hour without going through all the Tantra lingo?

I have extended orgasms and have taught others to have them too. Men and women can learn the technique with knowledge and practice. I taught myself after finding an article in a Playboy magazine. (Yes, I read the articles, too.)

The key is learning how your body is feeling ...


1 Comments, 63 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
rm_CallMeSasssy 51 F
3  Articles
HAVE A QUESTION? ASK ME ANYTHING! JUST ANSWERS, ADVICE, NO JUDGEMENTS!   12/26/2014

No rules, no specific subjects, I am a certified life coach, I can HELP you satisfy your curiosities, answer or lead you to find the answers to your questions. I do not believe in judging ANY of your interests, that isn't helping, GO FOR IT, ASK AWAY.....It can only improve your already great talent and mind! Luh you papi's..♡♡♡


12 Comments, 222 Views, 15 Votes ,4.05 Score
gottodoit04 51 C
6  Articles
confused   12/25/2014

WHAT TO DO I HAVE BEEN WITH THIS GUY FOR 25YRS AND NOW OUT OF THE BLUE HE WANTS TO BREAK UP WTF. I HAVE NO IDEA WERE THIS IS COMING FROM WHAT DO I DO ????????


9 Comments, 128 Views, 14 Votes ,2.18 Score
flirtyace2 46 M
3  Articles
Seeking advice for first date.   12/23/2014

What are the secrets to a successful date?


1 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes
Firefighters or Cops?   12/13/2014

Which do you prefer ladies?


0 Comments, 29 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
answer the !&%B?KIYYF)= questions   12/2/2014

when I receive a text message with all the little signs and abbreviations in it I simply reply with the same, example: A@$ ,


3 Comments, 30 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
rmtnt419 41 C
2  Articles
Masturbate   12/1/2014

Do you ever masturbate away from home?


12 Comments, 121 Views, 27 Votes ,5.13 Score
get it straight   11/30/2014

If you are a woman looking for a woman or a man looking for a man or what ever your passion, get it right. Go to the appropriate site and post there, other wise quit belly aching every time you are contacted by some one who is on their correct page woman for man, man for woman or what ever, GET IT RIGHT then complain if it goes wrong, other wise keep quiet


2 Comments, 36 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
rm_slowcurious 45 C
9  Articles
Drugs   11/28/2014

We went to a house party with a couple that we play with and after we had been there a while someone took out some drugs and many of the guest indulged themselves. We told our friends that we wanted to leave but they got upset. We told them we were leaving with or without them and they got even more upset. They thought we were being childish. We left and they decided to stay and they got a ride ...


7 Comments, 151 Views, 16 Votes ,5.63 Score
SingleNFree31 51 M
10  Articles
Couples   11/28/2014

Why do couples that don't want anything to do with single men always view a single guys profile mulitple times? I would consider that misleading. Or am I mistaken?


6 Comments, 76 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Above All Else   11/28/2014

Above all else in your profile and photos be HONEST, nothing can turn a prospective partner or partners off than seeing through a lie or being flat lied to. Post precisely what you want, Example Discrete sex, quick sex, Fuck Buddy, sexting partner, or just browsing. Then post a real photo of yourself


1 Comments, 18 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Above All Else   11/28/2014

Above all else in your profile and photos be HONEST, nothing can turn a prospective partner or partners off than seeing through a lie or being flat lied to. Post precisely what you want, Example Discrete sex, quick sex, Fuck Buddy, sexting partner, or just browsing. Then post a real photo of yourself


1 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_uniboi5 30 M
2  Articles
Virgins   11/27/2014

Are women on this site interested in virgins because I never really know what to think?


4 Comments, 44 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
rm_sexyinblu4u 57 C
8  Articles
Who decides?   11/27/2014

If you meet a couple and agree to just have girl on girl play but once you get there the other wife wants to play with you but your wife doesn't wan to play with the other husband who should be the ones to decide if it's ok? (We were all fine with it except the other husband).


5 Comments, 58 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
portlandcp4play 59 C
10  Articles
Shaving   11/25/2014

What's the best way to shave you genitals? A razor seems to work best but it's hard not to cut yourself.


4 Comments, 77 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_sexyinblu4u 57 C
8  Articles
Trading places   11/25/2014

Would you ever consider trading spouses for the weekend with another couple that you've been playing with?


2 Comments, 44 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
alt4139 64 C
10  Articles
Would you   11/24/2014

I wanted to play with a guy that was part of a couple recently but the wife was let's just say not petite. My hubby knew I wanted to play so he went along. I felt bad afterwards because I know he only did it for my sake. Would you ever take one for the team?


1 Comments, 48 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
hodog4you 54 M
2  Articles
new partners...   11/24/2014

when you meet a person for the 1st time, do you feel it's appropriate to ask for Anal sex, or just make the attempt to see if it's received/reciprocated? it's awesome when some women come out and say they like/prefer anal sex. I feel setting ground rules from the beginning takes some of the fun away. what are others thoughts about this?


3 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_alice85321 47 C
1  Article
jealous   11/23/2014

What do you do to keep from getting jealous when a women is pleasing your man in a way that you never have?


3 Comments, 39 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
funcpl36785 53 C
1  Article
Straight?   11/23/2014

We are a couple looking to add some spice to out relationship. We have been together for 8 yrs and are currently looking for some couples to have some fun with. My husband would like me to try out a girl and as I've never been with one I'm super nervous. I wouldn't mind trying and would try anything at least once but is it ok to say I'm bi-sexual on my profile or should I say straight?


3 Comments, 44 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_slowcurious 45 C
9  Articles
Drinking   11/22/2014

A couple we recently tried to have sex with had a problem with the male performing. He said it was because he drank to much. He only had two drinks over a four hour period. Could that have been the cause or was he just making excuses for his ed?


4 Comments, 35 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
alt4139 64 C
10  Articles
body hair   11/22/2014

Would you allow yourself to be shaved head to toe in order to have sex with someone?


3 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Are threesomes with couples fun?   11/22/2014

I have been looking to find a couple on BookofSex.com for a good, fun threesome but I am not sure how genuine are couples on this site. Are they just on to explore the option? Or are they for real? It seems the couples are here just to fish around but not actually indulge in 3some play. I am talking only in relation to INDIA and not any other country. I have never had a 3 some with a couple and I am really ...


2 Comments, 73 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_slowcurious 45 C
9  Articles
Separate bedrooms   11/20/2014

We were with a couple recently and prior to going to their house had agreed on how we were going to proceed. Once we started playing the husband started being pushy about playing in separate bedrooms and my wife became very uncomfortable. The mood changed drastically the more he pushed. Finally we had to say that we were leaving because it got so uncomfortable. We were very clear that we only ...


4 Comments, 47 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
brewercplplays 68 C
10  Articles
hand   11/18/2014

Like most average guys, my cock is only average sized. Yet, my wife has an insatiable pussy, learned about sex from an older cousin with a huge cock and wanted more. We experimented with dildoes. While she enjoyed the size, she found them to be too cold and impersonal. This led to increasingly intense fingering and finally fisting. We typically fuck until she asks to really get fucked. ...


1 Comments, 100 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
brewercplplays 68 C
10  Articles
anal   11/18/2014

Please help, my "secret lover" and I would like to try new things including but not limited to anal sex can someone give me advice on this topic so that no pain is involved.


2 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Man4_Men 60 M
2  Articles
To Bi or not to Bi   11/17/2014

I have been meeting Bi couples (both partners are bisexual on some level) for over 10 years on this site and like any meeting with people in the lifestyle, no two experiences are alike and the same can also be said that no one looks for or plays the same as the next person.

With that said when I am still at the conversation and communication stage of planning to meet, I always make a ...


1 Comments, 121 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
2playornot2play5 35 F
4  Articles
Why so mean?   11/16/2014

Why are so many people on the advice line so mean? Some people are posting for the first time and aren't sure what to ask or some people might ask a dumb question and nothing wrong with saying it's a dumb question but why call them a dumb ass? If you don't like the question just ignore it, why insult people?


3 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
jnd4funtimes 58 C
5  Articles
Trick   11/16/2014

Have you ever tried to trick your spouse into having sex with you even though you knew they didn't feel like it?


2 Comments, 44 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
rmtnt419 41 C
2  Articles
Threesomes   11/15/2014

We've had a few threesomes here on BookofSex.com but the other day my wife asked me if she could invite a customer from her work to join us and I said no. My feeling is that it's one thing to invite people from a sex site to have sex with you because that's why they're here but to invite someone off the street is completely different. What do you think?


6 Comments, 76 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
BrandonB1221 37 M
4  Articles
Stepping out the only option?   11/15/2014

I have been married for a few years and I know relationships are work but I feel like we are in a routine we will never get out of, and the routine doesn't include nearly enough sex. She went from my wild crazy lady to a stuffy boring business mom in the last 3 years and despite repeated conversations and many fake attempts at improving it a week here a day there it's better but for the most part ...


2 Comments, 39 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_ja8087 38 C
2  Articles
Would you?   11/15/2014

Would you have sex with a guy that you noticed wasn't treating his wife very well?


1 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
spellfire201 64 C
1  Article
What's good for one is good for the other.   11/15/2014

Would you be upset if your husband gave other women you were meeting something that he wasn't doing for you?


3 Comments, 23 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
DoctorWhen 60 M
1  Article
Unfriend   11/13/2014

Does anyone know how I can unfriend someone? I only have one person listed as friend who's name shows whenever I am in IM, however he's not listed in 'my Friends Network' anywhere that I can see and I just want to remove him. Any help would be greatly appreciated.


3 Comments, 145 Views, 0 Votes
rm_robpsf415 27 M
12  Articles
Best Advice   11/13/2014

What is the best general advice you could give someone about bed technique?


1 Comments, 22 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_goodsxwithu 54 C
10  Articles
How many   11/12/2014

How many times have you actually met someone from this site?


4 Comments, 50 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
thegrlsnme 66 F
2  Articles
Another shanking my head man moment, that made me laugh   11/11/2014

Guys, guys guys. If you are talking to a woman, especially over the passed couple of days, keep track of who you are talking too.

Here is the story. This attached dude is talking to me the last couple of days. Yes, he is attached, and I was really thinking about seeing him. Like I said thinking. He sent me his phone number.

I texted him today. I did not leave a name, in ...


3 Comments, 94 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
superhead1973 52 C
10  Articles
Friends   11/9/2014

We rarely accept friend invites. Why do so many people we've never spoken to send them to us?


3 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
superhead1973 52 C
10  Articles
Top fan   11/9/2014

Why do you vote on top fan? Do you ever vote on someone you don't know?


6 Comments, 21 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
superhead1973 52 C
10  Articles
Hotlisting   11/9/2014

Does hot listing anyone ever work? We've had over 200+ hot list and not one wrote to us. What gives?


8 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
superhead1973 52 C
10  Articles
Flirting   11/9/2014

What's with the flirt button on your profile? Have you ever hooked up with someone that flirted with you? Most of the ones we've gotten won't even write to us


2 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
superhead1973 52 C
10  Articles
Guys   11/9/2014

If you're going to cheat on your wives you shouldn't be putting married on your single male profile. That's a dead give away.


4 Comments, 24 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
sundys2 46 C
8  Articles
Are you ready?   11/4/2014

Before venturing into the world of swing making sure you are ready to handle it is a major factor in your relationship. We both knew we liked the idea of her having another man in bed with us but we're very nervous the first time. We were both very turned on and ready but agreed that it could be the only time we try it if we didn't like it. During I started off a little tense seeing her kiss and ...


2 Comments, 48 Views, 5 Votes ,5.43 Score
t4girlplay 43 F
10  Articles
Ass play   11/3/2014

I love ass play and especially being rimmed. How many of you like to rim?


7 Comments, 53 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
rm_theetmj1515 33 M
10  Articles
how could i attract older women   10/31/2014

i've always had a thing for mature women but my problem is how do pick these women up or what would I need to do to impress, or have them want me?


6 Comments, 41 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
robgt46atoohay 41 M
3  Articles
Hormones   10/28/2014

what are the best hormones to take to grow female breast


4 Comments, 48 Views, 0 Votes
robgt46atoohay 41 M
3  Articles
hot to meet a single woman online   10/28/2014

I meet women all of the time in my day to day live, but not so much online . what is the best thing to say to a woman you are interested in online I've tried many thing none of the seem to work . I've said hi my name is ..... and I would like to get to know you. no luck I have said hey whats up ...no good there ither I got pist and said hey lets fuck lol and nothing . I read profiles write and ...


1 Comments, 48 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
twomuchfu 64 C
11  Articles
Rimming   10/27/2014

Is it to much to ask someone to shower befor eyou rim them?


5 Comments, 50 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
MovingOn001 64 M
7  Articles
Another Issue with the Top Fan Program   10/25/2014

I have recently run across another issue with the Top Fan program of which I think people should be aware. I found out that if you change your profile, your status as a top fan could be removed from someone's account. When I replied that I had not changed my profile, I was told that "not only updating the profile but it is also either updating the Cupid settings, deactivating the account or ...


5 Comments, 50 Views, 12 Votes ,0.33 Score
wildromantic5150 45 M
1  Article
finally   10/24/2014

i finally met someone on here we meet had a few drinks had a good time she is a little young for me but is very sweet & sexy i was a complete gentleman very respectful & thats all i can say i dont kiss & tell she has a bf it seems when ever i try to get laid i cant but when i just go to meet a women with no intention of having sex i get laid


1 Comments, 29 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
Halloween has it's advantages!   10/22/2014

I, like many Cross Dressers, are embarrassed or shy & find it difficult to go into a LINGERIE store or the LINGERIE section of a department store. Well, I have a bit of advice that'll be VERY HELPFUL! Just walk into a LINGERIE section, find a sales lady ( It's ALWAYS a lady ) and ask her to help you get the correct size of Panties, Stockings, Bras, etc. because you are going to a COSTUME ...


3 Comments, 78 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
rm_xxxDWB 48 M
19  Articles
all stuck up bitches on here   10/20/2014

have meet only one real women on here we were just friends at first then lovers she has a bf she just wants a little on the side but the rest of you women you full of shit you think that pussy is a gold mine just remember that your pussy is closer to shit than gold


2 Comments, 69 Views, 9 Votes
buckfuddy39 49 M
3  Articles
send a pic when profile has two?   10/19/2014

Recently I contacted a woman here, who asked me to send a pic. I pointed out that my profile has two; she replied, "Just send one please".

I know Standard Members can't always see a profile, but I upgraded so that they can. That does happen once you allow Standard Members to contact you, right?

Or is this some kind of scam? I've come across a number of those here, so wouldn't ...


4 Comments, 70 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
sexyslut197935 45 F
1  Article
this site sucks   10/18/2014

it is my duty to run all you whores & fags on here off thats all that is on here


1 Comments, 35 Views, 1 Votes
2playornot2play5 35 F
4  Articles
What to get rid of the problem then report it.   10/15/2014

If you're like me and getting a lot of single guys hounding you try reporting them to BookofSex.com for abusive behavior. I have and it really does work. Oh and don't forget to block them as well


2 Comments, 43 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
How soon   10/14/2014

How soon should it be before I ask to meet?


3 Comments, 36 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
true_red10002 51 F
4  Articles
fucked co-worker   10/10/2014

he is married, so am I so I get it..its not going to be a relationship, but I want to continue the fun on the side.. I mean we spend 8 to 10 hours a day together, why not have a little fun at work... I want playful emails ( private not work) and little looks at work maybe some dirty talk while no one is around...



but so far the only thing I have gotten from him, is we need ...


2 Comments, 69 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
true_red10002 51 F
4  Articles
fucked co-worker   10/10/2014

he is married, so am I so I get it..its not going to be a relationship, but I want to continue the fun on the side.. I mean we spend 8 to 10 hours a day together, why not have a little fun at work... I want playful emails ( private not work) and little looks at work maybe some dirty talk while no one is around...



but so far the only thing I have gotten from him, is we need ...


3 Comments, 46 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
true_red10002 51 F
4  Articles
fucked co-worker   10/10/2014

he is married, so am I so I get it..its not going to be a relationship, but I want to continue the fun on the side.. I mean we spend 8 to 10 hours a day together, why not have a little fun at work... I want playful emails ( private not work) and little looks at work maybe some dirty talk while no one is around...



but so far the only thing I have gotten from him, is we need ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 6 Votes
yowlerjr88 53 M
3  Articles
hi   10/10/2014

how do people keep ur feelings in check after u see someone after a while espicially u know its just sex


2 Comments, 36 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Wbeach2012 44 M
2  Articles
Difference between?   10/7/2014

Can anyone tell me the difference between

Who's Online, Members near me New matches VIP

Does BookofSex.com not show us people who are online that are near me?


1 Comments, 22 Views, 4 Votes
Communicating via Instant Message   9/29/2014

Men, how often do you actually get a reply via instant messenger? I've sent a lot of messages and it seems no women ever reply. Women, do you have a reason for this or for why you do not reply. And yes, I am very polite and do not start my conversations with "Hey baby, you wanna fuck?"


6 Comments, 75 Views, 11 Votes ,0.55 Score
rm_dm3493 31 M
1  Article
New to the site. Need help!   9/19/2014

I'm new to the site, and I don't know how anything works. Any help or advice or anything would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!


2 Comments, 43 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
sundys2 46 C
8  Articles
comfort?   9/14/2014

How do you get your wife more comfortable with going outside of the same couple of people to swing with. We have great sex together and with our couple of friends. I want to watch her with a complete stranger and we haven't been able to get to that point yet. We talk about it and use it as fantasy in foreplay and she says she wants to.....


1 Comments, 33 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Guess what?   9/10/2014

I was at a swinger's party recently. The conversation was about all the single guys that jerk off on this site. Most of the couples there talked about how the husband watched and pretended to be the wife while the dumb bastard on the other end thought he was performing for the hot chick on the profile. Now I'm wondering just how often that happens and how many single guys have been duped by it.


8 Comments, 136 Views, 32 Votes ,3.90 Score
Pictures   9/5/2014

You ever had someone you know tell you they saw ya on here?


7 Comments, 87 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
PUTITDOWN1 42 M
10  Articles
Interracial   9/3/2014

I am very interested in being with a sexy white woman. What is it that makes a white woman attracted to a black man?


2 Comments, 68 Views, 10 Votes
LONELYBOY2445 34 M
2  Articles
Question for the ladies   8/30/2014

So ladies its been burning me, circumcised or uncircumcised?


5 Comments, 114 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
nicco100 56 M
13  Articles
Everyone makes mistakes   8/25/2014

Guess what everyone makes mistakes, mine happened yesterday on this site i wasn't trying to spam the sight I don't work like that . As for you constant complainers I gather thats all you have to do. I don't mind being jumped on if you don't like what i've written in the past and decided to bring them back my choice if you liked them great if not hey that is your opinion.A thing called ...


3 Comments, 67 Views, 10 Votes
_Please_SeduceMe 49 F
5  Articles
Your Profile is a TOOL, USE IT!   8/24/2014

A gentleman made a comment on one of my posts addressing the opinion that he did not think any ladies really read profiles.

I assured him that some of us ladies were in fact not only reading the profiles we were using them as a guide to help us determine the character of the person on the other side.



A profile is a TOOL, and if needs to be used properly.

And as ...


5 Comments, 111 Views, 21 Votes ,4.86 Score
rm_culmu74 49 M
3  Articles
Fuck for the love of fucking.   8/21/2014

"I don't know, I need to check my schedule".

Some overweight woman respond like this when I asked when can we play together, I replied: "That's quite funny".

That is the perfect example in what kind of population we have in this site, I wish one day I can get that statistic in gender, sex inclination and how is that the golden status is given, without paying.

I've read ...


2 Comments, 95 Views, 17 Votes
Approaching woman   8/21/2014

Does a good old "Hey hows it going tonight?" enough for a first message to contact a lady. Do woman want some smart talk before asking for sex or getting into the topic of sex? What do you woman prefer?


4 Comments, 72 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
deephitter1978 41 M
11  Articles
Too cock enlarge or not   8/19/2014

had a few women with uncomfortable issues with big cock. .. Too deep.. Too hard.too much power..and legs over the head gut thrusting penus bulging out there stomach area concerns.. Lube is a must.. Sometimes smaller is better.. But breaking it in sure is fun.. When does it become too big? A lot of women fantasize about big thick cock then are completely un skilled at deep sucking a big cock .


2 Comments, 78 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
bigdickdany55 44 M
1  Article
The BookofSex.com network and the unsecure email providers ( all of them from this world are unsecure )   8/17/2014

I was trying to register on the partner-sites of the adult Friendfinder. Everything is okay, only when registration arrives to the email adress, none of them is good. Yahho, gmail, hotmail, to name a few are all " invalid email adress". The sites had the option to register at the Breakthru, when I am back with the Breakthru , the same message is there : "invalid email address". Could the admins ...


2 Comments, 16 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
SoHard2Deep 51 M
4  Articles
Do all men just want sex   8/14/2014

Do all men just want sex? There are plenty of guys who want companionship and hope for a good future, not just sex. Male sex drives are not only stronger than women's, but much more straightforward. The majority of adult men under 60 think about sex at least once a day.

I appreciate a woman with a high libidos and knows what she wants. It's common wisdom that women place more value on ...


9 Comments, 118 Views, 25 Votes ,0.81 Score
rm_culmu74 49 M
3  Articles
Big Delusional Women   8/13/2014

I read profiles, looked at pictures, read between lines and still, when I initiated a IM (Instant Message) conversation, the delay and the response back is usually plain rude. Rude like a little teenage girl who believes that deserves everything because she has a vagina, not even a cute, wet, delicious vagina, but just a female sexual organ.

And I have asked around and between other ...


3 Comments, 102 Views, 14 Votes ,0.90 Score
If You Are Considering Staying in a Relationship For Decades with that One Person   8/8/2014

"Having an affair" [now and then] is the elephant in the room nobody wants to talk about, but "Having sexual affairs" is the only real key to staying in a long relationship with that one person over many decades, today.

Your thoughts?


7 Comments, 73 Views, 19 Votes
derrek69 39 M
2  Articles
Don't Put it off until tomorrow   8/7/2014

Don't put things off for tomorrow what you can do today.

There's less chance for regret is you've tried and failed than ever tried at all. Try that new sexual position. Take a chance.


1 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
buckfuddy3975 48 M
1  Article
seeking advice   8/4/2014

Okay, don't know if this is in the right spot, but here goes:

If anyone is willing, maybe you could give me some pointers on writing an effective profile? I know, I know - all women are different, nothing guarantees success... I get that. I do.

But I'm open to friendly suggestions. Also maybe writing initial messages that aren't bland. What do find works/ has gotten your ...


5 Comments, 56 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
librarian_girl83 40 F
10  Articles
Girls and Guys   8/4/2014

I often wonder, if more girls were willing to be ladies, would more guys feel challenged to be gentlemen?


7 Comments, 99 Views, 19 Votes ,4.84 Score
librarian_girl83 40 F
10  Articles
Funny   8/4/2014

“During a test, people look up for inspiration, down in desperation, and left and right for information.”


4 Comments, 32 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
librarian_girl83 40 F
10  Articles
Sane or Insane   8/4/2014

Insanity does not run in my family; it strolls through, takes it’s time, and gets to know everyone personally.


1 Comments, 18 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
librarian_girl83 40 F
10  Articles
Leaving your mark...   8/4/2014

It is very sad to me that some people are so intent on leaving their mark on the world, that they don’t care if that mark is a scar.


2 Comments, 17 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
librarian_girl83 40 F
10  Articles
Dreamers   8/4/2014

Surround yourself with the dreamers and the doers, the believers, and thinkers, but most of all, surround yourself with those who see greatness within you, even when you don’t see it in yourself.


2 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
librarian_girl83 40 F
10  Articles
Drama   8/4/2014

Sometimes people try to expose what’s wrong with you because they can’t handle everything that’s right about you.


2 Comments, 15 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
librarian_girl83 40 F
10  Articles
Some men are good dogs...   8/4/2014

Dogs have a way of finding the people who need them and filling an emptiness we didn’t even know we had.


1 Comments, 30 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
ChocolateDiva44 40 F
10  Articles
Change   8/1/2014

Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you’ll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others.


1 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
2females2share 45 LC
10  Articles
Peace   8/1/2014

Finding peace within your own mind is a life long journey in which case some never find.


3 Comments, 31 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
2females2share 45 LC
10  Articles
Jealousy   8/1/2014

Jealousy is not proof of how much you love a person, but a proof of your insecurities.


3 Comments, 30 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
passionplay0069 53 F
6  Articles
sex   7/30/2014

Sex is deeper than a few inches of penetration. It's a mental thing. A soul dance. Make the mind lose it and the body will follow. Simple!!


2 Comments, 24 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score