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Safety & Survival Signals for Women   11/20/2004

The Gift of Fear <br> and Other Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence <br> By Gavin de Becker <br> <br> <br> The following is taken from pages 210-212. <br> There are many reliable pre-incident indicators associated with spousal violence and murder. They won't all be present in every case, but if a situation has several of these ...


1 Comments, 8 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
panties or not   11/20/2004

In a private suite at a football game with stadium seating should I wear panties or not. Other couples will be there and it is work related which means all the men that will be in the suite has had me more than once. If any guest are invited I am sure they have been informed but with no panties they will get several good looks at what they will be getting in the future if they do business ...


3 Comments, 71 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
not in the suite   11/20/2004

I have not been fucked in the football suite since we aquired it seven years ago. All the wives for the most part attend the games but I have thought about being the only woman for one game and getting banged through out the game. What do you think a fantasy come true maybe?


1 Comments, 109 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
to much or to many   11/20/2004

Can you fuck to much and to many different men in a life time?


2 Comments, 23 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
My first real cock   11/20/2004

My first real cock was not like the dildo’s I used and thought about as if they were real men pumping my ass hole for me. I have had several dildos in my ass hole. The first was stuck for quite awhile because the head would not pass back out past my ass hole ring. My ass hole ring was wrapped around the shaft and the head was too big to get back out with out a lot of pain. After using ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 22 Votes ,4.57 Score
gdon58 66 M
2  Articles
cybersex   11/20/2004

What is the best way to find people (women) for cybersex? Most in chatrooms don't ever reply to the men asking. thanx gdon


2 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Ladies I need help in buying a dildo, which is better the "plastic" or the "jelly" type   11/19/2004

My girlfriend and I use a couple of dildos but she is not that "impressed". Both are FIRM almost hard plastic viborators. Is there a MAJOR differance with the Jelly type dildos?


3 Comments, 37 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
In a day and age of "No Strings", are relationships avoided?   11/17/2004

It may be said that our society as a whole is becoming less interested in relationships. Teenage/Young Adult dating trends more commonly include "friends with benefits". What I have read in commentary from various "authorities" is that younger folks are looking to not appear needy, to be connected without having to deal with the fear of commitment, and are avoiding the pains of going ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
How do I contact other Members?????   11/16/2004

If I am a standard member how do i contact another member I am interested in? Sorry if this is a lame or reoccuring question but I am confused. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Can I email them? Or do i have to upgrade to do that? <br> Thank You.


4 Comments, 23 Views, 20 Votes ,5.29 Score
rm_shemaleVIDA 61 F
14  Articles
The Big Lies   11/15/2004

The Big Lies <br> "I love you". Everybody loves you when they are about to come. Then there's I won't come in you - That's the biggest lie. Believe that one and you'll buy the Brooklyn Bridge. Then there are the guys who say "I have never fantasized about being with a man." They are lying. And the least offensive men I've been with in terms of their sexual politics and how they ...


3 Comments, 59 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
wantafuck1969 46 M
1  Article
Married   11/15/2004

I'm a married man been for four years but the sex is not the greatest even though my wife is nine years younger then me the sex is not the greatest. i have tryed everything to work with her in the bed room but, ,, ,, I guess if you don't have it you don't have it. So here I am looking for a good sex partner on the side but I realy have had no luck, ether thay want more then i do or we live ...


4 Comments, 24 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
gottohaveit_04 56 C
4  Articles
my new balls   11/15/2004

hey i know this sounds silly but i just got a new set of ben wa balls, i have never tried them and have heard so many great stories about them. I put them in me and dont feel anything, is there a certain way or place to use them?


1 Comments, 71 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
briwantsitbad 39 M
2  Articles
Meeting Girls   11/15/2004

Hey I need some advice with girls. Whenever I meet a girl and I'm not interested in that girl herself i'm able to be myself because I don't particulary care what she thinks of me and she ends up liking me. But when I meet a girl and I'm interested in her Im a bumbling idiot and I scare them away. I think its cuz I think too much. Anyone got any advice?


1 Comments, 35 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
He wanted me to do WHAT!?!?!   11/15/2004

I was the apprehensive one to try this, (the wife)My husband mentioned it jokingly at first. Then he invited me to browse some swinger sites he had recently joined.We began browsing together. He told me of fantasies that he had, Things that excited him about doing this, And really listened to my reservations and fantasies, and got me aroused thinking about fulfilling mine as well as his.We ...


2 Comments, 52 Views, 27 Votes ,8.19 Score
rm_italstal830 52 M
2  Articles
what to do about marrage?   11/14/2004

I have been married for over 5 years, gone threw only having sex less that 20 times in that 6 yrs with my wife. I constantly tried and asking what was wrong, she told me to get it elswhere so I did with a women I used to work with without my wifes knowledge. Now I find out and go threw 1 yr of hospitals and bills that when she was 10 yrs old she was by someone that was a friend of the ...


4 Comments, 27 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
chitown69us 57 C
6  Articles
delay your orgasim   11/14/2004

Dont ask how I learned this, but instead of taking lots of drugs and buying expensive stuff, try rubbing a little vagisil on your cock before sex. It's got the same ingredients as some of the more expensive creams, only in greater concentration. You may not be able to get it to come down...


1 Comments, 48 Views, 16 Votes ,6.36 Score
4thetaste 55 M
2  Articles
No connections made   11/14/2004

Once in a while I go onto the chat area of BookofSex.com. I see people (mostly men) ranting and complaining about not meeting people, or that people are not contacting them blah blah blah. Then I take it upon myself to take a look at their profile. Normally I see either NO picture or a COCK shot as their picture. Now.. I ask myself.. hmm I wonder why these people never meet anyone .. I think I ...


2 Comments, 9 Views, 14 Votes ,5.22 Score
Letting Go?   11/14/2004

Just looking for a little help dealing with things. I recently ended a 3 year marriage, (actually it's a stroke of the pen from being ended, but that's another story) where I was away in the service for most of the marriage. I won't repeat all the details, as most of it is in another article(Do I Even Need to Ask?) Even though I know it is over, and I now have a new wonderful lady(who my ...


2 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
ml16 47 C
1  Article
how to get girlfreind involved   11/14/2004

how would I go about getting the gilrfreind involved in the the sean of the site. with out macking an ass of myself, so she thinks its her idea.?


1 Comments, 79 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
apprehensive hubby?   11/14/2004

how can i get an apprehensive husband to get into swinging? hes too insecure i think. but i really want to share this with him.


4 Comments, 49 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
munchcookie 42 F
1  Article
the cut the look to get   11/14/2004

So I tried shaving my pussy and it looked clean though after a while, it would grow and poke and it itch. I work and really am not into vanity. <br> I was told to trim <br> But what if I want to make it bald? I don't wanna wax it (isn't it painful?!) girls?


0 Comments, 59 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
Shaved Pubes for Men   11/13/2004

On a previous article about whether or not a man should shave, and would it make him gay. I know from experience that if I go down on a women the last thing that I want to do is to dig out a bunch of loose pubes out of my mouth. It takes too much time away from the pleasure. (After all who wants to stop and go all the time). In respect for the other partner if a man is somewhat ...


6 Comments, 11 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
Web caming on BookofSex.com   11/13/2004

So how does this work? If were caming, can we control who we chat to? Can we view the members we are chating to? We ask, because we have tried to page some members and have not been able to. We enjoy the interaction between couples and would like to share it with another couple.


0 Comments, 17 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
A video some of you "guys" might like   11/11/2004

I finally found a very good older porn I figured I would make the guys aware of. There is a “The Art Of Eating Pussy” porno that isn’t the typical porno. It is older by the looks of it even though it is a newer release. However the interesting thing is it has probably the best squirting scene around. A lot of female ejaculations are fake in porn and so are a lot of the ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 18 Votes ,6.67 Score
is this right?   11/11/2004

last year my girlfriend and i had a threesome with another woman. after the fact she accused me of wanting the other woman more than her and even having gone and cheated on her. to this day she thinks that i cheated on her with that other woman, i just want to know if she has a right to feel that way or if i'm just not understanding something


1 Comments, 17 Views, 8 Votes ,6.03 Score
toochychy2005 55 F
1  Article
Prelude to a Kiss...   11/11/2004

Prelude: prE-"lüd 1 : an introductory performance, action, or event preceding and preparing for the principal or a more important matter <br> Romance: rO-'man(t)s an ardent emotional attachment or involvement between two people. A strong, sometimes short lived attachment or fascination or enthusiasm for something or someone. Mysterious and fascinating appeal. As if ...


3 Comments, 153 Views, 31 Votes ,7.84 Score
Looking for ideas   11/10/2004

Hi all...I am looking for ideas on ways to get my ultra conservative wife interested in the lifestyle... She is 5'3, 40DD and too much weight for her...I don't mind, it makes no diff to me. But it gives her a self esteem problem... Any good advice would be appreciated...Thanks for your time!


1 Comments, 21 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
gottohaveit_04 56 C
4  Articles
Help Me Shave   11/8/2004

I love to have a shaved pussy but the razor burn and bumps drive me crazy. Is there any creams or gells that work better than the others. Any advice would be helpfull


6 Comments, 153 Views, 17 Votes ,6.66 Score
rm_fun2bwith463 58 F
2  Articles
Married men leaving cell numbers   11/8/2004

What's with these married men emailing you and leaving their cell number? They go as far as telling you the "safe" time to call... Well, I would like to start a phone number swap with my fellow single females and start calling these guys during the NOT SO SAFE times to call. You know the saying..."You're gonna play, you're gonna pay"


6 Comments, 66 Views, 36 Votes ,4.88 Score
rm_dave242349 67 M
41  Articles
Dont Judge someone on first appearance   11/6/2004

Question 1: If you knew a woman who was pregnant, who had 8 already, three who were deaf, two who were blind, one mentally retarded, and she had syphilis, would you recommend that she have an abortion? Read the next question before looking at the answer for this one. Question 2: It is time to elect a new world leader, and only your vote counts. Here are the facts about the three ...


2 Comments, 25 Views, 20 Votes ,5.29 Score
Bi-Curious   11/6/2004

I have been thinking about haveing relations with the same sex. But I am worried friends and family would find out. Also, If i do it I want to feel it. What do you think.


3 Comments, 29 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
give me some tips   11/6/2004

Hi can anyone help me, I am only a standard member (i am married and cant hide the payments) and have been on here for 4 months have winked at hundreds of women but have had no responces yet, can anyone give me any advice, maybe you could look at my profile and tell me if there is anything wrong with it, or maybe you are a women who lives round or neer swindon uk and want to meet up with ...


5 Comments, 31 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Best Friends Sister   11/6/2004

Ok does anyone think it is alright to move in a best friends sister without confronting him first. Me and my friends have joked about his sister many of times and he forbade anyone to go out with her but later he said he would never let anyone go out with her except me because he knows I would be the only one not to talk about the sex and stuff with everyone afterwards, which understandably ...


1 Comments, 70 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
rm_lovegr8sex2 65 C
3  Articles
The Truth   11/5/2004

Everyone has greed, only few have learned how not to.


0 Comments, 23 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
ask out on a date   11/5/2004

One of the boys from the spa just caught me off guard. He called and ask me out on a date after I FUCKED HIM AND HIS THREE FRIENDS ALL NIGHT TWO NIGHTS BEFORE. I still get confused about certain things but my husband said all I have to say is no I am married. It just seems strange to have fucked some ones eyes out and then not be able to go to dinner. But I GUESS THE SAME THING WOULD HAPPEN ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
How many is considered a gangbang?   11/5/2004

I will entertain the thought of letting some of the boys at the college near by to jump on the train. I have pulled one last spring for them and I think I enjoyed it as much or more than the boys. I can not beleive I am fucking guys my sons age or younger.


1 Comments, 194 Views, 14 Votes ,3.94 Score
Looking for advice: I can't get there   11/4/2004

I was sexually abused as a and as a result, I hate not being in control of how my body feels. I have never had an orgasm, though I have come close. And believe me it's my problem not my lover's because my boy is very good at pleasing me. I also trust him a lot but then again, that just means I trust him more than other people, which isn't saying a whole lot. I really want to experience ...


2 Comments, 14 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
Men and Commitment   11/4/2004

I have come to the assumption that most men live by the motto "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?" Well, most men that I've come across anyway. Here's a quick pointer for you guys, you aren't ever going to be completely happy and content in life. Most women move in with their boyfriend or man, with hopes of thinking he'll change his mind by just giving him time. Well ladies, ...


1 Comments, 12 Views, 22 Votes ,2.53 Score
orgasiming   11/4/2004

Okay, I really need help with this area! Is it possible for a woman to have a "dry" orgasim? The reason I say "dry" is I know I'm at my peak but I'm not wet after I orgasim. So am I really orgasiming or just not completely there to the point where a woman should cum? My boyfriend seems to think that because I don't always have a wet orgasim that he isn't satisfying me. Help me out on this ...


1 Comments, 5 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
swinging the other way   11/4/2004

Is it wrong for me to want to be with another woman and not include my boyfriend? He really wants to see me with another woman and he would just sit and watch, but am I being selfish in not wanting him to be there? I just feel that then if I do let him watch, he will want to touch and join in. I have no problem if he would want to touch another woman if he would want us to do a full swap ...


1 Comments, 8 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
finding another woman   11/4/2004

Where do I go to find another bi or bi curious female to have some fun with? I've been to a few gay bars and the ones that I thought were, turned out to be straight! Now if your going to go to a gay bar, shouldn't you be understanding that you might get approached by others that are bi or bi curous or gay and think you might be interested? That's why you go to those kinds of places. You ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
wanting to give him what he fantasizes about   11/4/2004

Okay girls, how do you figure this one out? My boyfriend's fantasy is to have me with another female and to be there and watch and possibly participate but only if this situation is spotanious and not planned. Or at least not planned when he would know about it. <br> He feels that since he separataed from his ex, mind you he's never been married, and he met me 5 months after he ...


2 Comments, 28 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
discretion503 48 M
1  Article
Advice for the newbies.   11/3/2004

Hiya! I've only recently joined this lusty little community (loving it so far, btw) and noticed that it was rather difficult at first to get into the swing of things around here. After spending a week or so hanging around in the chat rooms, perusing the member listings, etc, I discovered some pretty nifty features (like the point/prize system - very handy for someone with limited funds). ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
Anal Sex   11/2/2004

Ok here's the deal...my boyfriend is into anal sex...no problem there...I dont mind anal sex..I have had anal sex before with a previous boyfriend. Anal sex with the previous boyfriend was less painful.I guess because he was smaller. Well my boyfriend now is bigger and it hurts a lot..no matter how much lube or how slow he goes it hurts a lot...Ladies who enjoy anal sex...do you have any ...


3 Comments, 48 Views, 20 Votes ,4.02 Score
supersly2004 50 M
9  Articles
respect....   11/1/2004

Ladies, Gentlemen.................. its very nice to respect one another, an the decent thing to do too. we are all adults, an should be old, an mature enough to accept rejection. we all have choices, thank god too. in chat rooms, i do notice some weird arguments, more like personality clashes. i get rejected by ladies, so its life, win some, lose some..never get cross... so ...


3 Comments, 94 Views, 10 Votes ,6.57 Score
male to join couples for MMF 3some   11/1/2004

Hi, <br> I would be pleased to receive any advice about being a male who is joining a couple for 3some play. I have yet to try it but hope to very soon so would love tips from either males or couples who have had this experiance.


1 Comments, 71 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_chocolate21 33 F
6  Articles
Curious about Anal Sex   10/30/2004

I having wanting to experience anal sex, but have been very nervous about it. I hate extreme pain and the last 2 people that I have tried to do this with, they hurt me very badly, even when they tried to do it slowly with lubrication. My current boyfriend has been asking me about trying it now for the past 2 months and I told him that I think I am ready to try it because the way he ...


4 Comments, 47 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
rm_cityfoxII 65 C
5  Articles
Are there any Up scale swing clubs   10/30/2004

In Maryland, Delaware, D.C., New Jersey, Eastern Pa. and New York city area. Where are lookin for an upscale swing Clubs or down to earth private group parties. We have attended Starz in the D.C. area and Carousel in New York, they were not up to our liking. Many thank to anyone that can guide us to a great party.


0 Comments, 44 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
True lies and True love   10/30/2004

There is nothing like lying to the one you love, I know. Cheating on them is the worst lie of them all. To want the second chance with that person is a hopeless dream. To always love that person is all I will ever have besides regret. So those who have lied to there lover I sympathize but those who are true to there lover stay that way no matter what...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
seaboy1984 41 M
139  Articles
Fashion :6 Must-Haves For Fall 2004   10/29/2004

Ankle boots These Gucci chocolate brown ankle boots boast the elongated look of Western style boots, the ruggedness of biker boots, and the sleek toe of Italian designer shoes. Made from 100% premium leather, these ankle boots were designed and crafted with the utmost in care; they also feature cool and discreet side belt detailing. <br> Wear them with: Wear them with a pair of ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
So what is the average endowment of a man   10/28/2004

When you sign up you have to answer a number of questions, we've all done it or we wouldn't be here. You then get the opportunity to answer more questions to build up your profile. When it came to male endowment I entered "average" but is that right? 7" long 5" round, come on boys and girls. the more responces the better the result. What do you think is average?


5 Comments, 44 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_cplcam2cam 44 C
5  Articles
Great BookofSex.com   10/28/2004

This is excellent site.. ..


2 Comments, 31 Views, 26 Votes ,5.61 Score
SexVirussss 41 M
139  Articles
Same-Sex-Marriages   10/27/2004

If two males or females have love for each other and take care in good and bad times, I would still call that relationship as "Friendship" unless it involves physical intimacy. In case you want to refute what I said, you need to answer some fundamental questions... 1. what in the meaning of sex as in gender? 2. why sex or physical intimacy? 3. what is marriage and what does it mean ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Advice for the married man......   10/27/2004

I need help starting a fire in the bedroom....not only has our sex life disappeared, but I need help in trying to convince my wife to give oral a try...receiving that is! She truely believes it's an unhealthy act and disgusting...


4 Comments, 12 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
How long really is it...?   10/26/2004

My first post here....so i'm hoping it in the right place! <br> Hi everyone... <br> So when measuring a mans size does everyone think it should be measured from tip to base on the underside or the top side?


2 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Ragnorok1018 38 M
2  Articles
Need help searching   10/26/2004

Now im an 18/m in wichita and i have a really big problem....i dont know anyone and im extremly shy. i have so many girls at my job that i like and wanna talk to but im just to shy to approach them i see girls out in the malls and everywhere but anytime i come up with something to say to them they have already left its getting really lame and im kinda sick of it does anyone have any advice ...


3 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
supersly2004 50 M
9  Articles
nice to be honest   10/25/2004

why will someone ask for, fun in london, via the chat room, at least 10 guys will reply, yet none are compatible.....??? same lady, does the same again n again, think its the only way she'll feel wanted...curvy.....


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
supersly2004 50 M
9  Articles
network invites....   10/25/2004

why do some ladies, accept my network invite, then don't wanna chat.....is ti cos they got no pics..


1 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
Now what?   10/25/2004

Ok, you start out as fuck buddies and then one of you falls for the other. One of you is not as evolved as the other and is still mad at the world for the shitty hand they've been dealt. They are acting out in all sorts of detrimental ways (DUI, & unprotected sex)and one is trying to be as supportive as possible without getting suck in to the negativity. Now for the help. The ssex is ...


2 Comments, 23 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
Drizze69 32 M
1  Article
Trying to fix what I messed up   10/25/2004

Here is the situation. I was dating this girl and we were pretty serious at the time. Then my high school sweet heart comes back and tells me she wants to try "us" again. So I break up with my girlfriend at the time and get with my high school sweet heart. It didn't work out between my high school sweet heart and I. So now me and my ex-girlfriend are kinda talking but neither one of us ...


3 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Help   10/24/2004

How do I get my sexy wife interested in having group sex?


2 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
Whats going on with our points ?   10/24/2004

Does it take a few days or a week for an answer to an article or a posted article to get approved? I could not find this anywhere, I hope I did not overlook it somewhere. What I’m wondering is why I did not get any points for answers, posted articles, or on some votes. Has anyone else had this problem? Is the point limit less than what is shown here?


1 Comments, 6 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
MFM With your wife   10/23/2004

My wife really wants to have a MFM encounter. Just wondering if anyone with this experience could give me advice on whether I should let her do it or not. Thanks.


3 Comments, 91 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
friskymami69 38 F
4  Articles
Giving Oral   10/20/2004

Guys Guys GUys... When you are giving oral dont be scared. Jsut go for it. I had this one guy who didnt knwo what he was doing. He sprea the top on my pussy lips apart to the point were i thought he was going to rip them apart. Then you guys...Dont put teast the clit...slide down the middle into the hole and tounge fuck it. dont just focus on one thing. <br> <br> ...


2 Comments, 35 Views, 35 Votes ,6.94 Score
I want a threesome but the wife doesnt.   10/18/2004

A couple of months ago my wife and I had a threesome with a friend of mine. Since thats all she talked about. So I finally gave in.. But I put a stipulation in it. The stipulation was that if i did this for her then she would have to return the favor for me....Well it hasnt happened yet... I asked her why she didnt want to have another 3some (her and another woman) what I got was tht she is ...


3 Comments, 48 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
Need HELP about STALKER!!!   10/17/2004

Well just recently I have dubbed this girl who always to find herself at the same clubs and bars and constantly calls me every weekend, my stalker! Last night we were at a club, but I was really drunk, and I ended up making out with her. Near the end of the night I ducked out of the club, but she followed me home!!! What do I do?!?


2 Comments, 5 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Youbeourfirst 57 C
3  Articles
WHAT'S THE BEST WAY TO SWIFTLY WEED OUT TIMEWASTERS ?   10/17/2004

After being swamped with responses from supposed couples, we are slowly figuring out that even those we tried to trust have on the whole been total time-wasters or liars with descriptions etc. We'd appreciate your shared experience on this matter as it is getting rather tedious. <br> xx


0 Comments, 37 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
RE: Married But Not To Each Other   10/16/2004

I could hardly read your article because I was somewhere close to 90% sure it was written by my lover of the past year and a half to catch my attention. You are us; though I am divorced and have been for 4 years. In November he will celebrate his 25th Wedding anniversary with his sweet wife, the mother of his beautiful daughters, the woman who has him. He loves her, I have no doubt about ...


1 Comments, 21 Views, 18 Votes ,4.22 Score
STD protection during FF contact   10/16/2004

Being a married couple we are concerned over STD if we swing or invite a 3rd person into sexual relationship. With any sexual encounter between M and F we can use a condom but can anybody suggest or know if protection required for FF contact.


2 Comments, 94 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
anal/also gangbang help please   10/13/2004

OK, I've asked for help before and no replies, so I'm asking again. First, I'm seeing a terrific guy, but I always seem to want more sex than he does. So, I've ventured into a few situations to try to be fulfilled. I liked sex with a couple, but honestly I think it's hard for the guy to please both women. Now I'd love to be with several guys at once. Thinking of going to a swing club dance, would ...


2 Comments, 153 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
water sports   10/13/2004

how many women enjoy water sports and why do people think its so wrong is it ok with a long term partner???????


1 Comments, 91 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Listen up, gentlemens! Da goan sho 'nuff 'splain it to you!   10/12/2004

Alright, my home slices, one and all, i get more play then a stud bull on a milk run, so listen up. Da wolfie gots some wordz fer y'all. First off, treat women as people. That's right, daddy, girls like to talk as much about anything as we do. You think they go to the bathroom in teams to talk about you? Puh-leez! Second, if you want her to do anything freaky, do it yo' own ...


4 Comments, 27 Views, 38 Votes ,4.65 Score
Ready to go?   10/12/2004

Hey Everybody!! I've been on this site for a little while, but still have yet to "fully use" it's potential.. Wanting to learn, but also debating leaving the site, just for lack of action.. I would love to hear from you.. Tips; pointers; or to actually get together - which I'd prefer.. Mail me, & lets start using this site for what it's intended!! Hope to hear from you soon!!


1 Comments, 18 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
To avoid "size issues"....   10/11/2004

I found this to be very helpful in not dissapointing someone you want to meet...Be honest. If you are not petite, be upfront about it in your profile. I made it a point to put my dress size on my profile. I'm not interested in meeting someone who is expecting a perect size six Victoria Secret model, then getting a normal (but attractive size 11/12 chick. There's no point in trying to ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 37 Votes ,8.23 Score
ron64andrhonda69 59 C
1  Article
How do you know when you are ready to swing?   10/11/2004

My honey and I are new to this. We just put our ad in BookofSex.com. We are looking for another couple to have great adult time with and make a long lasting friendship. We have both agreed not to swap. We are willing to watch and be watched. We have not found a couple yet that is willing to do that. So how do you know when it is a good time to swap?


0 Comments, 11 Views, 0 Votes
married and lonley   10/11/2004

How can a married person who has never went outside there marriage find someone to be with that they can trust not to say anything and that is safe.


2 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
What should a man do?   10/11/2004

When a woman is giving a man that most wonderful gift of oral sex, what should the man do? Is nipple stimulation a turn on for the woman? How about back and shoulder massage? I know women don't like having their head pushed down so that they choke on big willie, but how about sensuous head massage, or playing with the hair on the fellators head? I am curious, because I want this to be as ...


2 Comments, 31 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
sweety put on some clothes   10/10/2004

guys--just because you want to see naked pics of us right away the reverse is not correct! the people i respond to as a woman are those of guys nicely dressed, with a nice smile. the guys who complain women arent paying attention should go to their profiles and show us pics of the sex organ between their ears, not the one between their legs.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Re: MFM Do women like to see the men give head?   10/10/2004

I have had several couples (man and woman) in the past ask if I would mind either giving the man head or vice versa. The women usually put this question forth. I am always hesitant, but I don't like saying no to something that turns someone else on. Is this something that is particularly arousing for many couples?


2 Comments, 42 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Edge3 61 M
2  Articles
RE: What kind of pics do men like to see posted?   10/9/2004

I agree with the gentleman below. We like to see the full figure with a pretty face if you do not mind showing us. Also, please, get some good lighting in the photo so we can see detail. It is always more aluring if you are truely turned on when you take the picture, either just after arousal or even during a sexual event. This lends some extra color to your face and other beautiful sections ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
HELP - This IS a "Sex & Swinger Personals site," right???   10/8/2004

I am baffled. I just got a very insulting e-mail from a female BookofSex.com member who just totally blasted me bc I am a married man and looking for an affair (i.e. you are a coward, not a real man, just looking to use women, etc.) I am certainly no angel, but I certainly do not feel I deserve that "hate-spewing" description. If you will humor me for a minute, I have some thoughts I need to get ...


4 Comments, 12 Views, 18 Votes ,4.63 Score
How Should The Connection Start?   10/7/2004

When someone contacts me how should I go about actually meeting them in real life, the steps? How do I know when to turn away if something isnt right about them?


1 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
no experience, no relationship   10/5/2004

I've had a problem for a while where the women I'm interested in and who seem interested in me won't have anything to do with me other than being friends when they find out I've never been in an intimate relationship before. If me having no experience is an excuse, how exactly am I ever supposed to get any experience. At this point, I'm 21 and haven't even kissed a girl much less anything ...


3 Comments, 164 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
loveseeker19512 64 F
1  Article
Ok when you decide to wait for a visit, how alone should you be?   10/5/2004

I have been totally turned off socially, just to meet one man. For the last few days, there has been no contact after daily emails, and some phone calls. I had one date, during this time and was honest with him. I decided to forego anyone else to meet him first. I feel rather stupid, as my life has been on hold for about 3 months now, and I feel like I have cheated myself, in this matter. What ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
re:finding a glory hole   10/4/2004

i've seen glory holes in the great majority of adult book stores i've been in. however, not once, ever, ever have i seen a woman in one or near one. one time i saw a m/f couple but they used a booth that did not have a glory hole. a woman in that environment would probably freak out most of the male clientle. and they usually have strict rules about one person per booth. so, if you do go to ...


0 Comments, 272 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
The Truth Up Front?   10/3/2004

Is it better to be truthful right from the start, and risk never meeting anymore at all? Or to hold back the nasty little details that everyone on this planet has, just to be able to first reel someone into your web, and hope they will still be accepting of you after all is disclosed? The reality is we are all in these online ‘meet someone’ programs because we are all having ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Shouldn't there be monagamy with the person your cheating with?   10/2/2004

I know its a funny question but its one I'm sure you all want to ask. I have been seeing someone for a while now. He is married and I am engaged. I think of him as a good friend as well as a sexual partner. Until recently I thought we were exclusive except for his wife and my fiance. We never discused being exclusive when we got started but I just kinda thought it was understood. Am I right ...


5 Comments, 86 Views, 17 Votes ,2.84 Score
Women, Cheat on them (men)   9/27/2004

Over the years men have cheated on us, used us, abuse us, and after they are finish, they push us away because they have no further use for us. They don't care about our emotions, how they have hurt us. While we are crying our eyes out, losing weight and going down memory lane, they are out there having fun with another woman. They persue us, and we resist them till they finally break us. ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Sexycpl2play69 61 C
1  Article
Finding a glory hole   9/26/2004

Just a quick question. I've read the stories about glory holes at adult book stores. Is this true or just a line of BS. I want to take my wife to one and let her have some fun. Please email me with your comments. <br> Thanks <br> <br> G


0 Comments, 407 Views, 15 Votes ,4.05 Score
rm_Richard1547 47 M
1  Article
Gynecological Survey   9/21/2004

In regard to the photos posted, in the profiles. Women post just as many vagina pictures as to the penis ones. After an hour of "browsing" I feel like a Gynocologist! Now it doesn't bother me because that's why I'm here. To find a women, not that it's the deciding factor of course. Beauty Brains and Personality take first preference. We all have a little exhibitionism in us! This site is ...


1 Comments, 80 Views, 21 Votes ,4.86 Score
Wife doesn't give blowjobs   9/18/2004

I've been married to my wife for 3 years. Our sex life is good except for the fact that she doesn't give bj's. I don't wabt her to think that all I want her for. But I feel if someone tells you to be patient for 3 years and nothing happens I should get a little pissed. I need advice for the ladies on how to approach her about this.


1 Comments, 20 Views, 21 Votes ,3.13 Score
Sexy Co-worker   9/14/2004

K everyone, looking for a little advice about how to approach a co-worker about a 4some with her and her husband. I've been working with K for about 4 months now and find her very attractive and very sexy.I know from some of our conversations that she and her husband have a very active sex life and that she loves sex....How do I ...


1 Comments, 107 Views, 17 Votes ,4.82 Score
Pics of private parts!   9/13/2004

Generally speaking from a woman's point of view, It all looks the same below the belt and if you want to impress us show a picture of your face or the whole ordeal we as women are not just focused on one area of the body we like to see it all. If you are not hot above the belt than you chances of getting laid are slim to none. (it doesn't matter how big you are!) Oh and another thing most ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 24 Votes ,7.22 Score
Accepting Others As They Are   9/11/2004

One thing we all sorely need to work on, is the ability to accept others as they are, and not as we perceive they should be. Nothing can be more hurtful, then not living up to the expectations of what others think we should (but are not), and being punished and/or rejected for it. Every living thing on this planet should have the right to exist and be as their own soul dictates, as long as ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 18 Votes ,7.63 Score
hook up   9/7/2004

too many people just dont go through with what they set up please dont waste our time


0 Comments, 53 Views, 14 Votes ,3.94 Score
soulfulwoman 59 F
1  Article
How to Lose Her With One Bad Photo - or how to win her with a better one   9/2/2004

It starts with the photo. It catches her eye. She clicks on your handle, only to be disappointed. You are sitting on your computer chair, legs outstretched, obviously taking your own photo - and you are wearing white socks. Okay maybe a computer geek would be interested, but most women are saying, "Tell me again why this is sexy?" <br> But she's an optimist, so she clicks ...


0 Comments, 180 Views, 37 Votes ,7.47 Score
It burns...   9/1/2004

I tried shaving once for a woman I used to date. She loved it and was happy that I did shave, but for me it wasn't so nice. The following days/weeks my skin was irritated. It burned and was almost constantly itchy. My question is, what is a good way to prevent this? I shaved with a new razor and used shaving lotion, but is there something that I missed?


0 Comments, 474 Views, 20 Votes ,4.78 Score
big booties   9/1/2004

big butts on women are so attarctive women do not try look like these bony models thta america makes you wnana look like, be proud of that booty..


3 Comments, 352 Views, 27 Votes ,7.13 Score
weirdest palce you had sex   9/1/2004

1 of my weirdest places was the mcdonalds palyground after dark, you know that slide with those palstic balls?, ahha it was strange


1 Comments, 293 Views, 17 Votes ,4.82 Score
Calling on All Foot Fetishers out there!!!!!!   9/1/2004

Hello I have a guy friend, well best friend with fringe benefits. He is a deep foot fetisher and love my feet and my shoes. It took me awhile to understand the behaviors and why makes him tick. And I am trying to understand those things and behaviors that I do not knowing with my feet that turns him on. He claim that he does not need penetration to be satified..the foot fetish does not. ...


0 Comments, 245 Views, 9 Votes ,0.22 Score
tangorose 31 M
1  Article
need help meeting girls   8/31/2004

hey ladies, and maybe guys, whats up. i need help initiating conversation with girls. i am pretty shy, and everyday i wimp out on talking to a girl i find attractive. i dont know what it is, sometimes i can be pretty outgoing and talk to girls, but most of the time it is really hard. i guess i just need some advice on how to meet a girl, and be able to talk to her. is there anything that ...


3 Comments, 707 Views, 9 Votes ,0.43 Score
Re: WE Gotta Get This Thing To Work And I Have Some Ideas   8/27/2004

<<< Therefore, men need to adjust their expectations. Yeah, this is a sex-exchange site, but women want more than to get laid. Women are looking for long-term relationships, and even marriage. >> <br> I don't think that's true. I suspect the reason BookofSex.com doesn't work for a lot of men (assuming contact with real women, not porn site shills) is because of the ...


3 Comments, 72 Views, 12 Votes ,6.86 Score
am I turning Bi-curious   8/17/2004

Years ago as a 20yr old I went to cypres with some friends and one night whilst drinking in a bar i picked up this gorgeous girl, she was hot, after a few drinks and a lot of petting she went under the table in the bar ( an enclosed cubicle) and gave me a cracking blow job, one of the best I've had, and I was looking forward to going back to her place, That was until we were about to leave ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 23 Votes ,7.68 Score
rm_MiosotisX 67 F
8  Articles
Re: Rimjobs   8/14/2004

Well, maybe there aren't many women but there sure are many men who will love it! And if you are so obsesses with asses you may be missing the hint that you are problably into men more than into women! By the way, are you aware that if after you move your finger from a woman's pussy to the ass you can't move back without washing your hands or else they will be more than puzzled when you ...


1 Comments, 172 Views, 27 Votes ,5.56 Score
How to weed them out   7/27/2004

I have been meeting some really great people on here but, when the time comes to actually get together for a drink or whatever they end up being completely different than what they originally said they were or else they are seriously disturbed. now, what is it that I should be asking these people without sounding like a job interview at NASA? I guess I just assume people are like me and ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 16 Votes ,7.10 Score
Guen1981Again 31 F
1  Article
How to Succeed with Finding Sex on BookofSex.com   7/25/2004

Hey Fellow AFFers, <br> The secret to this site... to getting friends and sex and love or whatever it is you are looking for... is to make friends first. I prefer to use the chat rooms and talk to all kinds of people. I chat with very heterosexual gals and very homosexual guys, I chat with the very very old men and women and with the very young. I've gotten to where I trust a ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 31 Votes ,6.21 Score
Am I a normal woman?   7/16/2004

I often have fantasies about being involved in group sex. But the thing is, I see myself with 2 gay men, or maybe bi-sexual men. I love to watch them having sex while I finger my self, I feel myself getting more and more arroused with this situation. I also love to give them blow jobs at the same time. And having them both penetrate in both...Plz tell me, is this normal. And by the way, I ...


2 Comments, 65 Views, 27 Votes ,5.24 Score
How to have real fun swinging in spore   6/26/2004

Seems not many people are into swinging.... Will sure be a good place to live in if there are at least 50 % of the population espcially in spore who are swingers. Dun u guys agree?


1 Comments, 42 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
RE Feedback on photos   6/20/2004

why oh why oh why do you men feel you have to put dick pics on your profile? Yes this is an adult site but we women wanna see your face and perhaps even a fully clothed pic too to give an idea of what you look like. Dick pics are all very well but personally would rather get to know someone a little before seeing a pic like that. Dicks are not the most attractive quality and being hung ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 21 Votes ,6.96 Score
Profiles "Which ones are real"   6/16/2004

alot of the profiles on this site are not even real. they are fake profiles put on by other webmasters trying to get your email address so they can send you spam. by doing this it gets around the blockers. usually the titles say some thing like "its mary from the personals" for example. the best way to avoid wasting your time by sending a message to a fake profile is look for three easy ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 34 Votes ,7.46 Score
How does one become a good kisser?   6/12/2004

I just want to know how to become a good kisser...I've been told my mouth is too wet or something? I've tried not using the tongue but found most don't like that either...where does one begin?


0 Comments, 17 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Cunnilingus   6/6/2004

What makes it so great? It definitely has something to do with the clit being the sole source of 80% of all women’s orgasms. And the fact that it’s so easily ignored during “vanilla” sex. Plus, the mouth can create all sorts of unique and amazing sensations. Some Biased Observations Women stay with men who eat good pussy. There’s no doubt about it. ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 50 Votes ,9.39 Score
meeting in Kelowna, Vernon, Kamloops, BC   5/29/2004

where are good meetings spot in the Kelowna, Vernon, Kamloops areas? I can't find an adult book store or movie theater, in fact i would be shocked if a single glory hole could be found in any of the above areas.how about a nude beach, not the family section but a more adult cruising part? Please help me find a spot where adults go to play. any suggestions, please let me know. ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
I love watching gay men have sex   5/24/2004

I am a women who is not gay but , i love watching men have sex so much that i satrt watchin gpron that has that in that . Is this okay for woemn like me to enjoy this


4 Comments, 289 Views, 8 Votes ,6.26 Score
Coco19822001 42 M
3  Articles
Re: How do I get a response?   5/22/2004

Thanks for writing this muppet man! I'm facing the exact same dilemma. I've been on a few weeks and have got hardly anything. I don't know what to do! I've added/taken away from my profile aplenty and still nothing. I think I'm an attractive guy, so I don't know what's holding back the ladies. I've had 2 ppl view me abd one was older than me 37 to my 22. I'm getting frustrated with this. ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 85 Votes ,8.02 Score
LilTanya25 47 F
1  Article
Anal sex--Is it really that good???   5/22/2004

OK, anal sex is somehthing i have tried twice. Once when i was about 18 and the other when I was around 23. Both times I could not stand it and had to stop because not only was I uncomfortable, its does absolutely nothing for me. None, of my friends are into it but iv heard anal sex can be awesome for both the man and woman sexually. well, I have a "bed buddy" who i told I would go that ...


1 Comments, 132 Views, 57 Votes ,8.19 Score
rm_cchuck1968 56 M
2  Articles
Should I fuck a woman on our first meeting?   5/20/2004

I met this sexy lady on BookofSex.com, we had drinks and talked. She was very agressive and wanted to fuck! I respected her and said "let's take it slow". We fooled around for an hour and she had to go. I haven't heard from her since. Should I have given her some of my tool?


0 Comments, 27 Views, 39 Votes ,7.71 Score
4u2fuckmehard 41 F
1  Article
I LIKE THIS GUY ON BookofSex.com BUT ....   5/20/2004

I WENT TO MET THIS GUY AND I WAS STOOD UP AND HE SAID HE GOT A TICKET AND WHEN HE GOT THERE IT WAS TO LATE???THEN I FORGAVE AND START TALKING HE LOGS OFF.MINS LATER HES BACK START TALKING HE LOGS OFF??? SHOULD I BE UNDERSTANDING OR IS HE PLAYING GAMES????


0 Comments, 36 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
rm_MsLoveM 70 F
4  Articles
Re: Help asking for what you want   5/18/2004

First I'd like to commend you for deciding to do this for yourself! Second, good luck! I'm not going to tell you it can't/won't happen, but just trying to put it together will require lots of preperation. I attempted to have a little party for myself, with a little twist. I'm straight but my boyfriend is bi. I contacted guys who had written to me seeking a threesome, they said they were ...


1 Comments, 90 Views, 36 Votes ,7.81 Score
rm_Choodhna 54 C
21  Articles
Anal Sex   5/12/2004

I still wonder has anyone has fucked his wife in her ass. My wife even does not like a finger in her ass. Can any female tell me how she feels about fucking in the ass. Male member who has fucked his wife's ass should also tell me hoe he liked fucking ass, how hw lubricated it and how much his wife liked it


10 Comments, 914 Views, 33 Votes ,2.78 Score
Meeting interacial sex partners   5/7/2004

What is the best way to meet prospective interacial partners. In my case I love mature black women, but since I retired I don't know how to go about meeting them. Also I would not know how to broach the subject even if I did. Any advise from you ladies? or guys who have been successful.


0 Comments, 44 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: cumming in a womans mouth   5/6/2004

Personally I like the man to cum in my mouth <if he tastes good>, job isn't complete until then. Not all men are created equal when it comes to taste, but it is usually on the bland side. One of my favorite sayings "Mean girls spit, Nice girls swallow". <wink>


1 Comments, 18 Views, 72 Votes ,7.88 Score
Body Type   5/3/2004

Well.... We all are our worst critic right? Does anyone have any guidelines for what body type is what? I call myself average with maybe a few extra... but the next person might call me ample or who knows what else. I know to judge by weight is way off because I know people my weight who look bigger. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas to clear this all up!


1 Comments, 31 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
passionatemover 59 F
2  Articles
Why Men dont get many replies./No Strings   5/2/2004

I have seen many articles from men complaining that they dont get replies, well for those men I say read on, if youre Man enough, and you might just realise where you ALL go wrong. What is it with MEN? and this nonsense about "No Strings Relationships/arrangements" Guys for one every encounter with another human being forms a relationship, of some kind, be it friends lovers or ships in ...


1 Comments, 76 Views, 97 Votes ,6.72 Score
re: making cum taste better   4/30/2004

I've heard that eating strawberries or pineapples the night before you cum helps make cum taste sweeter. When my guy was on antibiotics for an ear infection his cum was very bitter but being the trooper I am I swallowed anyway! If a man's cum is consisitently bad tasting then find out what he ate the day before or ask about the meds he is taking. Give fruit a try and see if that ...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
gerkinskinovic 49 M
1  Article
are older women actually attracted to younger guys   4/28/2004

are older women actually attracted to younger guys? i was just wondering because i am very attracted to older women


1 Comments, 81 Views, 16 Votes ,6.80 Score
Stamina Issues   4/25/2004

I have had an issue with my stamina for several years now. I climax far too fast. I have to bring my partner to climax orally before penetration. I simply can't last long enough for her to orgasm any other way. Is there anything that I can do to help with this?


1 Comments, 51 Views, 34 Votes ,7.73 Score
Learn your ABC's   4/21/2004

A - Accept and appreciate your partner for who they are. Avoid doing the same thing over and over. Great sex should be an adventure! Aromatic fragrances are acceptable in the bedroom. <br> B - Believe in your ability to satisfy your partner, then do it. Savor, wallow and bask in the bliss of coming together. <br> C - Be Considerate of your partner's needs. Stop when ...


1 Comments, 52 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
Why so many ads?   4/20/2004

I have replyed to a lot of womens ads on here and the only ones that responded were ones that wanted you to goto another site and subscribe to it. Are there any real women out there or is this a place for mostly ads to other sites?


2 Comments, 31 Views, 21 Votes ,7.33 Score
Advice for Newbies--Definitions of popular terms   4/13/2004

Safe sex= Bring a baseball bat! Athletic= Sumo Wrestler Athletic= Can chew gum while giving head Open-Minded= Will fuck a skunk Dark Pictures= Probably not "eye candy" We aren't Ken&Barbie= We are gargoyles We are Ken&Barbie= Just ask my mother See pics= Oh! Did you mean of us? Well-endowed= Inherited major cash Well-travelled= Like 40 miles of bad road Well-travelled= ...


1 Comments, 25 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_desmond197 59 C
7  Articles
Why Middle aged guys go out with 25 year olds.   4/13/2004

Ok I am a geezer. I am 46 but look about 35. I am happly married and my wonderful wife lets me swing. She is not into it at all any more. Says most of the guys we met at clubs were lousy and could not keep it up. She did like the ladies however. So I am out playing the field online, socially and dating bars. I realy like women my age and older. Are the ladies I meet in my age group charming ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
ntexdepgal 57 F
1  Article
reply to Masterbation how to make it better   4/12/2004

Take a disposable douche and fill it 3/4 way full of warm water while in the shower, then squeeze out the excess air and then put the top back on. You'll be suprised at how good it feels. When your done squeeze out the water and no one will know the differ.


1 Comments, 186 Views, 11 Votes ,5.04 Score
what to do if your partners not willing?   4/11/2004

i have a big problem with my fiance'. we have been together for over 2 yrs now and our sex life has become an unfunny joke. in the begining we fucked all the time and it lasted for at least an hour. now i am lucky to get a ten minute quicky once a month. i have tried everything that i can think of to get him interested but he does not pay any attention. his line of thinking is that a ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
InControl4400 52 F
5  Articles
Am I wrong to hold on?   4/9/2004

I wanted to find out what someone on the other side of the game thinks for once, to make sure that I wasn't the only one out here that feels the way I do. My situation is rather simple, but I can never get a straight answer. <br> My husband has been in prison for over 6 years...and I've been completely faithful. Not even masturbated. But the other day, when out with a friend ...


6 Comments, 72 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
rm_mixedgirl469 42 F
2  Articles
Re: Men and Women Shaved   4/7/2004

As a bisexual woman, I have to say that I prefer both men and women to be completely clean shaven. I love to perform oral sex on both men and women. Nobody likes to have hair in their mouth. It is a lot easier to deepthroat a guy if you don't have to worry about suffocating in his pubic hair, lol. One last thing guys, if you shave it all off, your penis will look a LOT bigger.


2 Comments, 171 Views, 63 Votes ,9.13 Score
rm_mixedgirl469 42 F
2  Articles
Anal sex can be great   4/7/2004

Ok, here's the deal. Anal sex can be GREAT with the right partner. My ex-boyfriend was rather well endowed, 8 inches and really thick. When I finally tried anal with him, we started by having lots of foreplay and he went down one me and got me all wet and ready. Then he began to make love to me from behind and that got me even hotter, I LOVE DOGGY STYLE! He used a high quality lube and ...


2 Comments, 312 Views, 84 Votes ,9.25 Score
Is my wife cheating? My situation!!   4/5/2004

I have been married for a few years. I got an offer to go out of town to look at a move within my company. There was no problem with this at first. I was gone a week and returned to find out that she had went out with her best friend and her best friend's cousin which happens to be her ex-boyfriend. She told me about this. I didn't hear it from anyone else. I find it suspicious that ...


2 Comments, 231 Views, 26 Votes ,3.24 Score
Jus fooling around   4/5/2004

Me and my one friend ahve been foolling around with no strings attached for about a year, its super wierd because we are jus friends but do stuff all the time, is it jus mutual or maybe is she looking for more?


0 Comments, 2 Views, 13 Votes ,2.14 Score
AllJess 41 F
1  Article
I have a question   4/5/2004

Ok. This is for all the bigger girls out there. I'm not a really overweight girl, just a little(which I am working on), but why is it that it doesn't matter what your face looks like, only your body. I'm not a bad looking girl, and I have a pretty cool personality, but that just doesn't seem to matter because I am a bit overweight. Why is it that guys would rather have a skinny dumb chick ...


13 Comments, 175 Views, 21 Votes ,7.09 Score
rm_thickiithick 63 F
1  Article
Breasts and Arousal   4/4/2004

Ladies, have you ever been with a guy who just totally turns you off when he fondles your breasts in an attempt to arouse you and you immediately lose interest to go any further sexually with this person? Men, if you are reading this I hope some of you learn to please us women better and come up with a better technique for breast play. First of all, there is more to the breast than "just ...


1 Comments, 194 Views, 20 Votes ,5.55 Score
Anal Sex   3/31/2004

How do I convince my homophobic partner to try anal sex? He thinks that if he likes anal that he might be gay.


2 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Not worth the time...   3/25/2004

I did the standard member thing for quite some time, since I was not sure if I wanted to cough up the money for a dating site. After a while, I though, hokay, standard members do not get anywhere. The site is very obviously designed to induce you to pay for membership. So I took the plunge, you only live once. <br> Now being a gold member, I can tell you that I will not renew ...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 8 Votes ,6.26 Score
Licking a couple?   3/24/2004

Hi, I am posting this again, this time as a question under 'advice'. Has anybody licked a couple as they have sex? I am really curious about it; I guess if a woman gets her clit licked as a man is inside her, the feeling must be great. I find the idea incredibly arousing, though nobody seems to talk about it and the only porn I have seen where it actually happens is about FMF threesomes, ...


1 Comments, 60 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
superman7573 52 C
1  Article
3SOME ETIQUTE   3/19/2004

Is there 3some etiqute? I have had a couple now and always semm to want to spend more time with the girl who has joined in, i still do spend time with my wife but not as much is this bad? We do always still have great sex after the lady has left.


2 Comments, 233 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
fuckthisbitch2 43 F
1  Article
I'm wondering?   3/15/2004

Are all the guys I meet on here just interested in my tits because of how big they are? I didn't put a pic of my tits on my profile because I feel like that is about the only thing guys want to see. I have a great body and a very nice pussy but all guys ask me is about my tits. So tell me is that all a guy wants is my tits?


0 Comments, 46 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_SeanD71 53 M
8  Articles
3 some question?   3/14/2004

My girlfriend and I have been having a threesome with another woman for sometime now. This weekend my girlfriend was out of town, and I ended up hooking up with our 3some partner. We both agreed not to say anything, but now I'm not sure. Is it cheating, should i tell my girlfriend.


0 Comments, 65 Views, 73 Votes ,8.20 Score
Wanting to enjoy receiving a male anal gang bang?   3/10/2004

To the guy who said he had been fucked up the ass last weekend for the first time, enjoyed it, and now was being offered the same thing by his buddy and four of his friends..... IF you are POSITIVE that they are all HIV negative, then if I were you I'd GO FOR IT !! Have some KY on hand, start out with a dildo or butt plug, then a larger diameter one, then take on the guy with the thinnest ...


1 Comments, 296 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Rthewoman4u 53 F
1  Article
Looking for a woman 4 a woman...   3/10/2004

When being around sexy woman I am very turned on. Some of them play the game like they are into woman but won't go pass first base. Others you just don't know even though they hang out with you and know that you are in to woman but tells you that isn't there thang. what do you do?


1 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Forced Lactation (Breast Milk)   3/8/2004

My lover wants to suck milk from my very large breasts. He claims there is a techniqur of nipple suction and massage that will make any woman start giving milk. Any ideas or suggestions.


1 Comments, 269 Views, 47 Votes ,5.84 Score
Sexy14UBoys 48 F
2  Articles
Where are all the hot men???   3/6/2004

I joined this site because I am moving soon and just got out of a bad relationship. I wanted to meet someone to just have a good time with for the next few months that I am here. All the men that have responded are either not my type or just want the occasional one night stand. Dont get me wrong one night stands are good from time to time but whats up with all the hot muscular men? Where ...


9 Comments, 748 Views, 34 Votes ,2.79 Score
Playing seperately   3/3/2004

I am curious how many of the swinging couples play seperately and what kind of out come this has had on your relationship. Isn't the whole reason for doing the "lifestyle" to enhance YOUR sexual relationship?


1 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Curious3904 57 C
1  Article
Bicuriosity   3/3/2004

We been married for 25 years lately we have talked about having sex with other people of the same sex. He wants to see me with another woman and I am really considering it. He also wants to experience an encounter with a male. Any advice?


3 Comments, 104 Views, 0 Votes
VeryCurious1960 64 F
5  Articles
Pics   2/28/2004

To all the men out there who have their pictures on BookofSex.com I would like to give you alittle advice. It is always great looking at a picture of a nice hard cock but I think most women on here agree with me when I say that seeing a face shot would be nice to. There is more to a man then the size of his buddy. Myself I love a man's eyes and smile. So please when you are adding pictures to you ...


0 Comments, 155 Views, 65 Votes ,8.53 Score
ravenstarr33610 51 F
2  Articles
how do i get someone to leave me alone....   2/26/2004

this guy that i met online wont leave me alone...its like he is obssessed...he somehow knows when im online even though i am invisible and whenever i go to a chat room all of a sudden he appears there too....wht is up with that...i dont understand how he is doing that...is there some kind of program that tells him everything i am doing on my puter and how the hell did he get access to my ...


3 Comments, 48 Views, 19 Votes ,6.68 Score
sex and the bbw   2/22/2004

After reading an article and being pleased at someone saying that larger women can have fun....! I would like to add something to that! Us BBW's do like sex, we can have wonderful sex! Don't judge us by our size! So many men on BookofSex.com do, don't judge the book by it's cover! We can do the same things 'normal' sized women do, in fact most bbws are very active in the bedroom! We love ...


6 Comments, 164 Views, 31 Votes ,7.65 Score
JacknJillxxx 46 C
2  Articles
videotaping the moment   2/20/2004

My husband and I are free-spirited people with a normal and perfectly sex life. We've done things like light bondage and taking photos of one another, etc. We are also very open with one another and any partners we encounter. The thing that has me somewhat bugged is that I would like to make a video of us with someone else running the camera for a change. The idea really turns us both on ...


1 Comments, 72 Views, 42 Votes ,8.16 Score
Female Ejaculation...is it a myth?   2/16/2004

Ok, I've read articles and also have seen videos where there are women that squirt when they cum. Ever since I saw an article on the subject, I've been more than intrigued. I must know how to do this! When I have sex, I enjoy penetration, oral the 9 yards. However, I can't seem to squirt. Is this something that women can really do or is it a myth. How does one achieve such mind ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 7 Votes ,5.84 Score
Truth or dare!   2/13/2004

I have recently found out that my husband is searching for something more sexually. I have found this out by coming across an email he has received. The email wasn't quite clear as to whether or not they were male, female, part of a couple or single. It just stated that they would be willing to meet to do some explicit things to my husband. In the email it did mention bisexual but ...


0 Comments, 94 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
personal selfish poeple   2/8/2004

it give alot of poeple who while into the swinging scene, when they meet start after things start in a good way, act in a jealous way, (not able to cum when the other in the room, not able to get hard....)those poeple just do not want to understand that it is about sex and not relationship. what are the sing to find those kind of poeple and to leave them on the side?


0 Comments, 41 Views, 26 Votes ,0.01 Score
Am I alone?   2/3/2004

I'm a 45yo male, always been straight, happily married with family etc.Recently I've been fantasising about dressing in sexy women's clothes(stockings, heels etc)and sucking a guys cock, and maybe even letting him fuck me.The idea of m/m sex as a man doesn't excite me, just the crossdressing part.Anyone else in AFFland like me?If so, I could use some help.


1 Comments, 209 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
rm_blossom33178 47 C
1  Article
Women going to strip clubs   2/2/2004

For women to find the right strip club to have fun at is hard. The best ones we have found and we have been all over the country is in the ST.louis area, manily PT's strip club. After midnight its about 50 % women and 50 % men, lots of couples and single girls, have fun.


1 Comments, 246 Views, 10 Votes ,6.17 Score
3Way   2/2/2004

My girl and I have talked about 3way sex before and we are both interested, but can not agree how to find the person. I feel that we should build a relationship with the girl first, but her thoughts are more geared toward meeting someone online and just doing it. I don’t know what the best way is to go about this, I would be more comfortable with someone that I know, but she thinks ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
rm_sexbius 60 T
2  Articles
So, you did not get a response and wonder why   1/31/2004

I guess I've been lucky with the response we have had after we posted some sexy pictures. After we posted pics it increased the views to our profile by 20 times than we had with no pics posted. Well the point is when you have more people that view you, you will get more response. Either with a wink, added to their hotlist or with an e-mail from them. In one day we had 31 e-mails saying ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 11 Votes ,6.72 Score
rm_saetia 56 F
1  Article
Orgasms affect my hearing!   1/29/2004

Okay, so I have sent this in to Maxim and Playboy but neither have responded. I am a 37yo female who has VERY intense orgasms that affect my hearing...I lose most of my hearing for several minutes to hours after cumming really hard. I want to know what causes this and if it happens to other people! <br> Thanks, <br> Deaf Sexy girl !


2 Comments, 321 Views, 12 Votes ,6.69 Score
rm_5069103 61 M
3  Articles
HOW-TO's: male-to-female   1/28/2004

HEY (FEMME)GUYS: as another genetic male that's considered myself "Transgendered" since a pre-, here's my advice to you. Do an online search under "transgender" in your area for you to find support groups that you can visit/join to help you with your desires to dress/behave/appreciate the female sex. While society accepts women that act, behave and dress as men, we T-Girls need and DESERVE ...


3 Comments, 444 Views, 35 Votes ,6.59 Score
Nfriend2ve 46 F
4  Articles
RE: Test Cum   1/28/2004

Oh yes and it goes wit the saying "you are what you eat"! Most men worries when their girlfriend refuse to give them blow jobs, but ignore them when they say "honey do you mind smoking for a while?" nicotine make sperm test and smell bad so who would like to swallow them. So guys avoid things like too much garlic, onions, smoking etc. Pineapple give the sperms the best test. Most important ...


1 Comments, 127 Views, 8 Votes ,6.03 Score
Nfriend2ve 46 F
4  Articles
RE: How do I meet people   1/28/2004

I have met quiet a lot of great people from this site. As it turns out most of them just happen to be on here because of a pop up or sitting bored in the office and surfing. Although it is an adult website I real suggest to be naked ONLY if you have one of those playboy magazine men's body. I have seen a lot of penises on here which were real a turn off, they just look ugly! So avoid ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
QueenKashmire 41 F
6  Articles
Tips for making contact with someone you like   1/27/2004

1. Wink (wait for wink back) 2. Add to hotlist (wait for it back) 3. Make contact (wait for it back) 4. Invite to each other's network 5. Live happily ever after <br> Don't send me an invite to your damn network (where I keep my most personal pictures) if you haven't taken the time to get to know me, period. <br> The following is taken from my auto-response ...


0 Comments, 94 Views, 12 Votes ,6.16 Score
Get references...   1/27/2004

Whether they actually say or do something, or, if it is simply an uneasy feeling you have, pay attention to ‘red flags’. <br> Get references, if possible (and not only email references). Talk voice-to-voice with people who have played with or been in a relationship with the person before. Talking to a former playmate might seem a little awkward, but it’s ...


1 Comments, 166 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
ms909 57 F
1  Article
Wanting More than great fucking   1/27/2004

I've met a guy here on BookofSex.com. We have been going hot and heavy for over 3 years now. It started out as just sex with no strings attached. Now I want more. How do I go about it. Yes he knows how I feel and I am the only one he is sexing.


1 Comments, 192 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
jimbear03 61 M
1  Article
RE EATING PUSSY   1/26/2004

If done correctly you can slowly and softly lick the clit after she has cum and work her up to another orgasm very quickly. Just think of it as the tide coming in then waves crashing on the beach then a tidel wave. I have done this to several women and they loved every flip of my tongue.


8 Comments, 5835 Views, 506 Votes ,5.05 Score
Fucking without Passion! HELP!!!!   1/25/2004

How can a person bring passion back into fucking...there's no kissing, no real foreplay, and even if we do get to just the MAIN EVENT, it's kinda boring, lackluster, with no KaBOom if you know what I mean...How I can tell a guy it's weak..I really like him, I know he likes me...what can we do...ps..he is really uptight about trying new things and not being in control when we have sex!


1 Comments, 348 Views, 14 Votes ,2.02 Score
juicymango2001 72 F
2  Articles
the taste of cum   1/24/2004

There are a few things that will improve the taste of cum from a man. Obviously the first thing is to have a plan for the meeting...designed to meet the erotic needs of BOTH people envolved. But, that said, knowing that I am meeting one of you beautiful sexy men for one of those precious weekend getaways designed to pamper us both....I ask that my lover cut back on red meat for a couple of ...


16 Comments, 3616 Views, 405 Votes ,4.53 Score
rm_janpetat 74 M
5  Articles
Men 's heigt   1/24/2004

I 'll answer on RCwis11, on the art. he wrote. Men 's height is importend to woman because they look up to tall man. The woman feels secured because te man can deffend her and her childeren agaist others who are smaler. It was realy importend in the past. Nowadays woman have oftend that feeling but they do n't really know why. It exists


0 Comments, 581 Views, 15 Votes ,1.91 Score
LatinTongue69 48 M
1  Article
Big cock   1/20/2004

Latin men have very large cocks


3 Comments, 421 Views, 10 Votes
rm_linny913 64 F
1  Article
Not answering emails.   1/15/2004

I've read many comments from people on this site complaining about others not answering an email. I really don't understand why they're so irrate about it. I haven't been a member very long and have received "many" winks and emails. No way could I answer them all. If I wink or send an email and don't receive a response I don't worry about it or get angry. I just chalk it up to the fact ...


4 Comments, 364 Views, 189 Votes ,8.02 Score
girl on girl   1/14/2004

I have never been with a girl and i am wondering what the best way to find someone who isn't afraid to meet someone as inexperienced as i am. i have tried on this site with not so good results. Is there something else i should say or do?


1 Comments, 41 Views, 53 Votes ,7.12 Score
Miami-Couple69 47 C
2  Articles
"Need Your Advice From Experts" Wifes First Cock While Swinging!   1/14/2004

Im writing this article because I would like to ask the help of other swingers that have experienced this in their marriage. We are a couple that has been soft swinging for the last 2 years. And I want to clarify what I mean by soft swinging, there has been no penetration with our partners only oral. My confusion was that this past week in our regular meeting with our friends, my wife ...


1 Comments, 100 Views, 22 Votes ,6.49 Score
BadboyReg 50 M
2  Articles
Sexual pleasure   1/10/2004

About 2 months ago I broke up with my girlfriend. Recently we gotten back together 3 days ago. Well the time we were apart I started seeing someone else and we would have all types of sex. Anal or oral. Mt girlfriend will let me stickl my finger in her ass but not my dick. I enjoyed the sec with the other person but my girlfriend and I were togerher for 5 years. So shoulf I break it off ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_scubaman000 53 M
2  Articles
mmf 3 some... what if the guy starts to suck your cock   1/8/2004

i was having a mmf 3some and the guy started to suck my cock.. i always concidered myself straight but i seemed to really enjoy it and the woman who i was licking out at the time seemed to really get off on it too and we all had an amazing sex session..do you think that i should have let him or stopped him???


9 Comments, 1351 Views, 67 Votes ,8.43 Score
SweetSurprise3 68 F
16  Articles
What do you think about tattoos   1/6/2004

I was thinking of getting a tattoo on my breast. I hear so many cons..the main one being as you get older and your breast starts to lose gravity...the tattoo starts looking awful. Ladies...some input please.


1 Comments, 18 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
ever wonder what is safe sex   1/6/2004

If you think about it even though you are wearing a condom you can still pass on a sexual disease. For example if you are fingering a woman and then move on to another where is the safe sex. Eating one out and move to another same thing there is no such thing as safe sex unless you stay with one partner and you are both clean. I guess what I am trying to say is you can get serious illness ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
emoticonisdead 29 C
6  Articles
Threesome techniques   1/6/2004

My partner and I are anxious to try our first threesome, but I don't know how I'm gonna go about pleasing two chicks at the same time, it's gonna be awesome, but how do I make them both happy?


2 Comments, 28 Views, 6 Votes ,5.07 Score
rm_KLOONEY 44 M
1  Article
BIG AND SCARY   1/1/2004

i have talked to many many women from online and met a lot too. I have had my share of sexual experiences and i am very good at talking and getting to know people online. The problem that i have with a lot of girls my age is that when it comes down to sex if that is the genuine goal and certain things get said when they find out how im built they get scared.. See im not the longest cock but ...


3 Comments, 141 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
ineedpussy069 51 M
0  Articles
Where's the best place to find an older woman for sex?   12/26/2003

I'm in the market for a sexy, older woman. But, I'm not sure where to go to meet one. How do you know if she's interested in a guy who is as young or younger than her , and is in need for hot sex? I've tried on BookofSex.com, but at most I got a wink and no response from email.


0 Comments, 48 Views, 43 Votes ,7.77 Score
male to male oral?   12/25/2003

i have been so far a heterosexual male with many female partners. only recently have i been, during sex, fantasising about men (oral sex in particular). what should i do? is giving another male head nice? help me...


2 Comments, 67 Views, 53 Votes ,8.14 Score
rm_bikergirl4u 53 F
2  Articles
What about love?   12/23/2003

I am loving a man that can't seem to understand that his crazy life is part of him and that means I am wanting it too.. Do all men think that it is easier to go through life alone? Or is there a man out there that understands that love is love and that it will surpass all obsticals ... ene what they call crazy times... I wish I could understand them..If any one can help me out please feel ...


1 Comments, 36 Views, 28 Votes ,7.55 Score
69Koteliar 39 M
1  Article
Why do some mature woman prefer younger men?   12/22/2003

I've got a question for mature ladies outthere? Why do you some of you prefer younger men and whats the criteria? What does it take to attract and older women. I would kindly appriciate replies from the 30 plus ladies. Personally, I find mature ladies very very sexy, I guess the saying 'Woman are like wines, they get better with age'. <br> 69Koteliar


0 Comments, 34 Views, 107 Votes ,7.51 Score
havinfun89 56 C
1  Article
Is it wrong?   12/22/2003

My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for a number of years. We have always had wonderful sex, whether it was together, or flying solo. Our policy on swinging has always been "no strings attached". My problem is that I have met an amazing older gentleman who just so happens to be great in bed. My husband knows that I have had sex with this man, but he is unaware of the emotional ...


0 Comments, 74 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
DPR1945 67 M
0  Articles
ANSWER TO TOY STORY   12/21/2003

IF YOUR ASS BURNS WHEN YOUR PLAYING WITH YOUR DILDOE, IT COULD BE A FEW ITEMS TO THINK ABOUT. FIRST, DID YOU FLUSH OUT YOUR BUTT WITH AN ENEMA OR WITH A PLASTIC TUBE AND WARM RUNNING WATER, IMPORTANT GET IT CLEAN, ANY RESIDUE COULD BE IRRITATEING. TWO, THE LUBE YOUR USEING COULD BE HARSH TO YOUR STRETCHED ANAL CHANNEL, USE BABY OIL ITS THE BEST, CHEAP AND SAFE, EVEN IF YOU USE A RUBBER ON ...


2 Comments, 696 Views, 29 Votes ,5.95 Score
BadMiGirl32 59 F
17  Articles
RE: BLOWJOB   12/20/2003

Hey there are now 2 women that love to give blowjobs... I love the fact I can bring a man to xtc with my lips, tongue and mouth. Guess I am the type of "serving" woman that wants to give you pleasure this way but I wont bring you a plate of food or clip your toe nails!! *wink* I agree that any woman can please a man through intercourse yet not every woman can do this with her lips, tongue ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 18 Votes ,7.63 Score
rm_MizLiz 43 F
1  Article
Can't Get Off When He's Going Down!   12/18/2003

I can't get off when a man goes down on me. I've had many try, yet it does nothing for me. I actually get frustrated and bored after a minute, and I have to pull him off of me. And I've heard the line, "Well, you just haven't had the right guy do it". That's crap. I'd like to get off that way, I'd LOVE to get off that way... but I think it's just impossible for me. Does anyone have any ...


2 Comments, 81 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
being fat   12/17/2003

so what if your fat, im fat and i can drive a man wild because of experince, like a mans dick, its not just the size of his dick, its how he use's it. it the same with us fat people, its not just what you see its what you get. just wild, wild sex


3 Comments, 87 Views, 13 Votes ,6.83 Score
I want ANAL   12/16/2003

My girl friend has made me wanting to be anal. She was very excited the first time I played with her ass. After my thumb in her, we went on to bigger and better things. Now she can take me with little seduction and no lubication and loves it. She evens orgasms from it. This activity has become our form of birth control (that is when she is fertile, I'll cum in her ass). Being envious of ...


1 Comments, 100 Views, 246 Votes ,6.23 Score
curiousIndoCPL 34 F
1  Article
men 2 men anal sex guide   12/15/2003

1. try to insert one finger ( with lucricant)slowly, follow by the second and the third finger after the anus got used to it <br> 2. After that try with a small dildo and gradually try bigger one after that <br> 3. Please ask the the other guy that this is your first time and do it gently with lots of lubricant, after that relax if you don't it going to hurt ...


2 Comments, 67 Views, 33 Votes ,6.91 Score
Overcoming physical barriers to giving good head   12/13/2003

I'm very petite with a proportionately petite mouth and a strong gag reflex. I can get my guy off quite well on tongue technique and sucking on the head, but when he tries to push deeper I gag horribly and almost throw up. It is not sexy and I have no interest in finding a guy who wants his dick puked on. I would like to be able to give good head. How do I get past my "physical ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 107 Votes ,6.86 Score
69bud69 70 M
2  Articles
What do Women Want?   12/13/2003

OK, I'm a married man in an open relationship. We've been married for over 25 years and been open for over five. However, when a man places an add for an open no strings attached relationship, whether it involves chatting, exchanging pics, web cam or perhaps an encounter, most women are turned off by either the approach or the photo included. However, when I read women looking for men in ...


2 Comments, 54 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Ns4life 49 M
1  Article
No Luck   12/13/2003

I am a personable out going guy, However I have very limited time to find anyone so I use BookofSex.com. So far BookofSex.com has been a bust. Can anyone give some tips on how to improve my results?


1 Comments, 58 Views, 0 Votes
JustL00kin4fun2 49 M
2  Articles
Why does my penis shrivel up after I cum?   12/11/2003

I was woundering if any other guys had this problem, or if any of the woman would help me out. After I cum my penis usually shrivels up to about 1-1.5". It is really embarassing!! I'm 7" hard, but look like a baby 10 minutes after I cum. Also, It takes me about 3-4 hours to get hard again. (I'm 28 yrs old) Please help me!!!!! Is there anything I can take to prevent this from happening, or ...


3 Comments, 80 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
you 'd better enjoy this site with him together   12/9/2003

You should find out what he realy want in bed adn what kind of woman he is looking for here, then make yourself better in bed , I 'm sure he will stop looking around here....hope it helps. Tracy


0 Comments, 35 Views, 68 Votes ,5.34 Score
Disabled partner   12/4/2003

My wife is disabled and unable to satisfy me. I would love to meet another woman for sex but my wife does not approve. I have not directly asked the question but I know what her response would be. I have no intention of leaving her but if she found out it would affect her health badly. I look after her most of the time and do not get out much. I masturbate and she gives me oral but it ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 22 Votes ,6.13 Score
APetiteRedHead 68 F
1  Article
Am I the only that feels this way?   11/28/2003

Have you ever IMed with a person, you've met, you plan a lovely weekend together...and while you are IMing during the week proir to our meeting he disappears? But you can still see him typing? And you ask him a question about the upcoming weekend...and you have to wait for 20 minutes for him to answer??? <br> Am I being overly sensitive...??? But to me, that just sounds too ...


10 Comments, 683 Views, 26 Votes ,7.45 Score
rm_jane07 58 F
1  Article
I Need to Be Watched   11/23/2003

I love to show off my pussy to older men in public. I wear a knee lenth loose skirt with no panties and stockings and boots. I pull my skirt up while I drive to give guys in higher vehicles a better view. Outside, in the park I sit in a way on the grass that shows off my pussy from a certain angle then when a guy I like walks by I give him a show. Often men will sit near so they can get a ...


0 Comments, 129 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
Is it LOVE or just a "Fuck Buddy"?   11/22/2003

Ijust a good friend to him. Basically a piece of ass for his convenience. <br> have fallen in love, AGAIN!! But, the problem is the man I love doesn’t love me. We met on BookofSex.com, and have been seeing each other 7 months. Throughout that time, he has done things that most women wouldn’t tolerate. Nothing major, but still enough for them to say enough. He has treated me like ...


1 Comments, 16 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
smitty613 61 C
6  Articles
please help need refresher on deep throating   11/22/2003

Hi hope someone can help refresh my skills on deep throating.I have done it in the past but cant seem to get there now with the man Im with now.I love giving blow jobs it gets me off every time, but I remember it felt so good taking it down my throat.My man Im with now is much larger but is that the reason? Is it too big to swallow or am i loosing the touch? Is there such a thing as being ...


0 Comments, 180 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
ladynred101661 53 F
1  Article
Re: To All of you "A Little Extra Padding" Girls   11/11/2003

I will agree with you, quite a few people on here lie about what they look like. But I have to add, it's not strictly held to the women. Men do it too....although, you being a man. you probably wouldn't know that. But the women here know what I mean. <br> Last year, a man responded to my ad. We started chatting and I asked him several times for a picture, as I had one on ...


2 Comments, 536 Views, 95 Votes ,9.48 Score
white women riding black cocks   11/11/2003

why is it that a white swingingcple that lets black guys join them gets treated like they have the plauge by alot of other white cples???? we have been told some very crude things by some persons on a site which you cna be certified by the people you have played with. we had to remove a cple of our certifications we recieived becuase of the negative response fromother cples


9 Comments, 486 Views, 13 Votes ,5.16 Score
do or would women like bi guys   11/8/2003

I'm presently only a bi curious guy. It usually only comes to the surface when I'm horny and not always then. I'm straight and have no interest in men romantically. I am not a person that for cheating but so long as the other knows and APPROVES I don't think of it as cheating. I am presently single and not dating and the fantasy part of me would love to have some experiences that an ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 85 Votes ,7.36 Score
Making a woman squirt   11/8/2003

I have always heard that if you can make a woman squirt during her orgasm, it intensifies her orgasm greatly.....this is also somewhat of a turn on! Can anyone advise me how to make this happen?! Thank you in advance!


0 Comments, 37 Views, 125 Votes ,7.51 Score
is my penis too small   10/31/2003

my penis only sticks out one and a half inches and only 4'' when it's hard do women like a short one like this


0 Comments, 48 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Galiem 44 C
3  Articles
Female Orgasms - A Simple Guide   10/30/2003

Okay, so you want to satisfy your partner, and you're slightly insecure with your ability to do so. Well, if you weren't, or didn't think you had more to learn, you wouldn't be reading this. It's okay. Don't be embarassed, or feel belittled. The female body is exceedingly complex, and their sexual nuances are proportionally complex. Additionally, tastes and interests vary from person ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
advice   10/29/2003

I think people who give advice really need advice themselves.People who give advice are hiding the fact that inside them they are the ones who need advice from someone else.So people that give advice here is some advice for you.....stop giving advice and take some your self.


2 Comments, 11 Views, 52 Votes
I would like to try anal.   10/27/2003

Can I get any advice? How do you prepare for it and how can you make it as so its smooth and painless?


0 Comments, 54 Views, 93 Votes ,7.85 Score
datmlvr 66 M
4  Articles
re: what is up with my profile responses   10/19/2003

Man this is a hard one to answer but I think honesty ends up conquering. I think people are interested in what they're interested in. For example I'm in my very early 50's and have been balding since I was 30. I'm used to it and have been told I'm handsome by lots of women who meet me in person. My pictures are not of the best quality and really should be updated but the fact is that a lot ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 21 Votes ,4.98 Score
rm_hanknow 44 M
1  Article
Reply to "I'm I a lesbian?"- Am I gay?   10/18/2003

I am the exact same way you say you are, except I'm a guy! I love women, everything about them- well, almost everything... but sexually, physically, emotionally I am attracted to the ladies. HOWEVER, every now and then I'll find myself fantasizing about a dick. Naturally the dick is attatched to someone, but the person doesnt matter, its just having the erect penis there that turns me ...


1 Comments, 54 Views, 19 Votes ,5.89 Score
SexySWCouple 69 C
1  Article
Anal Sex primer...should you or shouldn't you?   9/27/2003

For those of you who are considering having Anal sex, and just aren't sure of yourselves yet, you probably aren't ready. And if your partner isn't as experienced as he or she should be when introducing someone new to anal sex, it could turn out to be painful, or worse, disasterous. <br> So here is a thought..if you have been curious about anal sex for a while, or have a partner ...


0 Comments, 129 Views, 15 Votes ,6.35 Score
sparkiecouple 50 C
1  Article
how do I gently get her involved in aThree some   7/31/2003

While I was away for sometime...My wife was hanging around with her friend (lesbian). I found out that one night while drinking at home they played cards. Cards turned into strip poker and later into them being intimate. My wife thought I would be mad but I wasn't. I'll be honest here ...at first I wasn't too excited but after thinking about it I thought it was kinda cool. I mean she could ...


1 Comments, 61 Views, 31 Votes ,5.83 Score
luv2deepthroatu 45 F
2  Articles
BBW i love the feel of a bigger woman   7/14/2003

fucking a thin woman is just no fun for me i don't like being hit by skinny women bones protruding from there pelvic areas i prefer the nice feel of some flesh down there it make for more bounce and fun when you are fucking hard and fast, so go ahead ladies don't be afraid to say you are not a skinny minny there are plenty of men out there who love you and would love to make it with ...


1 Comments, 161 Views, 163 Votes ,8.86 Score
Never get caught - -CONDOM USE   7/11/2003

FancyDan2003: Hi Guys, So you've got a partner/wife and you want to fool around with someone else..(p.s this applies to male gay/bi guys and women fooling around too) why do we always think it’s easy to just take a few condoms from the batch we use with our partner/s eh? <br> The advice is: never use those one.. Always buy new ones on the way to your date and remember ...


1 Comments, 58 Views, 94 Votes ,8.36 Score
Weare241 64 C
29  Articles
Give Her a Hand!   4/13/2003

Like most average guys, my cock is only average sized. Yet, my wife has an insatiable pussy, learned about sex from an older cousin with a huge cock and wanted more. We experimented with dildoes. While she enjoyed the size, she found them to be too cold and impersonal. This led to increasingly intense fingering and finally fisting. We typically fuck until she asks to really get ...


5 Comments, 878 Views, 66 Votes ,7.88 Score
Filthy 'Ol Bastard   4/1/2003

What can a girl do, when a very bad older man takes advantage of her and makes her feel thinks that she shouldn't? Why do men do that? Why...why....and why? Why try so hard if it's supposed to be nothing, it just confuses us?


0 Comments, 78 Views, 29 Votes ,2.54 Score
lilbigdawg57 67 C
1  Article
PLAYING WITH MY PUSSY(masturbation)   3/16/2003

i'm a 23 yr old sexual active blk woman very sexy and attractive.i'm always playing with my pussy like 20-30 times a day cumming all the time.seriously can that damage me in the future to a point where as though my pussy won't have any feelings in it.will it stop being sensitive?and me and my man fuck all the time also so i'm way beyond normal..like 10 or 12 times a week..


0 Comments, 102 Views, 37 Votes ,7.55 Score
rm_SWSunset64 48 F
3  Articles
First time for anal   3/11/2003

I tried getting this question answered before, before they didn't publish it, so I'm trying it here. I am going to try anal sex soon for the first time. Any advice on this subject?


9 Comments, 203 Views, 21 Votes ,7.21 Score
help with Blowjobs   3/2/2003

I need advice and help, I want to give my boyfriend the best blowjob he has ever had but I have very little experience. I have a gag reflex that has always got in the way I was told it takes practice.. does anyone have any advice?


0 Comments, 65 Views, 30 Votes ,5.30 Score
garethadr 52 M
4  Articles
RE my own cum   2/27/2003

i like my own cum, its from me and a part of me, probably safer than the town water. when a woman gives me head and she swallows, i ask her to share the sensation by kissing me. When i empty my load into a woman, only after we know each other a long time do we not use a condom, i enjoy licking her clean after. my juices and her juices together make for an interesting cocktail. when ever a ...


0 Comments, 90 Views, 56 Votes ,6.63 Score
Re: Eating my own cum   2/7/2003

Personally, I believe this is a common issue with many men including myself. I am a 36 yr old mwm who enjoys masturbation as much as the next guy. I have much of the same feelings as you and often when masturbating I fantasize about eating my cum which brings me to a tremendous orgasm. After I finish cumming though I don’t always follow through, the urge goes away. This is how I have over ...


1 Comments, 780 Views, 75 Votes ,7.09 Score
abondon AIDS   1/12/2003

<br> <br> Dear friends, As we all know that Hiv has become the life threatening diseases, we should always take the care of each partner and avoid AIDS. Condom is the better way to have the safest sex and one should bring into use withput fail. Thanking you all, <br> <br> Yours truely, ...


1 Comments, 256 Views, 41 Votes ,7.55 Score
rjh72274 60 M
2  Articles
discrimination!   12/31/2002

i would like to comment on the most discriminated segment of society, the single white male. many ads i see on BookofSex.com specifically say no single men need apply. unless your black with a huge penis, they may make an exception. look people single males are in need of love and understanding also. ladies at least give the man a reply of a polite no, instead of ignoring his advance. we have ...


0 Comments, 250 Views, 56 Votes ,7.91 Score
pamper1 62 F
25  Articles
Anal Activity Tutorial   12/30/2002

ANAL INTERCOURSE This tutorial is for all of you who kept asking about anal intercourse. I finally got busy and put something together. I am hoping this will help you out on your sexual journey and that the information I provide for you here will prove useful. Those of you who have been here before will notice that this article doesn't look the same as it ...


12 Comments, 13440 Views, 666 Votes ,8.82 Score
rm_shemaleVIDA 61 F
14  Articles
STRAIGHT MEN WHO SHAVE BODY HAIR   12/4/2002

WHY DO STRAIGHT GUYS FEEL THAT BY SHAVING THEIR BODY HAIR OFF AND SHAVING THEIR PUBES SOMEHOW MAKES THEM "CLEANER" IF YOU WANT TO BE CLEAN? TAKE A SHOWER! DONT SHAVE LIKE A WOMAN. PLEASE. THERES A LOT OF US WHO LIKE HAIRY MASCULINE MEN! DONT GET DE-MASCULINIZED


1 Comments, 133 Views, 103 Votes ,1.74 Score
PORNO??   11/7/2002

How do you get into porno? I don't know where to start.


0 Comments, 27 Views, 382 Votes