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Unrequited Infatuations  

voyeur2017 61M  
197 posts
10/4/2021 9:10 am
Unrequited Infatuations


I recently became aware of a creative term "unrequited infatuations", the title of a memoir by Stevie Van Zandt (E-Street Band member). We have all known unrequited love at some point in our lives, but unrequited infatuations caused me to think about the connections made on BookofSex.com.

It is common on this site for connections to become very intimate, creating a fantasy of something almost "real". Words expressed in writing or verbally and enhanced by visuals are powerful. The "fantasy" usually fades because there is no "syntax" - the touch, the physical interaction- to create the narrative of a relationship.

Then there are those "unrequited infatuations - desiring someone who does not return those feelings or pining for someone that isn't available.

Just my observations in chat rooms during my too many years on this site I have seen many BookofSex.com members experiencing "unrequited infatuations" as they are typically very pubic with their angst.

I also wonder if people that pay for live model private webcams somewhat are experiencing "unrequited infatuations", hoping that more money spent in private cams will somehow result is something "real". Hate to inform them, but live<b> models </font></b>on webcam are purely a business model, where the<b> models </font></b>derive income from the private cams. The better they are at feeding the infatuation of the viewer, the more money they make.

Btw, the book "Unrequited Infatuations: A Memoir" is an excellent read if you like to read about rock & roll.

Just thoughts for the day.
Cheers!

voyeur2017 61M  
1481 posts
10/5/2021 3:26 pm

    Quoting  :

I may just stop in Ontario sometime ... but too early for this voyeur ...my eyes don't open at that time ... I must go review your older blog posts ...
Keith Richard's autobiography is another great read. xoxo


voyeur2017 61M  
1481 posts
10/5/2021 3:25 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    This is an interesting read on "Unrequited Infatuations" especially in the chat rooms that you mentioned here. I think there are lots of members who are infatuated with others here on the site. I think there could be many that are infatuated with many of them cam models, but then there are many who aren't.

    I hope your Monday is treating you well my friend..
I believe unrequited infatuations are very common on the site ... especially in chat rooms when dialogue fuels the infatuation ... sadly, sometimes the infatuations become unhealthy as in stalking ... as for models on webcam ... I am sure they get unhealthy fan members that believe the model really falls in love with them ... $$$$$ for your love ... lol


voyeur2017 61M  
1481 posts
10/5/2021 3:20 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    I've had a few crushes here, though I recognise that they are fantasised thoughts and never act on them.
yes, infatuations are easy to develop on the site ... most are unrequited, but still an enjoyable fantasy as long as you don't become a stalker ...respect their space..


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/5/2021 4:14 am

I've had a few crushes here, though I recognise that they are fantasised thoughts and never act on them.


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/4/2021 12:38 pm

This is an interesting read on "Unrequited Infatuations" especially in the chat rooms that you mentioned here. I think there are lots of members who are infatuated with others here on the site. I think there could be many that are infatuated with many of them cam models, but then there are many who aren't.

I hope your Monday is treating you well my friend..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


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