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Fake it till you make it apparently  

tommywood107 M/F
11 posts
1/12/2022 8:07 am
Fake it till you make it apparently

We signed up for an Gold membership in January 2022 and have been staggered by the high percentage of fake profiles.

As a genuine 'we actually exist' couple it makes us feel like we are in The Truman Show, surrounded by actors with hidden agendas.

It is not that we were expecting none, but the sheer volume of scammers means an already slim chance of finding what you are looking for becomes miniscule.

An email back from's customer service said their 'abuse team deletes hundreds of fake accounts everyday'.

It added there are 'millions of real people' who 'genuinely want to make substantive connections.'

We are certain that was as little a crumb of comfort to us as to the rest of you paying members.

Our newbie status means we are not even particularly sure what the fakers' end game is.

Is it identity theft, a route into fraud or cyber crime, or just desperate men trying to get some wank-bank material? If you know, please tell us!

And if you are one of the 'millions of real people' using then please drop us a line and restore our faith in this system a bit. We are well worth a chat.

Happy hunting you sexy, filthy and - above-all-else - genuine folks out there. xx

SilverFoxMark66 69M
286 posts
1/12/2022 11:10 am

Welcome to & all it's nuances & faults, may I recommend reading the UK / London blogs as I've had some "real" chats with some "real" members on here, including
"blacksuga" who is def bi, & I think there's quite a few others too, or maybe play with your search criteria a few times to widen / narrow your search, good luck & big warm horny hugs to you both, Mark x

tommywood107 M/F

1/13/2022 6:04 am

Thanks for your comment Mark. We'll look blacksuga up now and check out those recommended blogs. x

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