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Am I really a Dom?  

MzNessa870 36F
41 posts
3/2/2022 6:53 am
Am I really a Dom?

For as long as I've been sexually active, I have liked taking the roll as the submissive. Or so I thought. But lately I have noticed that, at times, I can be very forward, aggressive even, when I'm going after someone I want. I flirt, use body language, and, if all else fails, just flat out say something to the effects of " I want you in my mouth" or " let me fuck you". Idk if it's because I'm getting older and have no time for bullshit (just say exactly what I want and skip the discovery stage), or if maybe I discovered I've been wrong about my role in a sexual relationship. For example, a guy I know stopped by the other morning on his way to work. I was having one of my "horny spells", and he was flirting hard. I thought " Fuck it, but we're doing this how I want!". I took that mf in my room for a quicky and, as he was hitting it from the back, I was the director this time. He started to cum and said " open your mouth", to which I replied " go on the floor." and just turned away and continued getting ready for my day. He asked for a towel and I tossed it at him as I uttered " here. Clean yourself up, you slut." As he was leaving, I realized it felt kind of good to be the user and not the used. Don't get me wrong, I love being submissive, but I actually might get off better as the dominant one. I wonder if I have awoken something lately or if I've always just been wrong about myself.

RobK2006 56M
5998 posts
3/2/2022 10:23 am

Sounds like a hot switch up for you.

Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
3/2/2022 3:04 pm

You might be a switch. Some are Dom for one person. Sub for another. I see a male Dom will have a slave or submissive but will be a Dom/top to others.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.

MzNessa870 replies on 3/2/2022 7:27 pm:
I think you're right. I know when I'm with a man mostly I'm sub, but when I'm with a woman im always Dom.

midhard1 67M
325 posts
3/4/2022 8:37 am

Getting older does make one bolder, I have found that out. And, depending on ones mood can make one take sub or dom position.

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