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Jan's Thoughts
Random thoughts of a Transexual
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Just a Reminder
Posted:Jan 11, 2022 11:51 am
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2022 9:44 pm
Just so you don't overlook the significants of this month.

It is JANuary. Best time of any year. A whole month to Celebrate.
The Dick Pic
Posted:Jan 9, 2022 7:18 am
Last Updated:Feb 11, 2022 10:22 pm
The photos some (maybe most) guys post of just their Cock has me confused. I have not been able to understand the WHYs of this.
First of all, am I suppose to decide on meeting this person based solely on a picture, or multiple picture of just his penis?
Secondly, do guys think their cock is that special, or their best feature, that just a picture will convince any woman to have sex?

I believe I'm similar to most woman in hoping a date will involve the entirety of a man, not just his penis. If a guy is serious about arranging a meeting, let me see more of you. If you send me a picture, even fully dressed, I will assume you have a penis. It won't surprise me if you get undressed and I see one .

I will concede that some cocks are bigger than others. However, that is not the only part of you that attracts a potential lover. Historically a man's handsomeness is based upon his facial appearance and to some degree his full body. Showing a small part of you isn't really enough to get a woman interested.

I like having my breasts kissed during foreplay. But if all I posted in my profile were pictures of my boobs would that be enough to get a date?

What's connected to that Penis? Is it 300 pounds of hairy body? Or, could it be you don't want to be known at all? Or, do you just like showing your cock in public?

So many questions, so few answers.

Achievable New Years Resolution
Posted:Jan 1, 2022 5:11 pm
Last Updated:Jan 2, 2022 10:07 am
Seems every year most of us come up with a New Years Resolution that is usually forgotten by the following week. This year I decided have a plan do something in early 2022 that will propel me through the entire year on a positive note and I want share this with everyone.

20222, clean out your refrigerator and pantry. Get rid of all those herbs and spices you bought some recipe that you'll never make again. Throw away that open, slightly used jar of mayonnaise you picked up some sandwich platter last years Super Bowl. Toss out all those barely used bottles of salad dressings. Toss out all those partially eaten cheeses you so carefully rewrapped planning to snack on again. And finally, that loaf of bread you bought a leftover turkey sandwich last Thanksgiving is overdue the trash.

Now, you can start 2022 having already Achieved your New Years Resolution on the first weekend of the year. Well done. Have a wonderful rest of 2022.

Just a Question
Posted:Nov 15, 2021 7:21 am
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2022 7:25 am

Through the week I always get a request or two from some guy asking me to watch them masturbate and "Cum for me".
While I am not being critical or condemning a man masturbation, I just don't understand why me wants me to watch him do this remotely.
I don't mind if a man likes to stroke his cock or even if he says he did because of me. But what does he get from me watching it?
That is my question, Is it different somehow if I'm watching?
What does it add to his pleasure?

Please keep in mind I am in no way turned off by this. I just wonder the reason for this.

The Jan Recipe
Posted:Nov 14, 2021 6:50 pm
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2021 7:40 am
Simple, easy and almost foolproof.





Combine the first two ingredients slowly. Be careful not over mix.
for the wine. White wine during Day Light. Red wine after dark. Cognac can be used as a substitute in a pinch.

After Jan and wine are properly mixed, slowly introduce the Passion a at a time being careful not combine too rapidly.

for readiness by genteelly squeezing a meaty portion of Jan. A soft moan means she's ready.

Garnish liberally with lubricate and enjoy immediately.

Special thanks Richard for creating this recipe. 's become his favorite.

Some things that Bother me
Posted:Sep 3, 2021 9:05 am
Last Updated:Nov 8, 2021 8:58 am
There are some words I see over and over that I just wish would go away. I just don't understand why guys like to talk around things or have have a problem dealing with Transsexuals. You don't have to be cute, just be direct with me.

Clitty - What is that? Some 3rd Grade way to describe what we use when we go Potty. Or does using Clitty help you convince yourself you are still a Macho Straight Guy?

SheCock - Such a crude way to describe a Transsexual's Penis. Get it right please . We're not ashamed we have one so please don't make up words to describe a Penis on a otherwise Feminine person.

Gurl - This is just demeaning term to me. I'm 46 years old and no longer a girl or a gurl. If you use the word Gurl when talking to me, I will automatically banned from any further conversation.. You get that Boyz.

AssPussy - I think it should be one or the other and not a combination to words that just add to confusion to what you want. I know it my Ass and sometimes I refer to it as my Pussy. Either one works for me I don't need one all encompassing term for it.

MMMM - Has the English language become so difficult for you guys that you can only come up with a sound to tell me what you're thinking. Get a copy of English for Dummies and have someone read it to you.

There, I feel better,
Just wondering,
Posted:Aug 14, 2021 9:38 am
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2021 9:00 am
Is it Face Time when you give a Blowjob?

Wouldn't Alternative Sex sound better than Anal Sex? Might attach more interest.

Shouldn't we changed BBC (Big Black Cock) to ABC (Any Black Cock) to be more inclusive? Why not include all sizes.

And if a small amount of an Aphrodisiac was added to the COVID 19 vaccine wouldn't more people be willing to get Vaccinated?

Lover ID
Posted:Apr 6, 2021 8:39 am
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2021 8:37 am
This should be required for every woman:
Why We All Like Cock Sucking
Posted:Jan 4, 2021 8:26 am
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2022 7:26 am
By saying , I mean women and men. Yes, most men enjoy Sucking a Cock. It’s not something only women enjoy.

Cock Sucking is simply an act of pleasure EVERYONE has a taste for. No pun intended. It is as much a part of a sexual relationship as kissing, touching and fondling.

Even men who mostly have sex with women and enjoy eating her pussy have told me they love sucking the outer pussy lips deep into their mouth and stimulating them with their tongue. Similar to sucking a small penis I guess.

I have also asked men who like to suck pussy lips if they would rather be sucking a cock and somewhat surprisingly most men have said YES.

So, why is it that EVERYONE likes, or wishes they could, Sucking Cock?
Here’s my theory;

Of the 5 Senses we have, Cock Sucking can satisfy most of them.

SIGHT - When we have a Cock in our mouth, we never have a closer, better look at it. We clearly see it as it goes rhythmically in and out.

HEARING - We can hear our own sucking sound plus the moans of pleasure of the man we are sucking.

TOUCH - Not necessarily just the sense of touch you get from your fingers tips but the sense of touch you feel with your lips and tongue. The lips are even more sensitive than your finger tips.

TASTE - When Sucking a Cock, if you do it right, the cock produces PreCum naturally . Mixed with our own saliva, this PreCum has a unique and noticeable taste.

SMELL - Not much here unless you can detect the natural aroma of a clean human body.

Combining everything all the senses feel at the same time is truly satisfying and creates a feeling like no other. Add in the emotional content and it’s impossible not to find Cock Sucking a total pleasure.

A note in regards to a Transsexual Cock Sucker, it signifies we have completed our journey into being accepted as a desirable woman. A woman a man will share his given beauty and seed with.

One last comment on a personal note. Of the men I have had sex with, the far, far majority have sucked my small Penis. Some more that others and with more vigor but most of them have tasted me.

In closing, The Cock is King and will ALWAYS BE.

New for 2021
Posted:Dec 5, 2020 12:57 pm
Last Updated:Nov 7, 2021 1:58 pm
Every year the dictionary companies add new words and phases that people have started using in everyday English. Many of these new words are derived from the technology industry however, many of these new words come from the Social Media world as people find new ways to describe an old process (e.g., rub one out) or to add a current tone to an specific word (e.g., Ecoanxiety).

I have put together a list of my own new words I plan to submit to the Oxford English Dictionary Review Board for consideration;

eJANulate - When I cause a man to ejaculate.

Jantasy - When a man has a fantasy involving me.

Janacise - Verb of Jantasy.

Janoff - When a man Jacks Off over me. Personalized form of Rub one out.

JanAss - 1. A concatenation of Jan’s Ass
2. Onomatopoeia of Janice

Januation - When a man moves up to experience sex with a Transsexual like Janice.

Janny - A more precise description of a Tranny like Jan.

JanLand - Magical place where dreams come true.

Jandrogynous - Having both parts of Female and Male Secondary Sexual characteristics (i.e.,Boobs and Penis).


Jantastic! - Exclamation after sex with Jan.

Just thinking this morning with coffee and Cognac.
Sex and Politics
Posted:Sep 24, 2020 8:33 am
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2020 9:21 am
I can’t think of NO better way end a developing relationship or a sexual partnership than introducing Politics in the equation. This, , is the single dumbest thing some people do that will totally sour a relationship.

I recently was in a conversation with a man, a man I had talked to many times before, that was showing real promise. I truly had an interest in him. I found him handsome, in very good shape, an interesting conversationalist, and we shared many of the same interests.

We were at the point of finalizing plans for our first sexual encounter when from out of the blue, he made a Political statement. What he said was so foreign to what we had been discussing, I was stunned to the point of ending the conversation and thus ending all plans for meeting him.

Without going into the details of what he said, I will just say It doesn’t matter his political leanings. I really don’t care what they are. But to go from describing what he would do to my ASS in one breath, to thanking some politician for making it possible, shows my ASS was not at the center of his thinking. My ASS seemed to have become his avenue for stating his political beliefs. Disgusting!

I was prepared to share my body in every passionate way with him and he wasn’t so excited by the thought of having me in any sexual way he wanted, that he couldn’t focus just on that for a few minutes without bringing something totally unrelated.

Just a warning to everyone, If you ever, ever mention anything in any way Political to me, you will be immediately removed from my “To Do” list and banned forever from entering JanLand.

I’m not being Egotistical. I’m just saying Sex deserves your full attention. It is not something to at. BTW, that’s another thing men say that is a complete turn off, “Let’s get together and ”, like SEX is some kind of game.

Guys, don’t show your insensitivity and lack of maturity. Give a woman your complete focus. You will be Rewarded, in the END.


PS, I still can’t believe I almost had sex with this jerk.
The Advantages Transsexuals Have Over Females
Posted:Sep 22, 2020 10:56 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2022 10:22 pm
Beside the many obvious differences between Transsexuals and natural Females, there are several not so obvious advantages Transexuals have.

Lets take a quick look at the more apparent disparities;

Transsexuals don’t get Pregnant. We’ll never show a year after having sex with a man asking for support.

Transsexuals never have the monthly time when females usually abstain from sex. It’s just too unpleasant a “Period” for females to have sex.

We don’t have Headaches that deny men sex. I checked the medical history of this and found no history of Transsexual Headaches. NEVER.

Transsexual do not have Menopause. Theoretically, we will want to have sex forever. We will never suffer Vaginal Dryness and the painful intercourse that it causes.

Now, I want to explain some Transsexual attributes that I believe gives us the real advantage over the ordinary female;

Appearance - I have written about this before and truly believe this is one of the major factors that attract men to Transsexuals. We take the time and effort to always look our best when with a man. Looking beautiful is the most common goal all Transsexual have before meeting with a man or even another Transsexual. We take great pride in being as sexually desirable as we can be.
We spend hours getting every aspect of our appearance just right before a date. The process of becoming as beautiful as we can be is almost foreplay to us. We become aroused becoming glamorous.
We never just grab a shower and flop on our back for sex. Our attention to every detail when preparing for a date is what we enjoy.

Appreciation - As Transsexuals, we know that not every man chooses to date us. For various reasons (not understandable to me) some men just never desire to spend an evening of pure passion with a Transsexual.
Therefore, the men that court us are very Appreciated by us.
Men that respect and admire Transsexuals are the true reason we became Transsexuals. We need the attention of men to justify our existence and satisfy our feminine emotions.

Understanding - Since all Transsexual spent part of their life as a man, we have a better understanding of men. We use to live among them so we have a greater understanding of what men want from a woman.

We have spent time in the boys locker room and know what they talk about and how they think. We know men can just see a pair of breasts or a nice ass and nothing else. We know they don’t always think in terms like emotional connection or mental compatibility. They just see women as sexual objects for the most part.

Since we know this, we are willing to be just that, a Sexual Object. That’s what men want and that is what we are here for. We’re not looking to find a husband, unless he a real Daddy of course.

It’s OK guys, you can Find Us, Feel Us, Fuck Us and Forget Us. We accept that.

Size Matters - Not the size you may be thinking of but our personal size similarities. We are often somewhat taller than most females, closer a man’s size. I have heard from many Transsexuals that men who date Transsexuals will venture into the world of Crossdressing with her. This is not really unexpected to me.
These men have a desire to also be beautiful, even for just a few hours. A Transsexual about the same size can share her underwear and clothing to give a man the same feelings we have when we dress. Some of these men will go so far as to become Sub-Dominate and begin to dream of being fucked by another man.

The FWB Thing - I have never been with a man that did not want to with my little Penis. Although I don’t have much feeling down there anymore, men are fascinated with another Penis and can’t stop wanted it in some way. It has been Kissed, Sucked and even jerked. Things they can’t get from a female.
Yes, we are the complete package. We have everything men desire. We have so much more than a female can offer. We ARE the answer to men’s dreams, their dreams.

Female know they can’t compete with us sexually so they refuse accept us. They insult us, they demean us, they slander us. They will never understand why men prefer us and love us. They don’t and never will respect, appreciate and admire a man’s cock like we do.

Transsexuals should be Proud. We are the better Women.


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