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Why do most people flake before meeting?  

GlenW83 40M
14 posts
1/2/2022 7:06 am
Why do most people flake before meeting?

Its a good question, anyone who os experienced on here has had it happen. You invest time and/or money into a meet only have a no show. What do you think is the most common reason?
My
significant other/cheating
Introvert tendencies
Body insecurities
Safety fears
Other


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Solmich45 69M

2/7/2022 6:54 pm

I think fake pics and dishonesty occurred once with me...the others persons I met were righ on...I don't shoot for the moon when I can have a star...


Opencouple4MFM 54M/52F

1/26/2022 4:25 pm

We are interested!


pollly_anna 60F  
697 posts
1/8/2022 4:39 pm

My one no show............said he was sooooo nervous to meet me, he was in a car accident on his way to the meet........

did I believe him................not a chance!


LordMandrakeJB 68M
666 posts
1/5/2022 6:50 pm

    Quoting BiSussi:
    Many guys use faked pics
    On the pic he has 180 lbs, how should he explain 280 lbs at the meet?
    Penis size appears an issue too, when I told a guy I don't want to meet him for coffee because his \8 is too big for me in case I fall for him, he told me that he is actually just over 6 inches He sounds nice, will meet him when he is in town for coffee, but the dishonesty is still in the back of my mind.

    Oh yes, [post 4433177] to SEX, all I can think about is Making Babies How about you?
    OVER 30 YEARS of making love without condoms and not once ended up with an STD risk management and being selective, believing in LOVE and not >>! every nice looking and sounding man does pay off
So, THAT's what I'm doing wrong! I'm using current pictures, don't lie about my weight, or how much I'm packing, or how old I am. Whoda Thunk... LOL


BiSussi 63F
1405 posts
1/4/2022 4:39 pm

Many guys use faked pics
On the pic he has 180 lbs, how should he explain 280 lbs at the meet?
Penis size appears an issue too, when I told a guy I don't want to meet him for coffee because his \8 is too big for me in case I fall for him, he told me that he is actually just over 6 inches He sounds nice, will meet him when he is in town for coffee, but the dishonesty is still in the back of my mind.


Oh yes, [post 4433177] to SEX, all I can think about is Making Babies How about you?
OVER 30 YEARS of making love without condoms and not once ended up with an STD risk management and being selective, believing in LOVE and not >>! every nice looking and sounding man does pay off


I love pussies and adore nice dicks


Teyjj 56M
4122 posts
1/2/2022 5:10 pm

Meeting someone for “illicit” sex, while intriguing, is still a scary proposition. How it works out depends on not just you but, also, the other party. You have no clue what little thing might throw the other person off, plus you do have to worry about your own performance even before the “date” has even started.


EnigmaInitiative 56F  
6054 posts
1/2/2022 2:25 pm

I really don't think there's one reason that fits everyone.

Shoot, I had a meet one time where I got into a car accident on the way there. Shit happens, you know?

Then, there's others who like to fuck with people and had no intention of meeting in the first place.

I'm sure there's thousands of reasons

This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
1/2/2022 9:22 am

They were never who they pretended to be and are terrified that someone believed their crap and wants to meet.
😬❗❗


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
1/2/2022 8:22 am

Depends on the person. Some never intend to meet. Others caught cheating or could be. If never did it before they chickened out. The person could be there but doesn't like the looks of who meeting. Real emergency comes up.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


GlenW83 40M
10 posts
1/2/2022 8:19 am

Staci i was thinking the same. Happy new years!

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markg109507 39M
24 posts
1/2/2022 8:12 am

Easier to meet in hotel safer for both parties


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/2/2022 8:10 am

From what I've read here many people who have been flaked upon depended on texting to make arrangements. Texting, besides being an awful way of "communicating", does not allow for the parties involved to get a feel (like women's intuition) for the situation.

I always talk to whomever I'm meeting to get a sense of their sincerity and comfort in meeting. Only 1 flake-ish thing has happened. She got pulled over by the PD and they held her for some reason I now don't recall. We ended up meeting a few days later.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


staci_19702 53T
3767 posts
1/2/2022 7:53 am

I voted for the cheaters with significant others. Something ruined the timing or they had a moment of clarity and guilt started to settle in.

Have a great day! 💋
Staci


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