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Blogs > 80sbaby71 > Life in the Nursery~

Love  

80sbaby71 52F
7352 posts
1/18/2009 11:34 pm
Love

As I settle down for the night a thought occurs to me. What is love? I mean I love my . I love my dogs. I love having a shower that works. I love my friends. But in todays age we use the word "love" in a casual way. I think "love" has lost the meaning. I mean when I was 17 y.o. I met a guy, fell in "love" then got married. Suddenly one day my husband tells me he "loves" me but is not in "love" with me. We stay aprt then get back together. 18 years down the road he tells me he "loves" me but there are secrets that he has kept hidden for our 20 year relationship. So what is love? How do you know when you truly "love" someone?
I love my husband. I love my . I love my friends. I think to each person the love you have for them is unique. My husband and I are no longer together, but he is still apart of me. He will forever be my friend and I will always love him. My are very special in their own ways. I love each of them for who they are. My friends are special. I love each one of them in a different way. I know that for some it is easty to say the words and mean them. And for others they have been hurt by "love".
I have been hurt by "love" my whole life. I sought out "love". I tried my best to figure out what love was. And to my surprise I found love. I found the love fairly recently. No it is not a person that i fell in love with. It is the peace that I finally understand that to know love you have to love yourself. WOW!!! And to think it only took me 30 something years to figure it out.
So to all my friends, I LOVE YOU!!!!
horny196364 60M

1/19/2009 5:57 am

 love to chat with you sometime


rm_skellyxx46 66M
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79 posts
1/19/2009 12:12 pm

 damn my last girlfriend told me same thing when i found out she was sleeping with some one else while i was at work.lmao i agrree seems when people a say it any more it dont seem to mean what it use too .or am i out touch? darn if i know. have a great day.


PonyGirl1965 58F  
22090 posts
1/19/2009 3:34 pm

 Amen!! I told you that you would find it baby! When you love yourself and cherish yourself, you have something to give to someone else. I am so proud of you!


FreeYourMindOkla 51M
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57 posts
1/23/2009 12:54 pm

 I hear ya girl. Amazing how long it takes us to figure out what then seems such a simple thing. We love ya too darlin.
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