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xist4more 54M
61 posts
2/21/2019 12:46 pm

I don't think a hole is a hole. I believe it is more what the vagina is connected with both physically and mentally!


newtobrandon99 37M
11 posts
2/21/2019 1:00 pm

no envy at all


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/21/2019 1:20 pm

I agree human genitalia is not very appealing it was made for just what its purpose was meant to be....heard the phrase " bumping uglies" ? exactly what it suggests and what it is ..From a woman's point of view the less we see the better ...pussy on a platter pretty much speaks for itself on here and no wonder the guys are so insane!


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/21/2019 1:29 pm

Definitely don't suffer from 'vagina envy'. I know what mine looks like and really don't want nor need to look at anyone else's. Besides, my vagina doesn't define who I am. At least I sure as heck hope not!


qvillebiman 66M  
373 posts
2/21/2019 2:27 pm

Not being female I don't quite understand the envy part. As a man I will say who the vagina is attached to is way more important to me than the " looks " as you say. That being said if you have pimples warts or bunches of piercings or vagazzle going on I will definitely not be spending any time there.


seingalt23 59M
5565 posts
2/21/2019 2:44 pm

In real life the last thing I see before sex is a vagina and I guess it´s the penis on the other side.
If this starts I´m connected to the woman, I never did care about the look, but I have to confess that the parfum, odour, smell and cleanliness were that moment more important for me, not the look.

Every woman has a different look there. in my view more different than the face ...

I don´t think there is "vagina envy" on men´s side, but I can only talk about myself. Yes, she can come as often as she wants to, there seem to be no limits. But no envy on my side, I simply love to pleasure ...

Giacomo h.Casanova


sexyldy1000 68F  
9607 posts
2/21/2019 2:50 pm

    Quoting  :

Don’t laugh...I am pretty those catalogues do exist at plastic surgeons offices. I wonder if men drop in just so they can look 👀 at the pictures. Can you imagine 🤔?


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
2/21/2019 3:03 pm

Interesting question today as I really don't think about mine honestly. And that MEME by George Carlin 100% accurate, on the best comedic minds ever. I hope you have a great day hun..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
2/21/2019 3:57 pm

You'll never here a woman say to a man; "My! What an attractive scrotum."


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/21/2019 6:45 pm

I think more of it as the orifice from hence a life begins. People are
envious of a lot of things they won't admit.
Have you ever seen an axe wound you could be envious of?

Using more than all the road!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
2/21/2019 10:53 pm

Just thought I'd say hello.
I don't really know much about vaginas. I do find them interesting, when I do.


bulehyatt 65M
1717 posts
2/22/2019 12:42 am

Are women typically happy with how theirs looks?


Hobart is the capitol city of Tasmania, one of the states of Australia - a beautiful state with tons of scenic attractions including mountains, beaches, lakes and wildlife.

The number-one tourist attraction in all of Tasmania is the MONA - Museum of Old and New Art - thus, MONA. And the most popular single exhibit within the MONA is a very long wall featuring more than 100 life-sized, plaster-casts of real womens' labia-lips. Women from ages 16 to 84; from all ethnicities, occupations, religions and sexual orientations.

The exhibit is called "Cunts and other conversations" and there is a long back-story about why the artist felt motivated to create this art-work.

The short version is that the artist became aware of the huge increase in women choosing to have labia-plasties done - basically plastic surgery involving slicing, cutting and reshaping their natural labia to match some perceived prettier pussy.

The artist concluded that if more women simply understood what a wide range exists of "normal" variations, that this might result in less body-dysmorphia . . . basically self-inflicted shame over possibly being different down there.

The exhibit is pretty powerful. It's not pornographic, given that these are plaster-casts . . . not explicit photo's. The sheer variety of labia shapes, sizes and variations is amazing.

Perhaps fair to say that too many women feel self-conscious about whether their lady-bits are "normal". According to me, nearly all the variations I have ever seen - whether in person or via pictures in men's magazines or on the internet - are lovely.

Women should only ever consider labia-plasty if the shape or size of their labia-lips causes them physical discomfort. As for mental discomfort, relax Sugar - trust me - many, many men would doubtless think your pussy is beautiful.


bulehyatt 65M
1717 posts
2/22/2019 12:48 am

By the way "fagina" . . . with a hard "G" . . . is the Indonesian pronunciation of the word vagina - "V' becomes "F" in bahasa-Indonesia, while "G" is pronounced Guh, rather than Juh, like the J sound in the English vagina.

There are slang words in Indonesian for female genitals of varying rudeness - memek and nonuk, for example. But the equivalent of saying vagina is . . . fagina . . . a la the work in your blog title.

Maybe too much information - grin . . .


voyeur2017 61M  
1481 posts
2/22/2019 5:16 am

since the vagina is internal to the body, one should only be concerned on how it looks unless suffering from vaginal prolapse. However, the vuvla and labia is what men and women compare. We compare everything about our bodies whether hips, boobs, dicks or pussy. I recommend not to take it personality; we are who we are.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
2/22/2019 7:15 am

I once met a scotsman of african heritage, his name was Mabawza Ritchie.......

I guess lady gardens can be as appealing and as unappealing to a man (or girl) as mens' bits can be to a girl (or man).


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
2/22/2019 7:20 am

Yeah, another thing I’m self conscious about. That guy who said he doesn’t like pimples? I’ve got ‘em. Or, to be more medically accurate, I’ve been told by gyno that they’re ‘sebaceous cysts’, and no they are not a STI, and no they can’t be removed


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
2/22/2019 9:00 am

We just had a TV programme this week called "100 Vaginas" by artist Laura Dodsworth.

It was a photography project to capture 100 women's vaginas on "film" and document the stories behind them and how they had influenced their lives - some of them were quite traumatic.

Needless to say, she ended up with 100 different looking photographs.

Would I ever say no? I don't know. I think there's more about the person themselves that I'd say no to.

I'm not expert in area, although I do like to stick my nose in from time to time , but I hope the "designer vagina" trend would stop. Perhaps the "ideal" image of a vagina comes from porn films and women are being shaped by that idea. I don't think surgery should be available from a cosmetic point of view. But I'm not the person living with it so what do I know.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


Timj111 43M

2/23/2019 2:32 am

No woman shouldn’t be worried about it.


traveljunkie13 56F
11089 posts
2/24/2019 1:30 pm

I once had a bikini waxer tell me mine was pretty. I've never had a guy complain about how mine looks but...I don't really think guys care. At least not in the moment.


rm_WordsWolf 57M
311 posts
3/15/2019 7:38 am

Not being a woman, can't say whether women envy others' parts, though I suspect some do -no different than any other kind of envy. It's clear there are lots of feelings that others have something we don't.

My perspective on women's parts: Of course - we do have preferences, idealizations - perhaps the reason so many women shave? On the other hand, life hands us the undeniable reality that not many of us fall in love with a vagina (or labia, or breasts, etc.). We fall in love with a person. In fact, many of us lust for women others have told us we should lust for (beauty tropes), but fall in love with people who don't match those tropes, (perfect models, hunky men, etc. are so rare in real life). I look around classrooms where I teach adults and notice how may beautiful women (and men) there are, but how imperfect they all are - and the result is that I feel like imperfection is a form of perfection. Screwy, eh?

I also thought of the prominence of 'glory holes' in porn - we usually assume that something exists on the web because someone wants it, and if that's true, then the anonymous nature of a glory hole seems to indicate that men don't care where their cocks go, as long as they get off. The popularity of anonymous or first meeting videos also indicates that men don't care who they fuck... casting couches, taxi-pickups, strangers on the street, bar pickups, etc. I know those are staged, but their popularity suggests a lot of men like that distance. Not so much about 'vagina envy' as about not caring, as long as it's a hole.

My personal preferences can be subverted easily - while I like petite women who often come with delicate little flowers, I've fallen in love with women with all shapes and sizes of labia/mons... I guess you can say 'I love women, not just their parts'.
WW.


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