My boyfriend has told me that he doesn't mind me having sex with other men, as long as I am committed to him ONLY. He's talked about it enough that I think he not only supports my desire, but actually WANTS this. NOTE: We are moving from the coast to Newberg. We'll be at the coast often, but for business purposes only. Encounters will be inland only, most likely at hotels. I am attractive but overweight 50 year old woman, healthy but not athletic, and very sexual but cautious. I have had a long fantasy of being with two men at the same time, or at least being shared between two men, one at a time. So now that I have a partner who's willing, I'd like to explore the possibility. But only with his permission/approval, because we are in a committed relationship.

My Ideal Person IDEALLY, you are under 38, *not* a family man/married without consent (that's your business, but if I know I won't like it), athletic. You must be STD-free, discreet, have a better than average size cock and able to get and stay hard.
Be willing to:
Wear a condom.
Be watched (not sure if he wants to just watch or actually participate, but no gay stuff.)
Be "efficient" - we're not looking for a long, drawn-out encounter, just some fun, hot penetration.
Not become emotionally attached - this will probably be a one-time only encounter, or only one session per guy (it depends on if we find it as much of a turn-on in real life as in fantasy!)
Realize that he is in control of me at all times. If he doesn't want something done, it won't happen.

I'd love to hear from you. I will filter the emails, and have him look at any that I find appealing to get his approval. A PHOTO ATTACHED WOULD HELP IMMENSELY!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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