Why apologize for your personal preferences.
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Posted:Aug 28, 2015 8:53 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 3:29 pm
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I read so many profiles, actually to many profiles where people apologize for their personal preferences. I actually find it refreshing when someone states what they want, and me personally if I don't fit what they prefer I move on to the next profile. Now I know for everyone that reacts like me, there are probably three that don't, lol. Let's face it, no matter what you put on there, there will always be a certain amount of people that won't get it.
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BookofSex.com THROUGH THE YEARS
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Posted:Jun 27, 2015 4:50 am
Last Updated:Nov 18, 2019 2:59 pm
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BookofSex.com has changed. I have been on BookofSex.com since 2003. I get off and return usually under a different profile name. In that time I have seen the membership really decline, not in sheer numbers but in the quality of the people on here. Any one who has been on BookofSex.com as long as me know what I am talking about. Oh there has always been posers and those who live vicariously through the internet, but they have reached a all time high. Seems as though most people just want to talk of meeting, very few do. You know if I read another profile that states, " I know this is a sex site ", but yet they are somehow surprised or disgusted that someone is approaching them about sex, lol. Then we you have people who use no tact in their approach, mainly men. I have had a couple's profile and know firsthand the sorry way some men approach females on here. The point I am trying to make is in my opinion, success has ruined BookofSex.com. The more popular or mainstream, the more people who were not serious about the lifestyle joined the site. They have driven a lot of the people who were serious about the lifestyle off of BookofSex.com. Now we have many posers and those who live vicariously through the internet. Just my opinion, let me know what you think.
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The Single Male
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Posted:Jun 15, 2015 2:52 pm
Last Updated:Jul 9, 2020 10:46 am
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I read many ladies profiles that I find somewhat puzzling. Many state that unless you are totally single don't contact them, or they state that they know it is a sex site, but they are somehow surprised to find that all guys want is sex. I just scratch my head. That's like going into a shoe store and surprised that all they have are shoes. Ladies let's get this straight, only one main reason men join BookofSex.com, casual sex. I see on many women's profile they will state, "I can get get sex just by walking out the door" or something to that effect. Which is probably true. But a man can find a woman who wants a relationship just by sitting at home, lol. That guy that you think is a great catch, probably ten other women are thinking the same thing. Men don't join BookofSex.com looking for a relationship, we want casual, no strings attached sex. Now that does excuse me or any other male from not showing some class in our approach. But make no mistake, if we wanted a relationship, BookofSex.com would not be my first choice, and it damn sure wouldn't be with a woman that just goes on and on about it in a negative way on her profile.
I know there will be people who read this and say that they have met the love of their life on BookofSex.com, hell I found some great shirts at the Footlocker, see how I tied that in with the shoe store analogy, lol. Second point, ladies just look around at any male you think is a good catch, is he ever quote unquote, "totally single", just sitting there waiting for you to scoop him up. Hell no, let me tell you something, if you find a man with the sex skills and tools that have you climbing da walls, I promise you he is putting them to good use on more than just you. Ask yourself this, in your lifetime the men you have meet that are truly single, what was the reason why, and I assure you they were all frogs. Maybe they were cheap or have no money, but those are few, because if he can put it down, some woman will take care of him. He is one crazy motherfucker, but just think about it. That crazy motherfucker who just attacked the Dallas police HQ, had a woman. And the biggie, he is terrible in bed. But you know what, he probably has more women than most. He knows he ain't that great so he compensates for it in other ways. Whether it be financially or emotionally, he's the guy you can go to when big dick makes me climb da walls has treated you like shit, he is always there with a shoulder to cry on. And you can give him that sympathy fuck, fuck him and make yourself feel better because you brought a little joy into his life, lol. But to find that truly single guy, on BookofSex.com or just your normal walk in life is truly rare. GET THIS STRAIGHT LADIES, A MAN IS RARELY PURELY SINGLE. That is not how we operate. We have and know where to go get sexed. Some of us are maintenance men, others are booty calls, and sometimes we are the reliever for the guy who is a great provider but a horrible fuck. But if we truly have skills in the bedroom, we are never purely single, fact case closed. We even have that one who can't really stand out guys, but when we get together, magic, lol. But once it is over, you move the fuck on, until the next time, lol.
The last point, both men and women are chameleons, we change to suit the person we are pursuing. How many guys have had a woman tell him she only looking to be friends with benefits, then after a few dates start griping about why you can't just settled down. Men on BookofSex.com are chameleons. They read your profile and give you exactly what you want to hear, but not what you want. Think about it ladies, do you really think that a decent guy reading a profile that goes on and on negatively is sitting at his computer thinking boy I want to save her from all those frogs on BookofSex.com. No he's thinking, don't need the drama. So who do you get, frogs with chameleon tendencies, lol. Oh he will tell you he knows your pain and he'll say all the things a prince charming would say, but he is a frog, lol. He's ready your profile where you go on and on negatively about how you have met all these guys just looking for the cookies. So he gives you exactly what you want to hear. He knows eventually you we find out that he's a frog, but if he's played his cards right he's already got the cookies. Basically he has nothing to lose and it is a win for him. In the meantime you update your profile with more negative comments about not wanting to meet frogs, about wanting a real man. But in reality you have killed almost any chance you have of ever meeting a REAL MAN. Now I know there will be people who read this and say, that's not true, i will only say from my experiences, they are absolutely true, and there are always exceptions.
Here is a fact that will probably apply to most women, about 99% of single women looking for that REAL MAN. YOU WILL HAVE TO SHARE THAT MAN UNTIL YOU GIVE HIM REASON TO DROP THE OTHERS. Just use some simple reasonable deductions. Dating to a man is like our stock portfolios, we have some aggressive stocks, some stock that has historically been reliable, and some plan out common stock. You never buy a new stock and just sell all your old stocks because you had a good week, no you see how things work out over the long haul. You know what a real man thinks when he reads, if you got a friend blah blah blah. He thinks, what a lazy women the writers are, she is expecting to come in as number without any effort.
Finally, this is what happens when you home waiting for game five of the Cavs/Warrior series to start, lol.
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