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Posted:Jan 18, 2015 4:25 am
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2016 5:15 am
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We hear this all the time - can't read your profile since I am a free member....so here it is.................................And we set the responses to private so we are the only ones who can see them.....
Junk Pics are a COMPLETE turnoff! Looking for a nice SINGLE non smoking guy between 32-49
We are looking for one or two white single guys for a long term mfm. Single means not married, engaged, living together or seeing someone (can't believe we had to add that!!!).
We don't want to see a pic of your dick (nor hear about it), if fact, we have a bias against the guys that use a junk pic as their profile pic! And if you are rude, crude, or think you will get laid today we are not for you. If your profile name has something to do with your junk, or the words, hard, horney, lick or anything like that - chances are we will take a pass!
We are a long time married couple and this is ALL about her wants, needs and desires. She sets the pace, decides what is happening, and he is the one who makes the contacts, makes the arrangements, and does the first meet.
We have recent and clear pictures available.
We seek someone with personality, fun, sightly submissive, who we would enjoy hanging out with. If you decide to write, one word/one sentence isn't going to cut it. Tell us about you and what makes you special. We aren't seeking a perfect body, nor a 'large package' or a 'talented tongue'. We want someone we can connect with and have fun with. Excellent hygiene is a given, respect is expected and given. After all, if we don't feel you respect us, not going to happen.
Prefer someone within 20 miles.
We are also seeking couples who are interested in fun. She is bi friendly but prefers men.
We are seeking someone between the ages of 32-49 for a mfm. You must be respectful, non smoking, slightly submissive (not into pain just like the not having 2 alphas in the same room) clean shaven (no stubble - she hates that, and not a big fan of facial hair) and able to host in a clean safe environment (no hotels, offices, parks, bookstores, theatres). She has a specific fantasy - after that we can host. She prefers white guys and couples.
If you don't meet the above, or aren't even close, we probably aren't going to be interested. If you are close, contact us and we can talk.
And smoking is a complete deal breaker. So is not being single.
If we hotlist or flirt, we would like to hear from you!
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Just Have to Ask.....
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Posted:Nov 3, 2015 3:36 am
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2016 5:15 am
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We seem to be inundated by guys with junk pics - and it seems that almost all of them "can't find anyone real".
We, as well as most (OK - ALL of the couples we have talked to about it but we are sure there are some couples out there seeking specifics) - HATE junk pics.
We, like the couples we have spoken with, view it as a turnoff. And when we have asked guys why they have it, the most frequent response we get is - "I don't know, everyone else does". Our response to that is "Way to stand out from the crowd!"
Recently we had a single guy ask us why he wasn't getting any replies or interest. Yup, not only did he have a junk pic, but his face pic was not one that was appealing. No smile. Didn't look friendly. Almost a scowl. So he changed it. Haven't talked with him since to find out if it is helping, but the wife stated it was better. (Said she couldn't get over the initial pic - made him look like a serial killer! but it was an improvement.)
So our question is: Does having a junk pic as your profile pic get you dates? How many couples/single women have said - "Saw your junk pic - just have to have it!~"
Looking forward to the interesting replies!
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Just When We Thought it Couldn't Get any Worse...
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Posted:Feb 13, 2015 2:13 am
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2015 3:08 am
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We really thought that by posting out profile, saying what we were looking for, saying how much RUDENESS and being an asshat turns us off, we were making it easier for people to approach us. We were SOOOOOO wrong!
We have found that people have no use for the profile in the blog. None. We will give the address to anyone who wants it- even though it is EASILY accessible - as it answers a multitude of questions. We still get the 'what are ya lookin for?" constantly. When directed to the blog, people don't even bother. One guy even said - "I'm too lazy to go read it - just tell me." Seriously. Too lazy to go read? And you want to impress with that line??
There there is the CONSTANT rudeness whenever we sign onto the messenger. We have had comments ranging from plain rude to downright nasty. It never ceases to amaze us why anyone would ever think that would be a turn on. Which is why the Mrs. REFUSES to chat anymore. Just refuses. She is tired of the classless morons. Figure it has to be the folks 'too lazy' to read the profile/blog and know that wouldn't work with us. Have to wonder - does it work with anyone???
Over the past few weeks we have come across a few people who were almost perfect - just what we were looking for. In two cases, went as far as setting up a coffee meeting to do a meet and greet thing. Neither one happened, and all contact has ceased. Both these folks seemed very interested, and both stated they really wanted to get to know us.
So what happened? We don't know. What I do know is that instead of me having to go sit through "50 Shades' tonight, we would have probably been playing had the person kept the date. It seemed like such a good fit, only to fall apart.
We are even having a rough time getting more than one sentence out of people who email us - even when we respond (and we respond to every email). We like to get to know folks (especially I do - I need a comfort level before the Mrs. gets involved) and she needs to know she is safe. One sentence tells us that we aren't worth the effort. And if we aren't worth the time to put together an email, we know we aren't going to see the effort during play.
There are many things we would like to experience, and a few really fun surprises along the way for the folks we play with - if we can ever find the right folks!
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Lowering Our Standards? Seriously?
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Posted:Jan 18, 2015 4:19 am
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2015 4:55 am
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Recent;y we got an email from someone who did not meet the description- wasn't even close - that we seek. When we informed him that we weren't interested (Our response - Thanks for the interest but we will decline at this time. Good luck).
He immediately responded "Why? Since I don't meet your 'requirements'? You need to lower your fucking standards if you want to meet someone!"
Seriously. He sent that. We are freaking amazed. Wants us to 'lower our standards' so HE can get laid. Wow. Really.
We have no interest in meeting someone who isn't even close to what we are seeking. No interest at all. Which is why we put it in our profile. We/SHE wants what she wants, and we are in no hurry to find the right guy(s).
We will find him, and he is going to be one happy guy!
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When Guys Ask "Anyone Real"
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Posted:Oct 25, 2014 1:12 pm
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2015 1:56 pm
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Recently we have come across a number of profiles with some form of the statement "Anyone Real?" Seriously? You think that will get folks to respond? To prove they are real?
We know quite a few couples that enjoy a date with a single male now and then. We almost all have the same comments - a good guy is very hard to fine. Weeding through the profiles is a bitch. Seems there are a large number of folks who either don't fill out their profile, don't have a single pic, or have only a junk pic and wonder why couples aren't flocking to them.
According to our friends we have talked with, here are a few hints on how to attract someone "real":
Have a complete TRUTHFUL profile. Do not falsely advertise. Recently we saw a profile we liked. Reached out. His profile had information on it that wasn't true - found out talking to him. IF you lie on your profile, you will lie to us. We know that. And we aren't interested.
Talk about what makes you you, and why a couple would have a good time with you. Don't be crude, rude or an ass. Come across as someone we would like to hang out with, and we may hang out!
Most couples we know (us included) value many other things over the junk. So using that as a profile pic is not a way to get the attention of most couples. We will grant you there are some seeking only the large endowment, but from the folks we know it really isn't something they seek. (We don't care. Period.)
For most of us, we do want to see a picture that can determine if you are someone we want to meet. We are drawn to clean shaven, clean cut guys. A few tats? No problem. On your neck/face? She is turned off. Someone else may be turned on, and they are the 'real' couple for you.
There are a lot of "Real" people out here. But we aren't going to respond or even contact you without a good feeling about who you are.
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We continue to look........
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Posted:Oct 23, 2014 11:08 am
Last Updated:Jan 22, 2015 11:00 am
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Well, we took a break for a bit over the summer, talked and decided to give it a try again. We continue our search for the elusive classy single guy. We think they are harder to find than single women!
Recently we thought we might have found one. Well, wrong. He had read the profile, assured us he was in no rush, so we continued contact. We were talking on IM and he was pushing to set up a time to meet me, so he could get the OK to meet her. He suggested that night, and she could sit in the car and wait while we talked, then go to his place! WRONG!
Then, was told condoms were mandatory - possibly even for oral - and his reply was "Why? You guys got some disease???" I had to laugh. Told him we were disease free, planned on staying that way, and then told him we weren't a match and good luck!
Had to share this as it is one of the nicer exchanges we have had- he wasn't rude or crude, and we liked what he had to say. Except for the part about it being all about him and not about her - which came out and we moved on!
Still at a loss over why guys think it is acceptable to be rude and crude, send unrequested junk pics, and generally think they have a chance in hell!
We have a large number of fantasies to live out. Just can't seem to find the right guy!
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What's Wrong With Saying Hi?
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Posted:Jun 2, 2014 11:32 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2014 10:56 am
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Recently we have had a significant number of men, instead of saying Hello, Hi, or any form of greeting, IM us with rude comments. When one was questioned, he stated he 'wanted to get our attention'.
Seriously? A person thought by being rude, that was a great way to say hi? What ever happened to class?
The other we get is a physical description, along with the favorite sex act. Wow. Way to make the lady feel like she doesn't matter, all you are seeking is a warm(and we question that as well!) body!
We try to be polite (actually depends on who is on and the level of dumbasses prior!) and she can be downright brutal when people are rude.
We have been told that couples don't respond to single men. That they have to 'stand out' to get attention.
Here's a few hints. Talk to couples who are seeking men, not just any name that pops up on the IM list with a good picture.(we don't even have a clear picture, and still guys comment!)
Be polite. Be interested in chatting and getting to know the person on the other end - in our case, it could be either if us and you never know.
Have a conversation - bring up sex, or the fact that you are horney in the first minute and we are history. All that does is tell her you really don't care about getting to know her, all you care about is getting your rocks off.
Does that work for some? Sure. Not here.
And lastly, whoever started the rumor that single guys have to display junk shots should be forced to look at them! (Ever notice that most of the comments on those are from men???? makes a person wonder.......
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The Increasing Frustration
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Posted:May 13, 2014 11:36 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2014 10:57 am
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Recently we have been contact by a large number of guys where the profile says single, but they are not. We are very specific in the fact that we want a single guy, single girl or a couple. That is why we are here.
Single guy/girl. Not married. Not engaged. Not living together. Single. Period.
We don't care if "he/she has given permission". They want to play, we are good. He/She 'doesn't play but doesn't care if I do" not happening. We don't care if you aren't getting it at home, or you are in a 'loveless marriage of convenience" (we have heard them both). Don't care. You are not the one for us then.
We are not dumb. Tell us you are single, and you can't host, we figure you are married/living together. Or in the case of one man, living in his parents basement. Again, not for us.
So what is? We seek nice decent honest people. If you aren't telling us the truth, we will figure it out. Once we don't trust you, we walk away.
We are here to find fun and adventures. This is rapidly becoming not fun.
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Profile Views
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Posted:May 4, 2014 3:08 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2014 10:57 am
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Recently we got an email from a guy who was not at all what we were looking for, including a dick pic.
Basically we said that. His response? "Well, I figured it was OK since you looked at my profile."
Pretty sure that we hadn't, we went right to the list of profiles we viewed. Yup, there is was. He was on the list. So, we did some asking around and found that this site just says people viewed your profile when they had not!
So today, did an 'experiment' of sorts. Looked at one profile, then checked. It said we looked at over 10 profiles, including people we have NO interest in and people who haven't been on in over 3 months! We didn't look!
Now that we know that isn't accurate, we have no idea who is looking and who isn't. That makes this even harder to try to figure out.
We only look at profiles of people we think might be a fit. Single guys, if your dick is the first thing we see, we aren't looking. It isn't us.
And that is not a reason to email us and get mad if we aren't interested if you know from reading our profile we aren't going to be!
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Does Being Rude Work for Single Guys?????
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Posted:Apr 28, 2014 8:12 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2014 10:58 am
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We are here looking to meet people, with an emphasis on single guys in the 30-44 range. We've have said exactly what we are looking for, and highly doubtful we will stray from it. We are serious about finding someone, and thinking we may need to move sites to do it.
So, that being said, we have been getting a lot - a lot of IM's from single guys who are seeking couples. 90%+ are rude. And we mean rude. No Hello, no Hi, no I'm _______. Nope. We are getting downright rude comments, and even though we have stated we do NOT want to see dick pics, we still get them.
Very discouraged by the complete lack of class being shown by these guys. Why would we want to even hang out with you if you are rude and crude? One even had the stupidity to say that we should go to Christian Mingles when we said we weren't interested because of his completely crude opening line.
Another met a lot of what we were looking for, except he led with a rude opening line - to get our attention! He got it alright, and got blocked because of it!!!
So we have to ask - Why be crude? Does it work? Do women swoon over the rude lines? Does introducing yourself by saying you want to ram your big dick down her throat work? Seriously why would anyone ever say that before hello???
Here's a big hint. You never know if it is him or her. Act like it is her, and treat her like a lady. Say Hi. Respond to questions decently. Act like you have some class and things will go a lot better. Because if it is him, and you aren't a gentleman, never getting past him. And if it is her, she will block you fast!
Or, continue to be rude, crude and act like an ass. Then you can join the others on the blocked list, and miss out on a great time!
Your choice!
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Why So Many Junk Pics?
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Posted:Apr 24, 2014 7:09 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2015 10:39 am
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We signed up for this site, looking to meet people, and looking for a single guy. Biggest turnoff so far has been all of the dick pics.
We aren't going to be attracted to a dick. We aren't going to want to meet a dick. We aren't going to initiate contact with a dick.
If that's all you have to offer, we aren't going to be interested. She knows specifically the type of guy she wants, and it has nothing to do with a dick.
Want to know what she wants? Simple. A nice, decent guy. SINGLE - no married guys who aren't playing with their wives. 30-44. One who can converse, listen, and if needed follow directions. One that understands this is all about her. Nonsmoker. Can host in a clean safe environment - no hotels. Willing to meet hubby first for coffee/beer and get to know a little about each other.
Picky? Yup. She can be. She is a hot brunette, 5'4, 135, 36c. She has a few fantasies she wants to try, and he is all for it.
We are in no hurry, and will look as long as we need to.
Just understand, dick pics don't get our attention. Nice guys will.
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