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At this point in my life I would NOT hire an escort, but I do entertain the thought. During my mid-20's I spent three days and two nights in Amsterdam and I really, REALLY enjoyed myself.
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My first instinct is to say no....but you just never know. If it was the only way to get you to go out for a beer and a burger with me, I reckon I'd pay you. Do you take American money still? Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Never had the inclination my lady, or even the need But one can never exclude the possibilities Cheers - P
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A total No, never have and never will. especially when you turn down sex on daily basis. I have enough males friends to have sex with, I can't even keep up with them plus the BookofSex.com guys
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Not for sex but would be fun to have a very attractive, tall, curvy, young (18 to 22) lady on my arm and go to a party where my prudish friends are, just to see their reactions. “For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Much like this site Visit my Blog for my adventures.
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12/16/2016 5:50 am |
Personally no, I would not pay for sex. But that said I am wondering how do you draw the line between paying for sex and bartering for sex. In my younger days there was a time or 2,3 mmm 13-14 that I did car repairs for acquaintances for favors, So did I pay for sex by doing the work or did they pay with sex for my work....chicken or the egg my friends, chicken or the egg?
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I'm A Tranny CD Sissy Gurl And I've Worked As A Paid Professional Escort!
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haven't but not to say I never would. depends on the situation I guess.
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Probably not.... but there HAVE been those times when I've considered how much fun it might be to pay a super-smoking-hot male escort to accompany me to say.... my 40 year high school reunion!
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Please Allow Me To Clarify I Was A Paid Professional ESCORT (Not A Hooker!) ... Sure I Had SEX If I Consented To It! BTW Nothing Against Sex Workers But For Your Information= ESCORTS Do Exist Out There Guys!
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If I were wealthy enough I might do it from time to time. It's just a business arrangement really. . Like getting a massage.
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I answered "I have" but I guess it depends on what you mean b y "escort". Were just being polite (and maybe dodging around getting this post censored) or did you TRULY mean an escort (companion only - no sex)? My "yes" refers to going to a legal W-house out in Nevada with several buddies during a convention out there, Quite and adventure and fun! See Paying for It Guiding Santa My Keywords, on HNW Adding to My Talents [post 3312759] My Private Blog – Tell me All your Secrets
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I'm a trans girl, and get offered more sex than I can handle, so I would not pay for it, but I have met some guys, that had they offered to pay me, it would have swayed my decision on not being with them so... In either case, I don't see anything wrong with it at all. I think everyone should be able to do what they want as long as they aren't hurting anyone else. If someone wants to offer tompaynsomeone to be with them, and that person accepts of their own free will, then it should never be a problem.
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I know some escorts, and I know plenty of sex workers, so I'm not opposed to the idea of paying for sex. But... I haven't, and the idea doesn't particularly turn me on. I guess it is all relative. kk The observant make the best lovers, I may not do right, but I do write, I have bliss, joy, and happiness in my life, Kitkat Come check out my blog KItkat1415 check out this post by me Adventures In Body Grooming #39 April Topic Link: What Lies Beneath If April Showers Oh Bloody Hell What Kind Of Weather Turns Me On Bloggers Symposium 40
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I am male and would never pay for sex [post 3920468] Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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When I was younger, never needed to pay.......unless you count paying for drinks n dinner. Romance her heart, tease her body, enjoy the company shared in bed n out! Treasure every moment spent together, in good times n bad! Cum visit my blog, you're always welcum! submokey Become a watcher! THINK PINK!
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it's better to pay to undress a woman than to dress her up
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I voted I am female and I would never pay for sex....
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Do you mean you would condone it even though you don't do it personally and therefor you do not condemn those who do? Please clarify, thanks.
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I'll admit, yes i have paid in the past. Why lie about it ? I don't give a rat's ass what anyone says, there's no such thing as free pussy. your paying for it one way or the other.
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12/16/2016 3:15 pm |
Never would I do that. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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12/16/2016 3:30 pm |
I can't keep up with the free cock out there as it is ... I foresee never having to pay for sex.
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I never have, but if she were your identical twin, well then.......
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We are a couple and neither one of us have, nor would we BLZCPL
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Yes ,, I paid for an escort. She was terrific,no sex involved just stood in at a meeting and dinner as my wife.Had a great time and conversation later on after the b.s. we went to. Meet up with her 6 months later, booked a room for a week-end. had great sex, and great company and it didn't cost a thing above the regular stuff for the stay We are still close..
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I am a women and I would hire a women to eat me, and do as i say.
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does going to massage parlor's count?...\8 Feathersnoil4U
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we all pay for sex in one way or another so yes i have paid
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my girl will pay to see that
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As long as you're safe and it's consensual, live and let live.
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As a couple no.
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I have never hired an "escort." I have visited "red light districts" in various places where it's legitimate and enjoyed my encounters there. That was my younger self. Trying to satisfy the question: 'what's so good about a pro that it's worth paying for?" The answer is nothing. If anything, the connection desire and mutual attraction may have been missing. Yes, it still works. But, it's not my favorite kind of encounter. Most of sex for me is pleasuring my woman. Knowing that I'm dealing with a woman that will moan and behave like she's genuinely being pleased, though it's part of the service, is unappealing.
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No I never, but I have been to a few functions where people in high positions had many of them at their party's!!! One Holiday party about 4 years ago, I soon as I walked in the lounge there were two sexy women doing a very hot "69" together!! The whole room smelled of Pussy!..and it was wonderful!!
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if she looked like you i would
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Bucket list item!!! Still working on it!!!
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I've never hired an escort but I've certainly thought about it...if I could afford it
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1 post 12/17/2016 3:07 pm |
Yes I have, many times. Some of the best sex I have ever had was with a provider. Plus, it's the only way an old fart like me is ever going to get young pussy!
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As a couple absolutly
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You rent cars, don"t you? Not a hole lotta difference in my book! Sometimes you want something hot and new! We are all consenting adults. And it's the oldest profession on the books!
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I have, on multiple occasions and for both men and women of course.i find it much easier to get what I want in a man by being able to request it in advance
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i will never be desprite enough to have an escort
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My wife and I are too good looking to have to pay for sex! haha
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I would hire a male escort for a public function no sex just company
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I know enough people of either sex to drag someone along to a party or event if I needed a friend, the question is sex at the end of it...if you want guaranteed nsa sex then fine.
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no matter one way or another we all pay for sex
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I prefer the gigolo with the shaved head. what's his name? I would but i'm bdsm so my Dom would have to approve it. You cannot conceive the many without the one.
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No.
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Not really in need and there are other ways to be entertained for the money it would take and the fun of the hunt weather I score or not. Have you ever?
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big no to paid pleasure
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I've paid for sex
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I have..and as a relief measure it is effective but only as a last resort
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I have once, I was looking for something very specific and had the means
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I never have. There's a certain evil cruelty in knowing that's all that's left.So I never will! Using more than all the road!
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12/19/2016 2:31 pm |
escort? I don t go anywhere that I need an escort.. but pay for sex.. yes.. I have done that.. I met a guy on line that after we chatted for awhile offered his wife. and seems they both get a kink out of renting her out. and does massage parlors count? I have done them too.. face piles of trials with smiles.. MOODY BLUES please feel free to visit my blog happy blogging
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I never sex in my life so If I need to pay for sex why not? I will pay if i get good body to fuck and lost my viriginty.
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1 post 12/20/2016 3:16 am |
Nope never paid for sex. Had plenty of inquiries as to being employed lol. New Zealand has legalised sex working although you have to apply to the local council for certification if there is more than five workers under one roof. A lot of girls run there business from home to save on tax and certs.
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12/20/2016 6:48 am |
For a special occasion, I would definitely do it.
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12/20/2016 10:53 am |
A man walks into a bar, sets down next to a women: Would u have sex with me for ten thousand dollars? She looks at him and says, Yes! How about a thousand? She thinks a bit and says, Yeah! How about a hundred? She says, Hey what kind of a lady do u think I am???? We've established that, we're haggling price now...........
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I have certainly entertained the thought... I've come very close while away on work or vacations. Looked through the phonebook even called for specifics but never followed through with it. A comment someone made above hits the nail on the head.... or two comments; one, I know far too many people I could always drag along.... the other..... well I have no face pic so you'll have to take my word for it when I say I'm easy on the eyes and have never had difficulty hooking up. I have friends who pay escorts occasionally for the privacy aspect...... As of yet I have not, HOWEVER; I'm open to the possibility!
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I wish I could find one in my area. I would love to hire an escort!
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escort or not. I prefer a woman who stands out, confident, and sexual. Should ask how many men have been escorts. Not many.
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12/20/2016 6:41 pm |
hi pretty i love this site
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True Missy..probably because it loses its effectiveness with every time without the connection and is also expensive if one factors in a good escort who is doing it of her/his own free will and for her/his own objectives.
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12/21/2016 6:33 am |
Pay for an escort, sure, have done that back when I was younger and out on the road and didn't want to spend the night alone. Would I do it again now, later in life, sure, if the right one comes available. I have an old girl friend that worked as an escort in her younger years and is still a pretty hott gal and is contemplating going back into the trade, once her divorce is out of the way, so I'm seriously planning on moving her back to the area and providing her room and board, so guess that means I would be hiring her also.
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I have thought about it, but it would require a specific situation for me to want to pay for it. I usually don't need to. I have thought of being a gigolo like the show, I see you've watched it alot, but my self-confidence is not quite high enough I think. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women Things i miss most about relationships
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in the position where wife is ill and not have had sex for 14 months now, yes i would but still would feel guilty i think
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I guess in a way we all pay for pleasure
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Do BunnyRanch Babes count?
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I am sure to do it in very near future. planning for while?
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12/24/2016 2:19 am |
so fuckin would if i had a chance. sadly i live in a small town so there is nothing like that around here sighhh. iam so fuckin tired deppressed and being alone. and jerkin my dick off all the time.
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12/24/2016 12:43 pm |
HILARIOUS how most of you are not having problems hooking up but yet your on BookofSex.com. You pay someone to drill a hole in your tooth, fix your car, cut your hair...etc Yet you don't wanna pay to get your dick sucked or to shove your dick inside someone pretty LOL you all got life fucked up FREE has no value and SEX is never free
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The majority of men just want sex, companionship or both. They don't want the hassle and stress a relationship may cause. So I don't see the issue or problem with the escort. You are essentially paying him or her to leave.
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12/24/2016 5:00 pm |
havent yet but definitely would
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I think you can do with ur ass watever the hell you want ...freedom
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I paid a prostitute a few times when I was in the army, but that was years ago. I like the emotional part of sex.
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1 post 12/25/2016 8:19 pm |
No doubt... be assured pleasant enough company i imagine
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Sure it could be very exciting the best is to give her so much pleasure!!!!
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12/27/2016 5:31 am |
if I have to pay for sex we may as well be married.
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as long as shes hot
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Have never done it, the thought never hit my mind, and I never thought it a good idea. But lately with all my issues, maybe paying for a person to give me a one night not one hour will release all this built up tension from the past few years of serving and not being served. It would be interesting, maybe not judgmental, wouldn't mind probably letting him eat me and a nice 69. Which I haven't done in almost a decade.
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For me, this is all about being wanted. So to pay someone means I'm not important to her, not her focus, she doesn't desire me ....
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Don't think I would hire one, wish my wife were one, though! Mr Desire
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12/28/2016 7:51 am |
NEVER CONFUSE Sex for Love.............I think 99% got it wrong Sex is like a activity it can have emotion but it is not Love
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I thought about paying a guy for sex many times in my 20's and 30's. I've battled obesity my entire life and felt worthless for a lot of that. I grew up hearing from my family that no man would ever want me if I didn't lose weight, and I believed it. I was a virgin until I was 30 and I thought about paying for sex because I thought that's the only way I could get it. I joined BookofSex.com for the first time instead (mind you, this was 15 years ago now) and found that men did want to have sex with me. Granted, it wasn't great sex and I settled for what I thought I could get until I finally got my sex life right a few years ago. Now that that's all behind me and I'm in tune with my sexual power, I would still hire someone. I'd be paying for the exact experience I want. I don't find it demeaning at all to pay for sex or be paid for sex (not that I have been). Several people have said, and I agree, that there's no such thing as "free sex". No strings attached does not exist. Everyone wants something, whether it's money, love, companionship, erotic sensation, passion...there's something.
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Totally have paid for sex and probaly will continue to do so, as it gives yousuch a wide variety of ladies, ages, races etc. One left on my bucket list is a TS/TG as round here they are very hard to find
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It has crossed our minds more than once, We were so tired of getting canceled on at the last minute....
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I haven't paid for sex as the sole purpose of our meeting. That being said, I was in a long term marriage (30 years), with children and paid dearly for that. I dated many ladies before and after my marriage and there were and are financial and emotional costs associated with that also. I did not get into the kind of sexual dating which this site and others supposed to project until after marriage and a few vanilla relationships. NSA, well to a certain extent...there always seem a certain amount present. Right from the beginning part of our involvement after my marriage, I specifically told them that is any long term healthy relationship was to thrive, it would be the decision of both of us and not just the lady. Well they all agreed at the beginning and during the course of the relationships the lines in the sand kept being re-drawn more towards the lady than mine. To me, a lady should want to be with me as much as I want to be with her and at this stage in my life, I should not have to pay just for the "privilege" of sex and or companionship. Is that not prostitution? Can two people just enjoy the moments they spend together and really enjoy themselves without all the "strings" involved. Well yeah in a perfect world. If a lady does not want to be with me, then I do not want to be with her either emotionally or sexually. I just find it to be so much better living mostly alone and happy venturing out every now and then and dipping my toes into the water. I currently have a couple of sexually minded ladies which I satisfy that part of my life. Will I ever find my true soulmate? Prospects don't look too promising now. And with so many ladies not financially secure...well let's say they have alterier motives.
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In response to Miss Shy, I agree the flow is very important, we don't want to cause any distractions. ...\8
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I have n the experience was not worth it
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sex for me is something out of this world.. its god gift and you can never pay for it.. i Really value each and every encounter.. so can never pay and lower its standard...
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1 post 1/12/2017 9:37 pm |
It is not something that has to be done but it's been here since the first day and I don't see how it can stop
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It is very nice, sometime to have a professional in a threesome with your partner, she makes very funny besitos
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I would do with out before I pay for it. You never know when you are going to end up as part of a pay for play sting round up...hope you have a good lawyer!!!
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1 post 1/20/2017 7:00 pm |
yes we strongly agree with Shannon , free has no value
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At some point it can be necessary to do so...
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1 post 1/25/2017 5:54 pm |
The comments on this are definitely very interesting, I think many people have a judgemental attitude on either the people providing the service or the person seeking it, and a lot of us have deep convictions about it for one reason or another. Personally, and I'm sure other men would agree, one way or another we always pay. Whether a date, a gift, and so on. I respect the fact that its cut and dry to get an escort. Both parties know exactly what they will get. No games, amd i respect the skill set the women (or any sex trade professional) have, and i think its that skill set that is what someone pays for. For an hour you feel like a king! Then back to normal life...
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Having read through all this, i have gone from "I would" to "I should probably start charging as there are a Lot of very good arguments here" Probably better i finish fixing up my looks before i do that. But in all seriousness, Babylon's whores embodied it best, people will pay for many kinds of company, be it erotic and intimate, conversational, general touching and tenderness, Intellectual debate.... They say never do something you are good at for free, when your skill is people skills or advice or whatever, wouldn't escorting be the correct answer? if you wish to enjoy an evening is it better to go to a concert of professional musicians or your local amateur garage bands? Is company not to be measured in the same way? those that are social, or philosophical, or romantic, or sexual for a casual hobby, or those that treat it as a mastery, ever to improve and refine, something worthy of Professional attention?
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Not I've never paid to have sex ... in fact I have been for some time .... stripper, entertainer women and gigolo ... but that's enough ...{=}
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each to ther own. so many reasons why you should and the same why you should not.
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