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Am I just…
Am I just… I don’t know… I don’t have the right words… but I was just left scratching my head after hearing this. I’m out and about, driving, radio on, when I hear the DJ talking about a woman, wanting to divorce her husband. No big deal right? Happens all the time… hardly news worthy… except for her reason. It wasn’t the usual: he was abusive, he became an alcoholic, she is not sexually or emotionally fulfilled, or… wait for it… she found his BookofSex.com profile. Nope, none of the above. Her reason for wanting a divorce.. HER HUSBAND IS TOO NICE! Thoughts please… Find pleasure in giving pleasure |
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I can SORT of understand it. I had a girlfriend once who was very sweet natured and even tempered. Apparently nothing anyone did pissed her off. A girl she worked with treated her very badly, and my girl would not even say that she disliked the woman. In fact, she went out of her way to claim that she liked her. My girlfriend was not killing her with kindness- the other woman thrived on this and needed to be smacked. It drove me nuts. I never would have stopped seeing her for this reason- she wanted marriage and I didn't- but I suppose I can see where there could be some personality conflict when someone refuses conflict under any circumstances. It seems shabby on the face of it but he might not be the right man for her. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Maybe he is too nice to other women? Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I can SORT of understand it. I had a girlfriend once who was very sweet natured and even tempered. Apparently nothing anyone did pissed her off. A girl she worked with treated her very badly, and my girl would not even say that she disliked the woman. In fact, she went out of her way to claim that she liked her. My girlfriend was not killing her with kindness- the other woman thrived on this and needed to be smacked. It drove me nuts. I never would have stopped seeing her for this reason- she wanted marriage and I didn't- but I suppose I can see where there could be some personality conflict when someone refuses conflict under any circumstances. It seems shabby on the face of it but he might not be the right man for her. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Being a pushover and being nice ard not the same thing. By I understand what you are ssying. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Didn't you see this before the "I do",for did he change? Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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There has to be more to the story! You can be to nice, as someone else said, to the point of being a pushover, or never stand up for yourself. To can be to nice, to where you lie about stuff. Someone that is alway nice, I think, is one of those people that you don't want to be around when they finally blow up. I need a really great kiss!!
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Alcohol and depression will definitely impeed someone's decision making ability. I have heard of nasty people pretending to be nice... but I have never contemplated the reverse. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Oh yes... that's what was reported Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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There has to be more to the story! You can be to nice, as someone else said, to the point of being a pushover, or never stand up for yourself. To can be to nice, to where you lie about stuff. Someone that is alway nice, I think, is one of those people that you don't want to be around when they finally blow up. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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wait, you mean I'm not enough Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Most women are assholes-bitches-cunts and dont deserve decent quality guy! they get treated like shit by asshole guy cuz that what they deserve! Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I'll put in a good word for you. I don't mind being called nice, some see me that way... others not so much. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Well if he never told her he was on this site. Shame on you! He gets what he gets from her. I am sure if he was up front and honest she might have understood. Finding your hubbies profile on this site is something that really has to be discussed. Why are you still married I would say.. hugssssssssssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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"Ok... but don't you figure that out before the "I do"" If we could figure everything out before "I do" we wouldn't have either marriage or divorce. I sympathize with your position here. It sounds awful, dumping a guy for being nice. But are you sure you're getting the whole story on a radio station? It's hard to know exactly what is going on in a relationship. I had a very good friend who was nuts. He was a sweet guy and a very good man, but he was nuts. Not the PC term for it, but.... His wife finally couldn't take any more and filed for a divorce. A lot of folks were cussing her for dumping him, quoting "for better or for worse" but they can't have known what she went through. I didn't have to live with him, and he made me want to tear out my hair sometimes. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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Human beings are very complex. Hugs! A única alegria isenta de amargura é a de bem proceder.
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Hmmm.. Only thing I can think of is I do like a man that can tell me "no. " I see it as a form of being "equal". If he says "YES" to everything I want versus considering what he'd like as well... it simply wouldn't be the relationship I want. It would qualify for me as he'd be to nice. I would leave him and I have in the past.. I want to grow with someone versus be his queen. Make, sense?
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She's an idiot. ~~Anais Nin~~
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You may be right boner... it seem to a lot of people marriage and divorce is like change socks. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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I just don't see being nice and lacking confidence (or being a pushover) as going hand in hand. This seem to be the feeling of a lot of women... but then it comes full circle when I hear about how selfish and prickly former partners were. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Yes definitely. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Well if he never told her he was on this site. Shame on you! He gets what he gets from her. I am sure if he was up front and honest she might have understood. Finding your hubbies profile on this site is something that really has to be discussed. Why are you still married I would say.. hugssssssssssssss V Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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"Ok... but don't you figure that out before the "I do"" If we could figure everything out before "I do" we wouldn't have either marriage or divorce. I sympathize with your position here. It sounds awful, dumping a guy for being nice. But are you sure you're getting the whole story on a radio station? It's hard to know exactly what is going on in a relationship. I had a very good friend who was nuts. He was a sweet guy and a very good man, but he was nuts. Not the PC term for it, but.... His wife finally couldn't take any more and filed for a divorce. A lot of folks were cussing her for dumping him, quoting "for better or for worse" but they can't have known what she went through. I didn't have to live with him, and he made me want to tear out my hair sometimes. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Human beings are very complex. Hugs! Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Hmmm.. Only thing I can think of is I do like a man that can tell me "no. " I see it as a form of being "equal". If he says "YES" to everything I want versus considering what he'd like as well... it simply wouldn't be the relationship I want. It would qualify for me as he'd be to nice. I would leave him and I have in the past.. I want to grow with someone versus be his queen. Make, sense? Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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It's a head scratcher for sure. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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She's an idiot. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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So this type of thing is not an isolated event. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Agreed Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Too nice is not a fault Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Giving away all their money may be considered as more foolish. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Some people are annoyingly nice... Some of the guys who have come to see me over the years have decided to discontinue seeing me because they said I was too nice. I would find an overly nice person a bit too martyr-like and saintly for my tastes and people who are too nice tend to be very boring, sexually. NICE, YES! SUPER NICE, NO THANKS! Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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Depends how nasty we are talking about... No spanking or hair-pulling and I'm probably there. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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That may be it. a lot of bloggers have echoed that position. Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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haha, yeup, maybe... Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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don't know
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don't know Find pleasure in giving pleasure
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