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"Cat-ism" #2 - Get out of one mess before you get into another  

catinthelou 58F  
28 posts
4/19/2014 7:13 am
"Cat-ism" #2 - Get out of one mess before you get into another

All too often, people decide their current relationship is broken to the point they need to become involved with someone else. Unfortunately, this takes away energy and time from getting out of their current relationship. If it goes on long enough, you WILL eventually get caught....and then act surprised when their significant other becomes angry and vindictive...SHOCKER! So if you find yourself unhappy in your situation, you have two choices....fix what you're in or get out. Otherwise, someone(s) are going to get hurt!

1bighammer1000 58M
4304 posts
4/19/2014 8:35 am

 I do agree with You Cat, I am pretty much in the same deal now, she is ready to get out of a relationship, but seems to be holding off.
Anything worth doing is worth doing right


catinthelou replies on 4/21/2014 9:59 am:
I assume you're saying you are involved with a woman who is still in a relationship. That's a tough one...and being the one that is "waiting" is especially difficult. Uncoupling is very difficult and complex and only those involved can set the timeline. That's why it's best to not become involved with anyone who isn't single. Sometimes life just doesn't work out that way though! Good luck to you...and hope you don't find yourself having wasted a portion of your life on the sidelines.

FFlintstone36 72M
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4/19/2014 7:43 am

 I disagree. It is possible for a man to love more than one woman at the same time and if he openly communicates that he is multi-amorous, the female then has a chance to experience something different. Without risk there is little to gain.

"Pleasures in this world are few...choose wisely!" anonymous


catinthelou replies on 4/21/2014 9:55 am:
Oh, I'm not so sure we disagree. I think we're just talking about different scenerios. I completely agree that someone can have deep feeling, even "love" more than one person at once but if you aren't ready to be monogamous, that's fine...just make sure that anyone you're involved with knows it's not exclusive. What I was addressing was a monogamous relationship in which one partner decides they need to go outside the relationship to fulfill a need.

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